No....
spin:can men handle a woman more successful than them?
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No....
Yes i can "handle" a woman that is more successful than me as long as she respects me as i would respect her if it was the other way around.
Now, When are you making that fufu and inviting me over for dinner?
Mines makes a little more than me, but she has a lot of debt. I'm debt free. So we rock with it.
Lol what's fufu? I thought you were dating?
Yes to answer opulence question
But it all come down to what kind of woman she is period
If she's a woman who still allows her man to be king of the household, don't complain if he still working the same job doing whatever ( construction, walmart, etc, etc,) and still have some freak in her with him well she will not lose that man
however if she some broad who wants her man to go back to college even tho he's 30 and satisfied with the job he doing or complain that he needs to better himself even tho he's happy just doing him well as u can see she'll be alone with a couple of cats
and u can see that now in our communities with women bragging about there money, homes, car, careers and a guy need to be on her level shyt... and they wonder why alot of women who's not on that level get all the men because majority of men don't care about that.
But it all come down to what kind of woman she is period
If she's a woman who still allows her man to be king of the household, don't complain if he still working the same job doing whatever ( construction, walmart, etc, etc,) and still have some freak in her with him well she will not lose that man
however if she some broad who wants her man to go back to college even tho he's 30 and satisfied with the job he doing or complain that he needs to better himself even tho he's happy just doing him well as u can see she'll be alone with a couple of cats
and u can see that now in our communities with women bragging about there money, homes, car, careers and a guy need to be on her level shyt... and they wonder why alot of women who's not on that level get all the men because majority of men don't care about that.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
I'm the man regardless. Her making more isn't gonna change that.
shyt a good woman is a good earner.
shyt a good woman is a good earner.
Nah. ... I'm in between women right now
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
True. I guess you have to reevaluate your standards in men, friend. You cant squeeze water out of a rock and sadly despite a lot of bravado like posturing, many men do not Want to be the head of the household. This is proven by the way many men speak about what women have like women that are goldigger in nature. They are not happy their ladies are successful for the benefit of family but for the thought of how their success can translate to short term material gain for them.
Its so demonic, friend.
I think guys get intimidated by a woman making more than them because they assume the woman will wear the pants. Thats not always the case though. That being said, my mom made more than my stepdad and that lead to arguments 
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
Work is tied to a mans masculinity and if a woman makes a man feel like his work is meaningless or for nothing because she makes an extra 5 -10 dollars an hour, it can lead to frustrations and demonic dilemmas, friend.I think guys get intimidated by a woman making more than them because they assume the woman will wear the pants. Thats not always the case though. That being said, my mom made more than my stepdad and that lead to arguments
Sorry maybe it's just me, but I don't want my wife to be making substantially more than me
From my experiences looking at these type of relationships they never work out, that shyt is bound for failure, the man is supposed to be the breadwinner or at least on an equal playing field as his woman IMO
And to the people saying money doesn't matter, then why is money the #1 cause for divorces in the world which are initiated by women 70% of the time
Look at what women being more successful than their men has done to the black community, a matriarchal foundation with single mother households and put of wedlock children with no fathers around. And alot of nikkas living off women
From my experiences looking at these type of relationships they never work out, that shyt is bound for failure, the man is supposed to be the breadwinner or at least on an equal playing field as his woman IMO
And to the people saying money doesn't matter, then why is money the #1 cause for divorces in the world which are initiated by women 70% of the time
Look at what women being more successful than their men has done to the black community, a matriarchal foundation with single mother households and put of wedlock children with no fathers around. And alot of nikkas living off women
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
Hell no. Whoever brings home the most cash is the head of the house and I'm sure not letting any chick I'm married to make more than me.
But that's not to say I would date a broke bytch either.
But that's not to say I would date a broke bytch either.
Yea... I'm pretty sure I could. And if not, I'm sure about to find out. Me and my now wife started dating almost immediately after we graduated from college. My wife graduated with a degree in Nursing and I graduated with a degree in Information Systems.
I got out of school and ended up working at a call center for 9 months then quit because I couldn't take it. Then I moved to Atlanta with no job, but got hired within a week working at a job making 42K/year.
she got a Med/Surg job out of college (like most BSNs do) and was making 42K/year. Got a job a clinic a year later making like 48K/year. Then moved down to Atlanta like 3 months after I got a job and started working a job making about 43K/year. She's switched job a couple times since then, fluctuating in salaries because she didn't feel they were stable or good long term options. But she just recently got offered a job that pays 63K/year. It's rediculous how easy it is to find a job if you're a registered nurse... rediculous
Right now I make 44K year at the same job I had when I first moved to Atlanta. So she's gonna make almost 20K more than I do. But we both believe in the traditional roles in a marriage so even when she's made more than me, nothing's ever changed. 20K is a lot different than 5-8K more a year though. But she's not really the type to even bring something like that up. I will say the disparity shouldn't be that much for much longer though. I should be transitioning into my next role (Systems Analyst) by the beginning of next year which will put me at around 49K-55K per year.
Plus she brought child care bills (that sh** is mad expensive) and attorney's fees in the relationship, so it's kind of even anyway, lol. Mind you I'm 25 and she's 26 though, so we're still fairly young. So who knows what the dynamic will be like 5-10 years from now. Plus I'm working on a business with my brothers back home to bring in some side revenue. New house and New car... in another year, a few months after all of our debt is paid off, I'm probably gonna buy me a Tahoe. I'm still driving around my Honda Accord from college....
I got out of school and ended up working at a call center for 9 months then quit because I couldn't take it. Then I moved to Atlanta with no job, but got hired within a week working at a job making 42K/year.
she got a Med/Surg job out of college (like most BSNs do) and was making 42K/year. Got a job a clinic a year later making like 48K/year. Then moved down to Atlanta like 3 months after I got a job and started working a job making about 43K/year. She's switched job a couple times since then, fluctuating in salaries because she didn't feel they were stable or good long term options. But she just recently got offered a job that pays 63K/year. It's rediculous how easy it is to find a job if you're a registered nurse... rediculous
Right now I make 44K year at the same job I had when I first moved to Atlanta. So she's gonna make almost 20K more than I do. But we both believe in the traditional roles in a marriage so even when she's made more than me, nothing's ever changed. 20K is a lot different than 5-8K more a year though. But she's not really the type to even bring something like that up. I will say the disparity shouldn't be that much for much longer though. I should be transitioning into my next role (Systems Analyst) by the beginning of next year which will put me at around 49K-55K per year.
Plus she brought child care bills (that sh** is mad expensive) and attorney's fees in the relationship, so it's kind of even anyway, lol. Mind you I'm 25 and she's 26 though, so we're still fairly young. So who knows what the dynamic will be like 5-10 years from now. Plus I'm working on a business with my brothers back home to bring in some side revenue. New house and New car... in another year, a few months after all of our debt is paid off, I'm probably gonna buy me a Tahoe. I'm still driving around my Honda Accord from college....
yakamein
#milfhunter
My lady is five years away from being a Pediatric Oncologist, so she will definitely be making more money than myself. We'll see how this goes. I'm at the 50K margin currently.