Somebody please show me one positive thing about being married

[TwistedMetal]

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[MikelArteta]

Tax breaks is really the only thing.

 

[BuyandSave]

Half the people in this thread haven't even read the OP Who said anything about screwing around and being uncommitted? You don't need a paper from the government for that.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

So all these dysfunctional children that come from single parent homes in the Black community isn't enough to convince you that marriage makes a difference in the molding of future generations? Gee whiz.

 

[I'm Billy FUCO!!]

Half the people in this thread haven't even read the OP Who said anything about screwing around and being uncommitted? You don't need a paper from the government for that.

Some of these nikkas are actually acting like if you're not married, then you MUST be a player4life/deadbeat dad/single mother

 

[mcellas]

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

Some of these nikkas are actually acting like if you're not married, then you MUST be a player4life/deadbeat dad/single mother

How's that been working for the Black community for the past 50 years? This is why I made the decision that when I married that my husband had to come from a household that consisted of married parents. There was no way in hell I was going to try marriage with a Black man who did not know what it was like to grow up in such an environment.

 

[Blankthawtz]

my parents did it for 41 years.....i wan't that....

 

[Crakface]

So as far as I can tell, if one wants to get married then he has to shell out money for the ring, the wedding, the honey moon, the divorce, etc...
What is the upside, brehs?
What does that dumb little piece of paper actually do?
What can marriage give me that simply living together can't?
I mean, if you really want to exchange vows so bad then get a couple of rings, go into a church, and have a ceremony...who will ever know that you didn't sign some stupid ass contract?
I just don't understand...why?
Why set yourself up like this?
Why even risk the awkwardness of having your s/o sign a prenup?
Why take that plunge only to find out that the bytch is marrying you for money when if she truly wanted to be with you the so-called "binding agreement" simply wouldn't be an issue?
Is it that little bit of a tax break?
Is it your parents?
Is it the fact that you're dumb?
Just...explain please.

A stable support system to start and cultivate a prosperous family. Its the structure needed to bring glory to your lineage. It serves no other purpose

 

[BuyandSave]

A stable support system to start and cultivate a prosperous family. Its the structure needed to bring glory to your lineage. It serves no other purpose

But what's the paperwork for? You can get married in a church without signing a contract, right? Seems like being bound in holy matrimony in the eyes of God (since that's what marriage is supposed to really be about, I'm assuming) would be a little more important than doing it in the eyes of the government.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Lol. You obviously aren't aware of the art of taming and breaking bytches.


When you marry a girl you should basically be getting a prostitute that doesn't fukk for a living. If you tame the bytch you can make her sign a prenup, make her get a job and entrust all her money with you, make her pay bills, make her do whatever the fukk you want. Thats what marriage is supposed to be.

+ if you wanna have kids you need to have kids with a bytch who is marriage material. A female who will actually raise them and be a good mother. And stick around with you. Not try to dump the kids at her moms house and collect child support like the rest of these thotiannas.

The funny thing is that I agree with you even after seeing my parents' marriage(31 years and current). This is gonna sound a bit misogynistic, but it's pretty accurate. Most successful marriages are based on the principles of "taming, breaking a b****h, or more modestly articulated, the art of getting a women to submit. Sadly, not every male has this skill. Women, even in the days of yesteryear, would only submit to men that can continuously satisfy their most basic of desires, even when it seemed like there were more quality men and women that believe in the principles of "character, personality & being able to maintain a in-tact family structure." You can conclude(or at least, I can... open to opinion)that those core principles mean less in modern society where marriages are less common and subjected to end in divorce at any given moment in addition to the state of the modern (black)family.

Let me clear up that when I mean getting a woman to submit, I mean that in a positive manner... not by physical/emotional abuse, ect. I think(or hope) we know that generally women submit to men that are attractive, have status, provide security, and... to put it shrewdly, make her cum. If you can't do this things, then your significant other WILL CHEAT or not submit in the first place. It's not even a possibility, rather an inevitability.

