Social Anxiety/Phobia???

[Larry Lobster]

im a good lookin mofo, and i always been good wid women in life



my ladies actually really understanding of my situation right now. shes wifey status



this shyt is really affecting my life tho. i went to see the doc the other day cuz it got super bad.

its been a problem most my life, but for the past year or so, its been like crippling bad. and coincidentally, about a year ago is when i popped a few mollys at a few music festivals.




i think that shyt fried my brains bruh. i think it permanently fuked up my brain chemicals and seratonins n shyts




mentally unstable ppl shouldnt take drugs bruhs

Men with social anxiety usually don't have girlfriends, because they get nervous talking with females they don't know. You're faking it, stop.

 

[Larry Lobster]

Ironically, I'm the opposite when I see a handful of n!ggas across the street as I can't help but cross the street to cross paths with them. It's a wonder I haven't been robbed yet, or otherwise, but I keep doing it. Especially at night walking by myself to the parking garage. Easy target not carrying but I just cant help it.

Admit you wanna get gang raped brehs

 

[OC's finest]

Men with social anxiety usually don't have girlfriends, because they get nervous talking with females they don't know. You're faking it, stop.

why the hell would i lie about this to complete strangers online haha

dont believe me if u dont want

i really dont care

ive never had no fear talkin to woman, and like i said before, i have a job that requires me to do public speaking

 

[Larry Lobster]

why the hell would i lie about this to complete strangers online haha

dont believe me if u dont want

i really dont care

ive never had no fear talkin to woman, and like i said before, i have a job that requires me to do public speaking

I'm not saying you don't have a girlfriend im saying you don't have social anxiety, you just trying to fit in.
btw i dare you to post pics of your gf

 

[OC's finest]

I'm not saying you don't have a girlfriend im saying you don't have social anxiety, you just trying to fit in.
btw i dare you to post pics of your gf

my social anxiety is prolly more crippling than most ppl on this forum, to the point it affects my relationships

ive sought medical consultation for this

i wish it was fake so i wouldnt have to deal wid dis

 

[George's Dilemma]

Admit you wanna get gang raped brehs

 

[Da_Eggman]

I'm an introvert I never really enjoy being in any social event long

I think it's just I don't really trust anybody and most people are scumbags anyways so why bother even trying to be social

 

[Da_Eggman]

I know what you're talking about OP. I was never that type of person but when you become aware of people and your surroundings, it drives you crazy. It's kind of like being in third person, I guess that happens when you can properly assess a situation and see people for what they really are.

Sadly stupid people are never insecure

They are happy and jolly cuz they are too stupid to ever actually analyze what's really happening

Ignorance is bliss

 

[Unknown Poster]

OH shyt, you're @*L*E*G*A*C*Y*

Yep. Tis me.

 

[Unknown Poster]

i have a successful job that requires public speaking and interaction

and i have popular friends that go out a lot in LA party scene

and a gf thats very social


and i got a fukin severe panic disorder/social anxiety/mild depression


its starting to cripple my life,

when i go out sometimes in public i start to get light headed and feel like ima feint or pass out, and i can feel my heart rate spike. i wear a fit bit that tracks my heart. when im gettin a panic attack and anxiety, my heart rate goes from a standing 75 to like 130-140


no wonder im feeling sick and like ima feint, my heart is gong absolutely insane


its crippling my social life, affecting my relationships, and limiting my ability to travel.


im unable to leave anywhere outside my city



and i got a wedding in fukin thailand next year, and i gotta go to dallas to visit a friend next year as well




shyts a year away and im already like


i might fukin get a heart attack fo real from this anxiety shyt

Im sorry to hear that man. Seems like you doing better than me in the job and relationship department despite your anxiety.

My anxiety at this point is crippling my ability to form relationships with women to the point i avoid them completely even if they check me out. I just get in5o panic mode way too quickly and it makes me want to run away from situations with people.

Like yeah...i sweat heart beats heavy and i get all panifky something bad is going to happen.

Past couple of days i havent even really left my apartment. Just afraid to even go out. It sucks.

 

[Unknown Poster]

why the hell would i lie about this to complete strangers online haha

dont believe me if u dont want

i really dont care

ive never had no fear talkin to woman, and like i said before, i have a job that requires me to do public speaking

good for you breh.

If its not the fear of something embarassng happenjng to me while talking to women its rejection she doesnt like me not into me i dont have a good job or good money. Or i feel they dont respect me or whatever. I've had flings with women but never really a real girlfriend and honestly i don't see myself having one or even getting married unless i get over this somehow.

I'll admit...a bunch of internalized insecurities about race (me and my surroundings and other people) and money factor into this apprehension. It only feeds into my social anxiety.

 

[Fatboi1]

Could be a nutrient deficiency. I kind of felt like this a while ago but I don't feel crippled, I just sometimes feel lazy. I mean I think I got over it once by literally taking a flight all the way to fukking Japan alone. It was pretty damn cool.

 

[Unknown Poster]

I'm an introvert I never really enjoy being in any social event long

I think it's just I don't really trust anybody and most people are scumbags anyways so why bother even trying to be social

I feel the same ways sometimes.

Alot of my apprehension about dealing with people comes from what i feel is people thinking i'm a failure or something cause i haven't reached a certain level or success or because i'm not making this amount of money and most of the time straight up i think people refuse to respect me or see me on any level that's even near theirs.

That's because i received so much disrespect coming up...and people wouldnt even give me a chance to even prove myself or they just felt uncomfortable in my presence. It just makes me think...as much as i dont want to cause i like to see the good in people...that most people suck. To put it nicely. Even though I'm 31 i still have this idea that most people see me as some kid. Maybe it's because i look young for my age. Hell maybe its probably the reason i still feel young.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Btw thanks to everyone that responded and gave me helpful advice. I'm going to take it into consideration cause this social anxiety sucks. I miss the days when i didnt have it and i wasnt afraid to be in social situations, when i wasnt so consumed by fear, when i could be me and enjoy myself. I can get back to that level and i refuse to let depression or anxiety get the better of me.

 

[Da_Eggman]

Most of it comes from childhood

Anything that happens to you as a kid is magnified since your brain was still being formed