So there’s really men outchea who automatically disqualify high earning women

[Piff Perkins]

you're correct but at the same time, even at the level, a woman's income generally still isn't what attracts a man, even at higher socioeconomic levels. people of similar socioeconomic classes interact mostly with each other so incomes will be similar. A woman's income is just not one of the top things that attract men to women.

That's not the point. The income is the qualifier to even be in the game. They're interacting with people who make good money: their friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. It's not that they're seeking out someone who at least makes six figures...that's just who the social circle includes. Which is why lawyers end up marrying a doctor. Completely different professional friends but mutual friends, mutual environments (gym in a high income neighborhood for instance), mutual interests (fundraiser, country club, etc) bring them together.

Some six figure dudes marry women who are homemakers and nothing more. Some six figure dudes marry kindergarten teachers. But on average, higher income men date/marry higher income women. And they pair their resources for mutual goals: moving to best neighborhood, joining the best country club, getting their kid into the best private school, paying for the best tutor, etc. If you've spent any time in suburbia you've seen this play out. These women look down on homemakers, too.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Black male culture needs to grow up and move beyond the want to be pimpin culture.

 

[O.Red]

Black people discuss dating politics too fukkin much

 

[alpo]

Black male culture needs to grow up and move beyond the want to be pimpin culture.

its these goofy nikkas who cant let go what happen in school

 

[Ohene]

This mentality is why the black community is the way it is. I don’t ever see other men act like women earning money is bad. Ever.

Instead of thinking of the FUTURE, your LEGACY, your CHILDREN, their educational prospects…you are more concerned about the idea of a “disagreeable high earning woman”.

How many high earning women have you ACTUALLY dated? I’m talking 100k minimum, for you to come to the conclusion you did about their agreeableness?

Honestly all these responses prove how fragile the male ego is. Y’all rather lose out on 60k+ added to your household and childrens lives YEARLY because you *THINK* high earning women won’t agree to wash your drawls when you want.

Lord have mercy.

lol spoken like an idealistic loser who has prolly never dated women
My ex girlfriend made 110K after bonuses btw. Think she got stock options too. You dont know what youre talking about so bounce

 

[mag357]

I always wonder why a woman being educated and financially stable isn’t a plus with men but then they cry when they get took to the cleaners by a broke woman or the woman thinks the man should pay for everything.

Of course it’s not the only determining factor and it doesn’t replace other qualities but if she has everything else wouldn’t having her own be another positive? Y’all really wouldn’t be able to choose, with all other things equal, between a woman with money and a woman working at McDonald’s?

What men value are different than what women value...

Security (money)... power/confidence (that comes with experience, education physical strength).
Those are the things women value in men.

Beauty, youth, loyalty tends to be the thing most men can agree on as what we value the most.

If money and intelligence was something men naturally valued, someone like Oprah or some scientist would be highly sought after.

But check out the threads that are made here...
Beautiful women are what we want...

Most men with their shyt together don't give a fukk about what a woman makes.
That's her money...

 

[mag357]

Man hell naw. A nikka could be making a billion dollars and knocking down a bytch staying in a $1200 a month apartment. Do you know how many bytches living solely off the support of nikkas with money? I’m not saying you lying. I’m saying that’s generally not how it goes. By default you gonna be around people of your status more, so the more money you make, you may be around women who make more. But at the end of the day, the average man not giving a fukk how much money a woman makes.

A lot of times in these threads, people don’t really make the distinction between fukking these hoes and having relationships with them. I’m always looking it from the perspective of fukking these hoes. At the end of the day that’s always my initial goal with these hoes. I’m just trying to fukk. Anything else will happen as it comes. But I think a lot of responses be geared towards relationships. And lowkey, that’s really the issue. Stop tryna be with these hoes. Too many expectations. Just go have fun.

You're smacking the shyt outta these nikkaz



I ain't even gotta say nothing

 

[The_Sheff]

Na I don’t disqualify them but I don’t give them any extra points either

Ding ding ding.

Women don’t get extra points for making money and having multiple degrees. Men don’t care about that shyt.