The main goal(and mines, as well) is to find the women that will submit, subscribe and adhere to the core principles I stated above and finding a woman that we find attractive(on our own personal level..... beauty, is subjective, after all). A healthy balance(for me) would be suitable.

Day by day, that is becoming more & more difficult. With this and the unfair marriage laws, these are the reasons men are opting out.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

But what's the paperwork for? You can get married in a church without signing a contract, right? Seems like being bound in holy matrimony in the eyes of God (since that's what marriage is supposed to really be about, I'm assuming) would be a little more important than doing it in the eyes of the government.

That's already been answered. It is also a legal agreement as well. As a woman, I find that the character of BM raised by married parents is totally different than those that are not. BM raised in single parent households tend to hold Black females in general and the Black community in particular in a negative light. Their only experience in the Black community tends to be one of seeing a Black woman, their mother, work like a mule with no man around or a revolving door of low quality men then he grows up to view BW as unfeminine and nonBW as the ideal to be attained and cherished since he did not see that happen with his Black mother. This is why you see so many athletes dating and marrying other races because these men came from single mother homes that was full of struggle so they want to escape that with a trophy wife. After all, they see other races of women being cared for and supported and put on a pedastal by their men and that is what they want for themselves. So marriage definitely makes stronger and more culturally aware men. I found a good one

 

[Couth]

The funny thing is that I agree with you even after seeing my parents' marriage(31 years and current). This is gonna sound a bit misogynistic, but it's pretty accurate. Most successful marriages are based on the principles of "taming, breaking a b****h, or more modestly articulated, the art of getting a women to submit. Sadly, not every male has this skill. Women, even in the days of yesteryear, will only submit to men that can continuously satisfy their most basic of desires, even when it seemed like there were more quality men and women that believe in the principles of "character, personality & being able to maintain a in-tact family structure." You can conclude(or at least, I can... open to opinion)that those core principles mean less in modern society where marriages are less common and subjected to end in divorce at any given moment in addition to the state of the modern (black)family.

Let me clear up that when I mean getting a woman to submit, I mean that in a positive manner... not by physical/emotional abuse, ect. I think(or hope) we know that generally women submit to men that are attractive, have status, provide security, and... to put it shrewdly, make her cum. If you can't do this things, then your significant other WILL CHEAT or not submit in the first place. It's not even a possibility, rather an inevitability.

The main goal(and mines, as well) is to find the women that will submit, subscribe and adhere to the core principles I stated above and finding a woman that we find attractive(on our own personal level..... beauty, is subjective, after all). A healthy balance(for me) would be suitable.

Day by day, that is becoming more & more difficult. With this and the unfair marriage laws, these are the reasons men are opting out.

Exactly what i meant. This dude just articulated it better,

 

[Youseenmywork]

So all these dysfunctional children that come from single parent homes in the Black community isn't enough to convince you that marriage makes a difference in the molding of future generations? Gee whiz.

For me personally I dont want to get married or have kids. Im 30 and just got out of a relationship that even thoe it didnt end bad it takes a toll on men and even me psychologically. Add the fact that women run society along with gay people. Men on a daily or emasculated by women and the media ...hell the world just look at tv. One thing I have found out the older you get it gets harder to pick up those pieces EACH falied relationship. Nobody really believes in the king and queen system ...which is a wonderful system. It just so many women wanna be men and think they can do what a men do which is crazy cause if you didnt havecthe system that men setup you wouldnt have anything to ...aspire to. Thats why being a house wife is looked down upon now...every women wanna get their's and do what men do. So I dont wont to get married but I do wanna help the young black males and females one day from whatever they may being going threw..one of thesecdays hopefully I can build a foundation that I and those kids I wanna help can pround of .

Patrice O'Neal: "I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing; and no matter what a woman is, is a wonderful thing." Taken from his interview with Marc Maron.

 

[ThatTruth777]

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