social anxiety brehs..

Dwolf

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How do you relax around women you find attractive and are trying to scoop?

Finally ask my co-worker out to a movie, it goes well in the beginning but afterwards in the bar i can't hide my awkwardness :to:

feel dehydrated :scusthov:

rubbing my face persistently :scusthov:

unable to remember any interesting anecdotes:scusthov:

rambling on about tv shows she doesn't watch:scusthov:

afraid to stop talking so we're not sitting in silence:scusthov:

brehs, i had the :scusthov: in a thought bubble above my head the whole time
How old are you?
 

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Start chatting it up with strangers. Random folks in the street, check out girls, waitresses. Hone your convo skills. Were you nervous cuz she's "hot"? Just remember she's a human being. Nothing more. Imagine her taking a shyt if you have to. Take her off that pedestal

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take phenibut or rub one out in the shower before you meet her

will just take time for you to get used to being comfortable with who you are and try to react to her more instead of forcing shyt ...girls fukking talk a lot most of them do the work for you then you can interject to keep it interesting or bring up a funny interesting topic yourself you genuinely are interested about...but its safe to stay in the pop culture realm like making fun of Justin Bieber or Solange beating the shyt out of Jay Z

in fact think of it like a bunch of coli threads and don't be afraid to give your opinion about shyt ...soon she will be slapping your arm or your chest and then you can play fight a little and start making out

stop being a bytch and man up
 
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