Spanking doesn’t improve a child’s behavior or social competence -- it can make behavior worse.

Chip Skylark

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NO 1 SOLUTION WORKS FOR ALL CHILDREN. SOME KIDS NEED A SPANKING. SOME DON'T.

I WAS THE TYPE OF KID THAT DIDN'T NEED A SPANKING. MY SISTER WAS.

MY MOM STOPPED WHOOPINGS ALTOGETHER WHEN SHE REALIZED THAT I REPONDED BETTER TO CONVERSATION. THOSE ASS WHOOPINGS I DID GET WORKED THOUGH. TO THIS DAY, THERE ARE DISTINCT WHOOPINGS I REMEMBER WHENEVER I SEE OTHER KIDS ACTING UP.

NOW MY SISTER? SHE NEEDED HER ASS BEAT. SHE WOULD BE A COMPLETE ANIMAL OTHERWISE.


This is it!!!
 

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No one punishment works for every kid. Find what works and go with that. I ate spankings for lunch, what i DIDNT want was for them to take away the SNES. Taking away the SNES is what would get me back in line. My sister though, she responded to spankings.
 

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Hitting is not discipline, it's punishment. Physical punishment is sometimes necessary for extreme behaviors that require severe correction but if kids have discipline instilled in them don't need physical punishment on a regular basis and if that's your go-to form of discipline or punishment then you're a shytty parent.
 

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No it doesn’t. Idk why people keep spewing this when it’s far from fact.

children were getting spanked centuries before we were born and it had nothing to do with slavery

Where did black parents in America learn it? From studying some ancient culture? :jbhmm:
 

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children were getting spanked centuries before we were born and it had nothing to do with slavery

facts.... nikkas think white people invented discipline.

a small whipping for a minor offense has always been our tradition, way before we met a white person.

you can still get set on fire in certain parts of Africa & the Caribbean for major offenses - and thats also an ancient tradition.

Discipline maintains order & structure within a society.

Not everyone needs forceful discipline, but sometimes its necessary.
 

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Spankings should come with instructions and explanation for the punishment
On top of that you only need to spank kids while they are young. By 8-9yr old they should be behaved enough to not really need spankings
Personally I think spanking are most effective for getting immediate results. a 7 yr old won't sit down after multiple warnings? whup they ass and explain why the ass whupping is coming :yeshrug:
I been around people who don't spank at all and seeing someone explain and bargain with a 4 yr old why they can't have ice cream for dinner is cringe worthy. Parents trying to negotiate with their kids in the grocery store to stop a tantrum :mjlol:. goofy shyt like that. Those are situations where i'm whupping ass. i'm not begging a kid or bargaining with candy in situations where i need them to stop asap
 

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Where did black parents in America learn it? From studying some ancient culture? :jbhmm:

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probably.
 

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I do believe there's a strand of truth to this. I think the fear of spanking teaches children how to perform acceptable behavior, not necessarily do it altruistically. So in a way children become more skilled liars and learn the art of sneaking to do their dirt. I guess if we're going for appearances and making the family look good, spanking gets the job done, but I know too many crafty people who were spanked to say it actually taught them morals or discipline. But they're really good at acting the part because they understand consequences. I also believe though different children respond to different types of discipline differently and good parenting means really assessing what's gonna work for the particular child you're dealing with.
 

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Spankings should come with instructions and explanation for the punishment
On top of that you only need to spank kids while they are young. By 8-9yr old they should be behaved enough to not really need spankings
Personally I think spanking are most effective for getting immediate results. a 7 yr old won't sit down after multiple warnings? whup they ass and explain why the ass whupping is coming :yeshrug:
I been around people who don't spank at all and seeing someone explain and bargain with a 4 yr old why they can't have ice cream for dinner is cringe worthy. Parents trying to negotiate with their kids in the grocery store to stop a tantrum :mjlol:. goofy shyt like that. Those are situations where i'm whupping ass. i'm not begging a kid or bargaining with candy in situations where i need them to stop asap


Probably why these kids reckless as fck now.. No structure whatsoever..
 
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