 

[mag357]

I agree. But do better than the girl at McDonald's though.

But why though...

What makes her worse than the doctor with the degrees and college debt.?

Their occupation.

We looking down on badd bytches who put the salt on McDonald's fries now

 

[Ohene]

That's not the point. The income is the qualifier to even be in the game. They're interacting with people who make good money: their friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. It's not that they're seeking out someone who at least makes six figures...that's just who the social circle includes. Which is why lawyers end up marrying a doctor. Completely different professional friends but mutual friends, mutual environments (gym in a high income neighborhood for instance), mutual interests (fundraiser, country club, etc) bring them together.

Some six figure dudes marry women who are homemakers and nothing more. Some six figure dudes marry kindergarten teachers. But on average, higher income men date/marry higher income women. And they pair their resources for mutual goals: moving to best neighborhood, joining the best country club, getting their kid into the best private school, paying for the best tutor, etc. If you've spent any time in suburbia you've seen this play out. These women look down on homemakers, too.

if youre talking about 40 year olds making millions of dollars sure

but you act like the average dude isnt going to simply be living in a large city and talking to random chicks on the street...or swiping right on dating apps with random chicks he is attracted to.

physical attraction will ALWAYs. ALWAYS be the spark. Whether or not a nikka just wants to fukk or seriously date you is where the other stuff comes into play

 

[Starski]

Threads like this show me a lot of y’all are about that 6 figs 6 certs life

 

[mag357]

Until your child brings home some math homework and all y’all looking at one another.

But that's coming across as the bytch flipping burgers is retarded and can't help I child with their homework.

Like all housewives back in the day, had degrees...

Realistically you'd be lucky to get alot of free time with a "high earning" woman...
So don't expect her to be there helping the kids with math homework too

 

[BigMan]

That's not the point. The income is the qualifier to even be in the game. They're interacting with people who make good money: their friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc. It's not that they're seeking out someone who at least makes six figures...that's just who the social circle includes. Which is why lawyers end up marrying a doctor. Completely different professional friends but mutual friends, mutual environments (gym in a high income neighborhood for instance), mutual interests (fundraiser, country club, etc) bring them together.

Some six figure dudes marry women who are homemakers and nothing more. Some six figure dudes marry kindergarten teachers. But on average, higher income men date/marry higher income women. And they pair their resources for mutual goals: moving to best neighborhood, joining the best country club, getting their kid into the best private school, paying for the best tutor, etc. If you've spent any time in suburbia you've seen this play out. These women look down on homemakers, too.

You’re literally describing my life lol. I agree with you but I think it’s more about class then income

like a male lawyer isn’t going to choose a female doctor over a female lawyer simply because the doctor makes more

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

I have 3 high earning concubines in my rotation as of now

All compliant.

But I will say this. High earning women have a tendency to be non compliant & that’s an issue for most men. A lot of them have penis envy & want to be men or atleast think they do (without the responsibility or accountability).

Fortunately for me, I put these women on an attitude improvement program & they are better for it.

And it feels good knowing they can pay their own way plus treat you sometimes. Tequila, Mexico here we come!

The bro spitting facts. I have a little 6 figure splitta right now and if I need anything… it’s mine.
I don’t care what you have because when I hit you with the “wave” you remember who I am and who you are

 

[Prodyson]

I always wonder why a woman being educated and financially stable isn’t a plus with men but then they cry when they get took to the cleaners by a broke woman or the woman thinks the man should pay for everything.

Of course it’s not the only determining factor and it doesn’t replace other qualities but if she has everything else wouldn’t having her own be another positive? Y’all really wouldn’t be able to choose, with all other things equal, between a woman with money and a woman working at McDonald’s?

Well the obvious choice would be the woman who is high earning, but I think the point is that when making a determination about whether or not to get involved with a woman, the amount of money they make is waaayyyyyy down on the list. We don’t want a bum, but you making a lot of money doesn’t do anything for me because I have no expectation of you spending it on me in any significant way. If you have a decent job that allows you to comfortably support yourself, that’s enough.