No! Someone else's misery does not make me feel better about myself.
So I'm old, uneducated and broke
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JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
I feel sad for no reason at all sometimes, sometimes depression just pops out of no where so I kind of know how you feel. When it gets to this point you just enjoy the pleasures in life. At 40 you may qualify for testosterone replacement therapy and it could possibly improve your over all quality of life as well as your outlook(it has been shown to improve mood and confidence in some men) your body will also look a heck of a lot better especially if you work out your gains will be ridiculous. Just don't go over bored with it and follow the doctors prescribed amounts. You will look and feel better and possibly have stronger erections(some men actually have worse erections afterward). But I warn you STAY in the care of your doctor on this stuff. Some people neglect just how much our hormones play a part in our everyday lives and performance. Get a better body have a better sex all while getting your education.
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agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
I'm glad you were able to find some advice OP. Please stay positive and keep going. I would say to apply to a different job, whether it be full time . Change your scenery and surround yourself with positive people.
Clayton Endicott
Superstar
This. You don't have any kids, so that's a plus right there as far as driving OTR. Plus you'll be on the road, which will make it a bit easier to not trick your dough away so you can pay those predatory for profit fakkits off faster.
Get to know the business logistics side of the biz, then you can become an owner/operator, and do your own thing on get contracts yourself. Then you'll be
. My cuz down in Mississippi is killing em. He runs his ass off at times, but dude has some major bread.
Cat piss martini
Veteran
get you some corn rows and a fat
white bytch.
white bytch.
get you some corn rows and a fat
white bytch.
OC's finest
All Star
Depression is a serious thing
Life isn't about money and success
Just find what makes u happy
Get a puppy
Meet a girl
Join a church
Get some help bruhs, u sound lonely and sad as fukk
MalikX
Superstar
@Cuzo this is what im doing rite now. Been at it 15months and loving it.Best move ive ever made
Living out the truck. No expenses except food, car insurance, phone and i send $ home for my daughter.
You have no kids so you extra good. Sacrifice 1 year out your life and then find something local where you are home every nite.
I thought about doing this last year. Applied to a school but, I had a speeding ticket and got caught driving without insurance
The driving school said they couldn't take me I always wanted to get a CDL but, they made it sound like i was unhireable. That was almost 17 months ago (car insurance thing). Do you think I can get into one of those schools (Swift, Prime)?
joeychizzle
光復香港，時代革命
It is never too late to improve on your circumstances. You feel like there is no aim in your life, and you don't know where to start.
Well fukk it, just start somewhere. Anything you have or had an interest in, expound on that in detail to yourself and take steps indulge yourself in that hobby.
For example, I always wanted to have a fish tank, but didn't want to make the effort. For years.
Then one day I just bought a tank, goldfish and some other shyt and just like that I was a fishkeeper. Actually now I have shrimp but yeah you get the program.
Don't despair breh, there is always light to be found if you flip over enough rocks.
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Just try again I believe your record should be clear after certain number of years it just depends on your stateI thought about doing this last year. Applied to a school but, I had a speeding ticket and got caught driving without insurance
Theres always someone else who has it worse and im one to talk cuz at times i want to leave also...try to clear your mind or engage in an activity to take your mind off of yur problems...life is a bytch...true...do volunteer work give to others...if u feelin this fukked up then imagine someone else even more fukked up go find them and help them...you have to become the victor and not the victim...truth be told men dont get in their prime until mid 40's and 50's...and even then there are still late bloomers in the world of success to draw from...google people who got success in later years...trust me you're not the only one going thru this shyt...be easy on yourself...forgive yourself and love yourself...thats all one can really do...peace!...
Rarebird77
Pro
How much work do you do with the disorder that you have? You should network within that community would be a great help to you to find funding, support, jobs, meeting women. I know it sounds strange but truthfully you need to embrace that part of who you are fully so it can open a whole other world to you.
I think security is a good way to go and maybe even stay. Might not pay the highest wage, but it's steady and stable depending on where you work you can make a decent wage. You won't be wealthy by any means, but you will have steady work and with effort the ability to make more money.
My uncle has worked security for 20 years. He has health insurance and a 401k. He's not rich but able to support himself.
Also, learn how to save and live within your means. Saving and paying debt on time is more important than anything trying to be a high wage earner at this point. Get an earnings report from Social Security (it's free just go on their website and they'll provide it for you to detail to your wages from the time you started working up until now) it will give you a good idea of your actual earning potential in real time. Set a goal to double that based on the data you get from that report (it will give you a hard look at how much you wage has increased and how long it has taken you to increase by year) within the next 5 years. So$30k should become $60k. Figure out what jobs in the field your in pay that amount. Figure out what gaps there are between you and that job. Fill those gaps and then apply for those jobs once you do.
Ask yourself the question, how much money do you need to make to feel like a success? What is that real life number (it's different for everyone). Write that number down and look at it often. Set a time line to reach it. Figure out what position within the field you've chosen you need to make that money. Ask yourself if you got it in you to be the person who has that job. If that answer is no, proceed, if not, figure out how to make up for the shortfall some other way (side hustle, 2nd stream of income, etc.)
As far as getting married and kids, that just takes a realistic look at yourself, your values, and your likes and dislikes. Take race off the table. Take other superficial things off the table. Build your ability to handle rejection, date online, tell other people you're looking to find someone, participate in singles events in your area.
And get a therapist or at least join a support group (see above about sickle cell they might have a good one). It's hard to change your life on your own. Don't expect yourself to be able to handle every burden solo. Get some help.
Never give up!
I think security is a good way to go and maybe even stay. Might not pay the highest wage, but it's steady and stable depending on where you work you can make a decent wage. You won't be wealthy by any means, but you will have steady work and with effort the ability to make more money.
My uncle has worked security for 20 years. He has health insurance and a 401k. He's not rich but able to support himself.
Also, learn how to save and live within your means. Saving and paying debt on time is more important than anything trying to be a high wage earner at this point. Get an earnings report from Social Security (it's free just go on their website and they'll provide it for you to detail to your wages from the time you started working up until now) it will give you a good idea of your actual earning potential in real time. Set a goal to double that based on the data you get from that report (it will give you a hard look at how much you wage has increased and how long it has taken you to increase by year) within the next 5 years. So$30k should become $60k. Figure out what jobs in the field your in pay that amount. Figure out what gaps there are between you and that job. Fill those gaps and then apply for those jobs once you do.
Ask yourself the question, how much money do you need to make to feel like a success? What is that real life number (it's different for everyone). Write that number down and look at it often. Set a time line to reach it. Figure out what position within the field you've chosen you need to make that money. Ask yourself if you got it in you to be the person who has that job. If that answer is no, proceed, if not, figure out how to make up for the shortfall some other way (side hustle, 2nd stream of income, etc.)
As far as getting married and kids, that just takes a realistic look at yourself, your values, and your likes and dislikes. Take race off the table. Take other superficial things off the table. Build your ability to handle rejection, date online, tell other people you're looking to find someone, participate in singles events in your area.
And get a therapist or at least join a support group (see above about sickle cell they might have a good one). It's hard to change your life on your own. Don't expect yourself to be able to handle every burden solo. Get some help.
Never give up!