So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....

[Lucky Millionaire]

I'd Be On His Porch Tomorrow Like






















DDDDad?

i wish i could rep this post twice

haven't laughed this hard off a post in a while im fukking dying

 

[Bledswole]

You went through all of this trouble quoting everyone you didn't agree with for what exactly...?

Like I said before, a lot of you morons operate mentally like teenage girls that just let emotions dictate how you react to things. Nobody has answered why someone is owed their parent's child support money yet or why a fully functioning adult would you even accept even it if that was the case

And now these clowns have switched the topic to a convo amongst themselves about reparations instead of answering a simple question

IDIOTS

 

[Bledswole]

Every single one of those dudes is remedial. One of those nikkas needs to put his shirt back on

Real shyt,nikkas on here prove everyday just how dumb they are.

 

[BocaRear]

Sue that man for your mother's sake. She raised that man's children whilst he was out with some thotties and never contributed.
Nah, you need to secure the bag as other posters put it.
He doesn't deserve millions and a happily ever after.

 

[richaveli83]

Were the winning numbers your birthday

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[O.T.I.S.]

So, my deadbeat dad won the lottery a couple of days ago. He has, for the most part, ignored me since me and my mom divorced when I was 6. I even became close with my little brother over my dad neglecting him as well after my dad and my little brother's mom separated.

My first thought was "meh, good for him". However, now I am starting to feel depressed because friends and family up north keeps reminding me over and over that he won.

"You know your dad is a millionaire now, right?" I'm almost 28 years old, and we haven't spoken in years, that has nothing to do with me.
"You need to reach out to him" up until 2013, I would call him once a year to tell him happy birthday (which is today), and I would never hear back from him, so I stopped.

"He might be looking for you" he knows where my family is, if he had any interest in talking to me, he would know how to find me.

I think I may be suffering from this for a while. Yes, I work for myself, and I feel like I am on my way myself, but I still resent him for him not being there. Not being there to give advice. It makes me not believe in Karma anymore. It makes me not believe in anything anymore.

One of the things that drove me the most was so he can see who I have become, and feel bad that he wasn't there to help. Now, that will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too prideful to just reach out? I need some help on this one.

Edit:
My mom never put him on child support.

I don't have any of his contact info. I would just call him for his birthday, but have to get his number through other people because he changed it so often.

I never badmouthed him to my little brother.

The root of this isn't the money, it's my anger that he was never there for his children, and spent the money he did have on friends and girls using him (they would even brag about it).

I was just hoping that there would be one time in his life where he would say "I wish I was there for my kids" more, and reach out or something. Now that he won the money, he probably never will feel that way. That's what bothers me.

fukk him honestly

And I would tell any relative to stfu if they keep reminding me of that shyt

 

[Critical Distance]

Can you imagine OP's father walking around like he's a normal human being and not an absolute scumbag who abandoned his kids?

 

[Mensch Fontana]

Let that man live OP, you wasn't shooting with him in the gym

 

[joeychizzle]

Continue to tell your pops happy birthday as you would every year. Don't mention the lottery. Don't expect money. You made it without him before, you can make it without him now. Stay up and (forgive my rudeness) fukk him.

 

[Edub]

Have a millionaire deadbeat dad brehs

I'd Be On His Porch Tomorrow Like






















DDDDad?

 

[Mordith]

Sue that deadbeat for back child support

1. Back child support only exists if OP's father was ever put on child support.

2. Most states have a statue of limitations on collecting back child support.

Here's the non bird reason for reaching out to your father OP. You want to keep tabs on him because if he dies as long as he doesn't have a will you will automatically be an heir to his estate and stand to come up on some bread through inheritance.

 

[Forlife44]

A bunch of dead beats in here. Probably the same nikkas that was praising 4:44 defending a dead beat dad.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

OP says his mom never put him on child support. So that ship has sailed. Dude is probably gonna skip the country and change his name. And nada can be done.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Lets see:

You only call your dad once a year, on his "birthday"

You developed relationships with his other kids (and probably shyt on him)

And you call him a deadbeat (we know how u feel about him)


And u expect anything from him?




U aint getting shyt

I ain't wanna be the one to say it.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Rob that nikka

And this is why if I win and it's public, I'm disappearing. Smh.