Sons of Rich Blacks Fare No Better than Working Class White Sons - but different finding for Women

[8WON6]

No offense but some of these are black men fault instead of going to school to learn and further their future but no they wanna be on the street, be a rapper or do all the stupid stuff some of them even think working at the office is working for a white men. We have thread on here telling people if you work at the office you are not a man that is not a real man's job and how you should always be on your feet jobs like plumbing. You have black men celebrities marrying out giving their money back to white people. You have people encouraging people not to get marriage so more fatherless child in black community

Many of these professions are have unions and unions were one of the ways blacks were held back for decades. They would notoriously keep blacks out of these exact types of jobs. Just google "union racism". People love to block blacks from shyt then turn around and say "blacks don't want to work".

 

[ski]

So where do we go from here

Cut back on having "reckless relations" that create babies that are doomed from the start.

If the odds are stacked against rich black kids then the ones born into unstable situations are DOOMED.

 

[dblive]

I said exactly what I wanted. Men have never been oppressed for being men, so reverse sexism is a myth.

My direct quote;


Has a black woman ever ruled over black men?
We’re not in charge. Women are still considered second class cictizens just like blacks. You’re acting like we’re the ones killing y’all, not hiring y’all and keeping y’all out of school. Only benefit we got is that women are considered weak and unthreatening so we can move about w/o too much hostility until being weak and unthreatening meets your average garden variety pimp, predator or thirsty male that thinks harassment is a compliment.

I appreciate your input. I think you're correct in saying reverse sexism isn't a real term the same way reverse racism isn't a term; sexism and racism both imply systems of power. However, when dealing with AA men, we are talking about a continuous system of "top down" racism since slavery began. In a white patriarchy system, the closest competitor to over throw the system is another male. If you're not a male included in the original system (white supremacy) then you are always the primary target and threat. Native American and AA men are the only men in America on this continent as long as the original European settlers. It's not an accident that these two groups of men are the most disadvantaged in America. AA women being over looked as the primary threat to white patriarchy is a type of advantage that in your words "allowed the movement" necessary for you to make societal advancement that most AA men can't. Sometimes, it is about black boys.

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

So where do we go from here

leave this country for a slightly less racist country which speaks a different language


or just die young and less fortunate in this racist great land

 

[ozzy]

Many of these professions are have unions and unions were one of the ways blacks were held back for decades. They would notoriously keep blacks out of these exact types of jobs. Just google "union racism". People love to block blacks from shyt then turn around and say "blacks don't want to work".

Thank you for reply without being rude unlike others yeah I didn't know anything about union racism this is the first time hearing about it I will check it out but I have seen a lot of black boy who just dropped out of college just to be a rapper or some stupid stuff I was just saying all that from my own point of view of what I had seen with my own eyes

 

[thatrapsfan]

The Daily - Podcasts - The New York Times


Podcast about the article today. Extended discussion about the perceived impact of black fathers on outcomes ( they look at Silver Springs, MD as one of the outliers in the study)

 

[twhatever]

Black women are actually the ones to tend to marry interracial more as they increase in income and education as a group. Black men tend to marry interracial and intraracially at more or less the same socio-economic levels. Black women who marry interracially also tend to marry WAY down in terms of socio-economic quality with white men.

It is, in fact, black men who change most drastically in their dating habits as education rises. Black women are the ones who stay pretty consistent across various education levels.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Yvette Carnell said thread title is fugazy

 

[Ya?]

It is, in fact, black men who change most drastically in their dating habits as education rises. Black women are the ones who stay pretty consistent across various education levels.

Thank you. The slander/misinformation Is annoying. The Stat reflects my own observation. Anyway what year is it dated? Nvm 2015 and they got an accurate demographic 25 and older, it is older black couples that inflate the stats.

@Supper did you fully read the study that you posted and comprehend the stats? What is written in the study completely contradicts what you are saying. I know you like to paint this picture that you are critiquing bw but you are totally throwing away your credibility when you lie.

 

[L0Qutus]

 

[Lifejennings]

The critical data in all of this is outside of HBCUs and schools with Black administration like UMBC, most Blacks who qualify would not have a shot in hell at advanced schooling aside from bullshyt like a MBA.

Why?

