So the tables have turned....

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PeridotPuss said:
10 years older with 2 kids and pressing you out :patrice: listen to them red flags. I smell a not-shyt nikka :dame:

Where the baby mother (s)? Why he not with her/them? How old are the kids?

Girl....:patrice: and you met on Tinder?... :francis:

My guess is he think you young, naive and childless so he can go full court press and play act like he like you soooo much game to crack them panties early and often and then....the mind/emotionally fukkery begins .....and it becomes clear why he's single with 2 kids and dating women 10 years his junior ....:yeshrug:
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yes, met on tinder one is 14 the other is 8 he is divorced his kids belong to his wife.
 
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It's starting now which is why this thread was made. I won't sure if I was just not giving him a chance and I was tripping out or what
Kidd Dibiase said:
you'll continue to be annoyed by him...

its gonna go from y'all haven't spoke all day to why didn't you answer your phone or why didn't you call me back.

then you'll be accused of random shyt
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KinksandCoils said:
:francis:

Imma catch hell for this one:pachaha:



So I official understand how men feel when a woman always bugs them about not texting and not calling as much as they would like. shyt is annoying.

Needy people are annoying.

I started talking to this man I met from tinder. He is 36 with 2 kids . The conversations we had started off great. I could be myself, it was just real chill. We vibed off of liking the same shows like power and just other random stuff. And for once I finally came across a respectable man that wasn't talking sexual to me. Cool...

So we take our conversation to the phone. And every time I talk to him he starts whining when I have to go. As if Im supposed to not have shyt to do. I'm the type of person that doesn't like to talk on the phone in front of other people. So when I talk on the phone I like to be alone and free to talk (especially for new people)

So I finally met this man and we went on a movie date at one of those places that serves food while watching the movie. I had a nice time and I thanked him several times for taking me out. Every since that night which was the 26th of sept. We have texted and talked a couple times.

Now this guy keeps acting like he hasn't heard from me as if we haven't talked or texted since.
:why::why::why:


He works either 8 or 12 hr shifts where he is home around midnight

Am I tripping for not feeling like talking on the phone then?



Could this guy have a possessive trait about him.
I'm absolutely terrible at detecting RED FLAGS:beli:
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He's trying to show interest and that he is interested only in you but at the same time he is smothering you. The whiny whiny shyt is a no no for sure. He should absolutely fall back. You should just tell him that he is kool but that you don't necessarily want to talk on the phone all the time.
 
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KinksandCoils said:
He's divorced. his reason is that when he would work out of town his wife would spend the money on random shyt instead of paying the bills. He got married at 23 because he got his wife pregnant. He did say he loved her as well. That's all I know about her.
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They still fukking
 
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