So there’s really men outchea who automatically disqualify high earning women

[malbaker86]

Idk if yall heard the WHOLE bit on the podcast but he actually expanded on what he said and made sense:

50:45 mark

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

idk about auto-disqualify but my dude says he prefers to be the breadwinner and seems insecure that he isn't. he's always talking about catching up with me

good luck to him cuz im outta here

at least i'm motivation

 

[Lemons]

I'm saying if my friend tried to hook me up with a doctor i never for a blind. my first question would be "what she look like though.?"

But that’s not what you said.

This is understandable. Men of all classes want attractive women. But to act like high earning men give no fukks at all about the background and financial state of a woman is very very false. Only men who don’t give a fukk about their/their children's future would act like a woman’s background, job, title etc means nothing.

My point was that the men who Keisha flipping burgers has access to and the men who Keisha the Optometrist has access to are not the same. They are not competing for the same men, which is what you said. I’m saying that’s false.

 

[BigMan]

I really don’t care what you have to say.

You can’t build generational wealth if you continue to attach negative qualities to ambitious and hard working women of your community. It’s not gonna work. Y’all are more worried about “agreeableness” than the legacy you are building and leaving for your children. That explains why the community is in disarray now. SOME of you don’t give a damn about LEGACY. Your children. Your future. None of it. You’re more concerned about how a woman can arbitrarily cater to you and your needs.

let me guess, you one of those “high income" woman who can't find a black man "on your level" archetypes. Yall are sad really.

 

[AllHolosEve]

-Majority of dudes I know won't do it because they're insecure with a fragile ego but they'll never admit it. They're terrified of losing their control & respect to a woman if she's on an equal level. When I was dealing with women who made more than me people were shook, wondering how I could do it.
-It's the same fear white people have for us & I find it pathetic.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Threads like this continually highlight that most men here don't make a lot of money, don't know people who make a lot of money, and generally are behind when it comes to anything involving relationships. Men who make a lot of money tend to date and marry women who make a lot of money. The highest income brackets constantly align when it comes to marriage. Doctors marry lawyers. Attorneys marry engineers. CEOs marry dentists. This is just how shyt goes, and if you ran in those circles you'd know.

A broke man saying he doesn't care how much a woman makes is telling you he's scared of the lack of control. She's in the drivers seat financially and you can't handle it. Admit it and keep it moving.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

I'll only disqualify them if they're those trifling chicks who want to spend all my money while she holds hers

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Idk if yall heard the WHOLE bit on the podcast but he actually expanded on what he said and made sense:

50:45 mark

White always been bytchy

Threads like this continually highlight that most men here don't make a lot of money, don't know people who make a lot of money, and generally are behind when it comes to anything involving relationships. Men who make a lot of money tend to date and marry women who make a lot of money. The highest income brackets constantly align when it comes to marriage. Doctors marry lawyers. Attorneys marry engineers. CEOs marry dentists. This is just how shyt goes, and if you ran in those circles you'd know.

A broke man saying he doesn't care how much a woman makes is telling you he's scared of the lack of control. She's in the drivers seat financially and you can't handle it. Admit it and keep it moving.

Facts
You won't meet many nikkas with bread married to poor women

Culture clashes would occur

 

[alpo]

Where y’all be finding these nikkas at? Lil bitty ass nikka act like he turning down premium p*ssy cause of a salary requirement. Then got two goofy looking co-signers giggling after every word. I implore y’all to stop seeking advice from these colored pill taking ass nikkas.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

is this a real question?

it's about power

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Some (a lot of) women with good jobs tend to have their heads up their asses and sometimes that can be a bit annoying and problematic for a man.

It's similar to women that like to throw their degrees up in a man's face as if that's a turn-on.

 

[BigMan]

Threads like this continually highlight that most men here don't make a lot of money, don't know people who make a lot of money, and generally are behind when it comes to anything involving relationships. Men who make a lot of money tend to date and marry women who make a lot of money. The highest income brackets constantly align when it comes to marriage. Doctors marry lawyers. Attorneys marry engineers. CEOs marry dentists. This is just how shyt goes, and if you ran in those circles you'd know.

A broke man saying he doesn't care how much a woman makes is telling you he's scared of the lack of control. She's in the drivers seat financially and you can't handle it. Admit it and keep it moving.

you're correct but at the same time, even at the level, a woman's income generally still isn't what attracts a man, even at higher socioeconomic levels. people of similar socioeconomic classes interact mostly with each other so incomes will be similar. A woman's income is just not one of the top things that attract men to women.

 

[alpo]

She exists but she wants 2Pac in a business suit, is that you?

Nice

 

[EndDomination]

Weirdo shyt

 

[UWasntThere]

This,
High earning women seem to think they not competing with homegirl working the fries at mcdonalds but they are.

I gotta rich pawg in rotation. Works in private equity. Every time she puts her platinum card down to pay for dinner the servers gives me the
.

I give her the “bytch don’t fvck this up for me” face

That being said I’ll still knock around a bytch with 3 roommates if the azz is right and she’s nasty

 

[raoulduke187]

all I want is a 40+ divorced rich ass sugar momma

keep ya boy dressed fresh and bout that bedroom action with no drama involved