Their families. Mama need the light bill paid and Lil Jon Jon sleeping on the couch but ain't working. Sister Tanisha kids need school clothes. Etc. Meanwhile, homegirl got $60k in debt for a degree she can't barely use (bc she legit had no counsel to know better), can't contribute to her 401k, got healthcare expenses of her own, rent of her own, etc.
It's difficult and I sorta get why they be so bitter. A lot of them did what THEY WERE TOLD would lead to a good life (degree, no kids, 'work hard') and the shyt still ain't work out right. Everybody got they hand out, they struggling themselves. Imagine Terry from Soul Food in this economy.
I feel for them, but at the same time, no need to foul up the internet with your life disappointments. (This goes for men too.

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