Elle Driver
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Soap is probably causing the smell.I have the same incredulity when dudes mention run-ins with funky vagged chicks.
Apparently some people think soap and water is optional these days.
Spin for brehettes: Things men do that turn you off?
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Telling me I should smile more, that shyts pisses me off to no end. Trying to hit on me at the gym. I truly do not understand why men do this, but it needs to stop. Especially with me because I do not look sexy or cute while working out and I am sure I smell horrible.Trying to pick me up off the ground. Look,I know with me being skinny, small, and petite I might attract some weirdos but I am a grown ass WOMAN. I am 31 years old, don't pick me up like I am some fukking toddler.
The things you all say to make yourselves feel betterHahahaha Lmaaaoooo didn’t we give y’all the salon for this very reason
Y’all will keep whining and wondering why no good man will ever stay in your toxic ass lives. I complain about the hoes online but my circle is far different
Speaks a lot about your ignorant selves if you ask me
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We Love Money, We Love Weed!
Curious... Y'all ever make a "Spin: Things a man does that turn you ON" thread like the brehs did, or did y'all just decide to go for the jugular?Lol! Yeah that PH Imbalance. But I’m talking about overall phunk.
Ain’t no excuse in the age of running water.
GodsPerspective
Superstar
Wait, so you have your own space but you invade mine while shytting all over me and I’m supposed to ignore it. You see how ludicrous you soundYou could also not enter the thread or ignore it
GodsPerspective
Superstar
The things you all say to make yourselves feel better
Are you married sweetheart?
Strange indeed.Not a one. For some reason hit dogs love to holler.
A comparison of these threads yields some startling curiosities.
murksiderock
Superstar
Thought it would be fun to look at some of yall posts and highlight some of the things I've struggled with, or been accused of, since I'm jumping back into dating soon. All the women here, I'm interested in feedback, even if I didn't quote you!
Just to highlight these, and maybe get some feedback in return:
•I've gotten sent long messages, and in many cases they tend to stay from the topic at hand, like bringing up old non related shyt. If a woman does that, why do I need to respond to it?
•the immature thing I think is subjective. It's really only been my kids mom who has called me immature, and only on occasions where its convenient for her argument. She called me mature in better times and no other woman I ever dated called me immature, so can you explain what constitutes immaturity for you?
•gotten accused of being cheap, gotta admit I haven't found that perfect balance on when to spend and when not to. Earlier in my life I was used for my money, but also earlier in my life I didn't have long monogamous relationships, so more or less I was used to not having to share my money with anybody else. So I'm close to the best with my money and trust surrounding decisions I make with my money...
I've grown to see instances this negatively impacted committed relationships. But what could the woman do to help ease a brother who explains the history behind what you see as cheap? I explained I needed help on unburdening this and opening up in this arena once, and pretty much was just labeled as a selfish dirtbag who didn't care to step outside of my comfort zone to make my woman happy. If that's the response, how the fukk can you expect me to learn how to "not" be cheap?
•only my kids mom has ever said I had bad taste, I think this is subjective too, only when it was convenient for her, because in better times she often complimented how I had my own style. I do like hoodies though lol, I have several...
1. Only use "bytch" very rarely, certainly not more than women i dated used it, but did come up as a problem once or twice. If you know I don't use it in my general speech, but maybe use it for comedic effect or when I'm explaining exasperation over a situation to you that I don't share with anyone else, why would you have an issue with it? This is a problem I ran into the handful of times I got checked for saying bytch, but it isn't something I use in general when talking about women...
3. Explain what you mean by smart mouth...
4. I haven't actually gotten called sensitive, but I think I'm sensitive lol. I think that's more a product of the journey of the last relationship though...
5-6. I've gotten called a hypocrite and a liar when I've withheld information. I have told some pretty bad lies and would admit that's been one of my largest weaknesses, mostly because I was noncommittal and had a lustful, cheating spirit, and 2asnt forthcoming with that. But I also didn't know myself and wasn't honest with myself, either...
The hypocrite shyt was mostly blowback from calling you out on shyt that otherwise wouldn't affect me, but you tell me you're not a certain way. When truth is revealed, I'm a hypocrite because I've lied to you, that's the bringing up unrelated shyt again....
7. Guilty of doing this before...
I've definitely gotten in trouble for doing this before. But your man should know what you mean, so if he doesn't, doesn't that also mean you share some culpability? I shouldn't have to guess what you mean about shyt, and you shouldn't give me these generic ass statements that I have to decode, right?
Just to highlight these, and maybe get some feedback in return:
•I've gotten sent long messages, and in many cases they tend to stay from the topic at hand, like bringing up old non related shyt. If a woman does that, why do I need to respond to it?
•the immature thing I think is subjective. It's really only been my kids mom who has called me immature, and only on occasions where its convenient for her argument. She called me mature in better times and no other woman I ever dated called me immature, so can you explain what constitutes immaturity for you?
•gotten accused of being cheap, gotta admit I haven't found that perfect balance on when to spend and when not to. Earlier in my life I was used for my money, but also earlier in my life I didn't have long monogamous relationships, so more or less I was used to not having to share my money with anybody else. So I'm close to the best with my money and trust surrounding decisions I make with my money...
I've grown to see instances this negatively impacted committed relationships. But what could the woman do to help ease a brother who explains the history behind what you see as cheap? I explained I needed help on unburdening this and opening up in this arena once, and pretty much was just labeled as a selfish dirtbag who didn't care to step outside of my comfort zone to make my woman happy. If that's the response, how the fukk can you expect me to learn how to "not" be cheap?
•only my kids mom has ever said I had bad taste, I think this is subjective too, only when it was convenient for her, because in better times she often complimented how I had my own style. I do like hoodies though lol, I have several...
1. Only use "bytch" very rarely, certainly not more than women i dated used it, but did come up as a problem once or twice. If you know I don't use it in my general speech, but maybe use it for comedic effect or when I'm explaining exasperation over a situation to you that I don't share with anyone else, why would you have an issue with it? This is a problem I ran into the handful of times I got checked for saying bytch, but it isn't something I use in general when talking about women...
3. Explain what you mean by smart mouth...
4. I haven't actually gotten called sensitive, but I think I'm sensitive lol. I think that's more a product of the journey of the last relationship though...
5-6. I've gotten called a hypocrite and a liar when I've withheld information. I have told some pretty bad lies and would admit that's been one of my largest weaknesses, mostly because I was noncommittal and had a lustful, cheating spirit, and 2asnt forthcoming with that. But I also didn't know myself and wasn't honest with myself, either...
The hypocrite shyt was mostly blowback from calling you out on shyt that otherwise wouldn't affect me, but you tell me you're not a certain way. When truth is revealed, I'm a hypocrite because I've lied to you, that's the bringing up unrelated shyt again....
7. Guilty of doing this before...
Make stupid assumptions
“Interprets” what someone types as anything other than what it says
I've definitely gotten in trouble for doing this before. But your man should know what you mean, so if he doesn't, doesn't that also mean you share some culpability? I shouldn't have to guess what you mean about shyt, and you shouldn't give me these generic ass statements that I have to decode, right?
Burned Verses
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Strange indeed.
I expected it. We can't sneeze without a rabid response. Again, HIT DOGS HOLLERING.
Brehettes:
Brehs:
LMAOOOOOOO not one brehette came into their spin and complained about or critiqued their dislikes for the things we do. You can't make this shyt up.
Not at the moment... but I will be very soon and my SO is none of the things I listed.. I wouldn’t be marrying him if he was.