So If “Marriage Is A Business”...

Ashley Banks

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Would/did you sign a prenup for that emotional spiritual connection?:sas1:

You dudes are so irritating, honestly. You guys ask questions in anticipation of me giving the “wrong” answer so you can say “If it was a spiritual connection then you wouldn’t have a problem” blah blah blah.

Why not just ask a regular question, without the agenda. Anyways, yeah we signed a prenup, it was mostly a suggestion from our counselor since both of our families are pretty well off, he didn’t want there to be any suggestion that either of us were in it for money. But had my husband been the one who suggested it, I wouldn’t have had a problem especially if it made him feel more comfortable. Because marriage is a big decision.
 
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You dudes are so irritating, honestly. You guys ask questions in anticipation of me giving the “wrong” answer so you can say “If it was a spiritual connection then you wouldn’t have a problem” blah blah blah.

Why not just ask a regular question, without the agenda. Anyways, yeah we signed a prenup, it was mostly a suggestion from our counselor since both of our families are pretty well off, he didn’t want there to be any suggestion that neither of us were in it for money. But had my husband been the one who suggested it, I wouldn’t have had a problem especially if it made him feel more comfortable. Because marriage is a big decision.

Well that's the only way I would agree to this "spiritual connection"

even if you say its not a business... there's a lot that can be lost... like one breh put it this "spiritual connection" is either for life or 50% of your assets

thanks for sharing
 

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No...that was a mutually beneficial partnership.

Beyonce was in the same class as the rest of them
singing broads until “Crazy In Love” and “‘03 Bonnie & Clyde”.

Jay woulda been just fine without her.



Marrying Kim didn’t do chit for Kanye’s career/life
Nah Kim definitely elevated him. If I remember correctly dude was in some serious debt before shyt popped off.
 

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Dudes more willing to have BMs than be married. If you don’t even have money then what do you have to lose?
There wouldn’t be any BMs if the women didn’t require marriage before having a baby.

If not that means she wanted to have that baby. Women that don’t want a baby don’t have any.
 

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Half of what?
Property, trusts, business, etc.

I'm not talking about college kids in love with nothing to lose. Life don't even look the same after 30. If you've got something to lose, goals included, then you gotta look at marriage differently.

You're literally investing in each other.
 

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Property, trusts, business, etc.

I'm not talking about college kids in love with nothing to lose. Life don't even look the same after 30. If you've got something to lose, goals included, then you gotta look at marriage differently.

You're literally investing in each other.
Does the average man have that kind of income?


Usually men that have BMs don’t want marriage. The dudes who are most interested in marriage don’t have kids.
Doesn’t make any sense.
 
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