A question to ask. How many of us black men have a job that realistically leads to a position of great stature and financial security? Many might disagree with me but we need to do our best to steer our sons into some of these fields. Ultimately, your son might end up doing whatever it is he wants to do. However, I want my boys to look at me. I'm a senior accountant presently, we live comfortably and my career is going to continue to go up. I don't see a lot of people who looks like me in these positions. I know people don't like to fukk with math but in many ways, math is where the money is. We don't get jerked too much in my profession either.

This is the cause for that problem. Your high paying job isn't creating avenues for other black men just you. That tends to be the case for upper class blacks. They have their wealth due to their job. You can't pass down a job, so these black male children raised in wealth have nothing to go to in adulthood.

 

[Mook]

Why?

This is the cause for that problem. Your high paying job isn't creating avenues for other black men just you. That tends to be the case for upper class blacks. They have their wealth due to their job. You can't pass down a job, so these black male children raised in wealth have nothing to go to in adulthood.

White people dont pass down jobs. What they do is cash in all their favors and get their kids INTO jobs. Life is about opportunities and they have numerous available.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I imagine it's for a variety of reasons, some of what's already been stated within this thread. I can't speak for the experiences of young Black folks from well to do backgrounds, but judging from my own experience, the spirit of competition isn't encouraged as much when it comes to education for Black boys. Not saying that's the dominant reason, but it needs mentioned. I don't think my memories are playing tricks on me, but from what I recall the girls always put more effort into their schoolwork than we did during those years. We were always distracted.

Funny cuz a friend of mine very recently complained about one of her sons. She's got two boys, one girl. The girl is getting ready to go to college, and one son who is in middle school. The other son, who she is concerned about just started high school. She's having difficulty reaching him on the need to stay focused and all the things that fall under that umbrella. Things like being punctual, avoiding procrastination, good preparation, recognizing what's important and what can wait, etc.. Granted, all of these things come with the territory of being young. Still, I remember being young and we were too concerned with "gear", and pu$$y, etc.. The females were on the same sh!t, opposite of the tracks, however, they still were focused on their school work.

We just did enough to get by. Myself personally, I know I did.

I imagine it's for a variety of reasons, some of what's already been stated within this thread. I can't speak for the experiences of young Black folks from well to do backgrounds, but judging from my own experience, the spirit of competition isn't encouraged as much when it comes to education for Black boys. Not saying that's the dominant reason, but it needs mentioned. I don't think my memories are playing tricks on me, but from what I recall the girls always put more effort into their schoolwork than we did during those years. We were always distracted.

Funny cuz a friend of mine very recently complained about one of her sons. She's got two boys, one girl. The girl is getting ready to go to college, and one son who is in middle school. The other son, who she is concerned about just started high school. She's having difficulty reaching him on the need to stay focused and all the things that fall under that umbrella. Things like being punctual, avoiding procrastination, good preparation, recognizing what's important and what can wait, etc.. Granted, all of these things come with the territory of being young. Still, I remember being young and we were too concerned with "gear", and pu$$y, etc.. The females were on the same sh!t, opposite of the tracks, however, they still were focused on their school work.

We just did enough to get by. Myself personally, I know I did.

Good points. My high school was 50% white, 30% black and the remaining 20% was split between Mexicans and Asians.

I took mostly AP classes my last three years and only saw 4 brehs total: 1 Ethiopian-American that played football, 2 Nigerian-Americans that played multiple sports and had those high SAT scores and one dude I thought was a breh like me until he mentioned his Bahamian parents whooping his ass for bringing home a C+ in middle school .

Brehs will make fun of you if you're a complete dumbass nikka or you flunk, but you don't see us comparing report cards and getting hyped over making honor roll again (talking about regular high schools, not private schools or special learning academies geared towards developing black men).

We put pressure on dudes wearing Payless shoes or dressing like Urkel but not so much brehs getting under an A-. Seems like other groups have that internal competition to succeed academically.

 

[Ya?]

I have an issue with black male hosts speaking of black people issues and only featuring nonblack or mixed women speakers. The female cohost is biracial girl apparently raised by a ww giving her two cent on the a dynamic that primarily affects BW of 2 black parent households? A lot of these black radio shows love discussing black issues but not including fully bw in the conversation. Weird.

 

[BlackJesus]

besides our dikks are bigger

Cacs' love this c00n talking point.