social anxiety brehs..

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How do you relax around women you find attractive and are trying to scoop?

Finally ask my co-worker out to a movie, it goes well in the beginning but afterwards in the bar i can't hide my awkwardness :to:

feel dehydrated :scusthov:

rubbing my face persistently :scusthov:

unable to remember any interesting anecdotes:scusthov:

rambling on about tv shows she doesn't watch:scusthov:

afraid to stop talking so we're not sitting in silence:scusthov:

brehs, i had the :scusthov: in a thought bubble above my head the whole time
 

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How do you relax around women you find attractive and are trying to scoop?

Finally ask my co-worker out to a movie, it goes well in the beginning but afterwards in the bar i can't hide my awkwardness :to:

feel dehydrated :scusthov:

rubbing my face persistently :scusthov:

unable to remember any interesting anecdotes:scusthov:

rambling on about tv shows she doesn't watch:scusthov:

afraid to stop talking so we're not sitting in silence:scusthov:

brehs, i had the :scusthov: in a thought bubble above my head the whole time

All the things you doing will get you laid awkward brother to another

But you are doing it with someone you work with :ufdup:
 

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How do you relax around women you find attractive and are trying to scoop?

Finally ask my co-worker out to a movie, it goes well in the beginning but afterwards in the bar i can't hide my awkwardness :to:

feel dehydrated :scusthov:

rubbing my face persistently :scusthov:

unable to remember any interesting anecdotes:scusthov:

rambling on about tv shows she doesn't watch:scusthov:

afraid to stop talking so we're not sitting in silence:scusthov:

brehs, i had the :scusthov: in a thought bubble above my head the whole time
Now ALL of your coworkers are gonna know how lame you are :mjlol:.
 

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Yall trippin, i ain't schemin on her like that :stopitslime:

We got a cool relationship, i'm just trying to come across as a fun, interesting, charming young man
 

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Yall trippin, i ain't schemin on her like that :stopitslime:

We got a cool relationship, i'm just trying to come across as a fun, interesting, charming young man
Start chatting it up with strangers. Random folks in the street, check out girls, waitresses. Hone your convo skills. Were you nervous cuz she's "hot"? Just remember she's a human being. Nothing more. Imagine her taking a shyt if you have to. Take her off that pedestal
 

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Just kidding. On a more serious note, try to establish a dialogue. Ask her questions, it's easier to find some common ground then. It also helps you avoid rambling if you're seeking feedback at times, because then you can pause to gauge their level of interest and change the subject depending.
 

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She hit me with the friendly hug and "let's do this again sometime" at the end of the evening :scusthov:
I just can't lay it on a female i'm feelin like you coli pimps :wow:
 

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Start chatting it up with strangers. Random folks in the street, check out girls, waitresses. Hone your convo skills. Were you nervous cuz she's "hot"? Just remember she's a human being. Nothing more. Imagine her taking a shyt if you have to. Take her off that pedestal

Yup he just needs to basically start using chicks even ugly chicks as practice. Work on your verbal game OP. If you see a chick in the street just say hi. Its a process it'll take sometime but just work on it. It will come.
 

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How do you relax around women you find attractive and are trying to scoop?

Finally ask my co-worker out to a movie, it goes well in the beginning but afterwards in the bar i can't hide my awkwardness :to:

feel dehydrated :scusthov:

rubbing my face persistently :scusthov:

unable to remember any interesting anecdotes:scusthov:

rambling on about tv shows she doesn't watch:scusthov:

afraid to stop talking so we're not sitting in silence:scusthov:

brehs, i had the :scusthov: in a thought bubble above my head the whole time

Yall trippin, i ain't schemin on her like that :stopitslime:

We got a cool relationship, i'm just trying to come across as a fun, interesting, charming young man

Did you pay?
 
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