So there’s really men outchea who automatically disqualify high earning women

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If dating equals more than fukking, why even be serious with someone you wouldn't marry?

If it's just fukking yeah I'm with you

I mean, the main issue with me an women is I’m never fully committal and never serious on some real couple shyt with them like that. I’m actually probably the worst nikka to be giving relationship advice. I’m bad with relationships.
 

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I said all things equal, I also said that the money doesn’t replace other qualities, looks included. I mean like if you like them both equally why wouldn’t her being ambitious/successful/smart put her ahead? Because he was saying it doesn’t earn you any extra points why not? You would really be stumped choosing between McDonald’s fry cook Halle berry and doctor Halle berry?

The point is that it is pretty low on the list of considerations. There are so many different considerations for the majority of men that career being the tie breaker is unlikely.

I cannot remember the last time I was influenced by how much money a woman. That being said, the traits I look for in women usually results in them having a good career ( doctor, accountants, pharmacist to name a few :jawalrus:).
 

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just gotta watch the penis envy, them trying to whip out their metaphorical dikk, and them trying to be the man AND the woman in a 2 person relationship.

other than that, i dont do build-a-broad shyt, i dont mess with broke chicks
 

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i don't agree with son but personally i hate a broke bytch intensely. don't even breath next to me you poor bytch

the thing with a high earning chick is that 1) you still have to spend money on her, 2) that money generally isn't yours so what's the point, 3) a lot of women think their money makes them better (newsflash ladies men aren't women we don't think like that)

also men like to feel NEEDED. a woman saying i don't need anything but i want you is the most unsexy thing to me IMO
 

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Is this gonna turn into the next Ren & Stimpy or whatever them b*stards name was that y'all couldn't up about at the beginning of this year? :unimpressed: Dude at the end was damn near salivating off the clout this would bring.



Ooooooh, women are going to hate you for that :mjgrin: I can not wait to put this out :mjlit:



I hate this era man :snoop:
 

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i don't agree with son but personally i hate a broke bytch intensely. don't even breath next to me you poor bytch

the thing with a high earning chick is that 1) you still have to spend money on her, 2) that money generally isn't yours so what's the point, 3) a lot of women think their money makes them better (newsflash ladies men aren't women we don't think like that)

also men like to feel NEEDED. a woman saying i don't need anything but i want you is the most unsexy thing to me IMO
:russ:
 

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It just those types of men projecting their insecurities onto their image of high-earning/educated women they made up in their heads. Because none of them actually interact with these women. They just regurgitate what they’ve heard.

Oddly enough, did ya’ll know women actually tend to overcompensate in feminine gender roles in their relationships if they out-earned their husbands. Presumably to ensure that the fragile egos of their husbands wouldn’t be too bruised by the income gap.


When Wives Earn More Than Husbands, Neither Partner Likes to Admit It (Published 2018)
I do not believe the bolded at all lmao :mjlol:
That just hasn't been what I've observed or experienced but what do i know :yeshrug:
 

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There's nothing wrong with a high earning woman, but being a high earning woman says nothing about your personality or our compatibility.

I'd love it, if the cards aligned.

I'd like to be able to take a break from certain stuff, be able to work around the house, have more time to write/read, etc. I'd try my best to keep the household stress free because I prefer peace. Her income being higher than mine wouldn't bother me, I'd be too busy with other things.
 

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Here is the thing about this.
It's appreciated, but not required. Unfortunately women don't view it like that. They try to sell themselves to men based on their careers and that is when they get disqualified.

A woman should present their money as a plus/appetizer, but they are doing the reverse and trying to serve it as the main course. And then instead serve what men want (femininity, nurturing, support) as the appetizer.

It's highly probable that a woman who presents her money first can only do so because she doesn't have what men want, to offer. No different than a guy who presents himself as just attractive, and emotional and basically everything BUT a provider. He gets disqualified as well.

So no, a woman's money is not a reason to disqualify her. How she presents it, is what gets her to the bushes or not.
 

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I get there is probably some hyperbole in the above, but I don’t know any guy with his shyt together who would even consider entertaining the latter
Me neither. Folks date and marry within their social circles. Where does the folktale of the high earning white-collar man marrying a waitress come from?
 

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I'm sorry but I agree with breh :hubie:i would take a india Westbrook look a like that is feminine,no attitude,can cook, in shape with a great personality making 35k over a chick making 70k that's has a bad personality,bossy attitude, trying to compete with you and is masculine of course not every woman that's makes 70k and up is like this but the ones I dated before meeting my fiancée had one of those bad traits especially the phd ones
 

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They tend to bring the corporate traits that make them successful into their relationships.

It's not the wealth or success. It's the disagreeableness and solipism. I don't have the bandwidth to deal with that anymore when I have access to pleasant women who aren't giving you sh!t tests every 10 seconds.
like the difference between high and low ticket sales :troll: storm waves or ripples
 

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I prefer and usually only date high earning women or at least women with some level of wealth



I get there is probably some hyperbole in the above, but I don’t know any guy with his shyt together who would even consider entertaining the latter

Yeah he buggin, I wouldn’t stick my dikk in a chick flipping burgers. Risk ruining my life/paper over some bus pass p*ssy. Naw I’m good. :birdman:


Ain’t nothing you can say to convince her to get rid of it after she see you drive away in that AMG.:damn:



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