SPIN: How many sexless dates before you move on

[Paradoxical Tiger]

My take is

1-2 dates: nothing is expected, but if it happens cool
3-6 dates: If she feeling you it'll happen
7+ dates: It’s time to move on

 

[Trot LaRoc]

4 is the cutoff but its also age dependent

 

[Swirv]

First time I meet her

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Definitely 4. But usually by 2-3 I’m in there and of course the occasional first link clip. Tbh if they’re feeling you they want to have sex on the first date but some of them don’t want to look like hoes


I was talking to an old flame over the summer and she made her current boyfriend wait a month that wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t take her out on 2-3 dates A WEEK during that time. Even slept over and didn’t let him hit until she felt “ready” Could never be me.

 

[Ahadi]

7?



More like 2. If I’m not in there by date 2, I’m done.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Two, and only if I really liked her.


If she didn't come up off it on the third date...

 

[Everything Zen]

if it don't happen after #3, it's probably quiet for you. women don't really over-deliberate on whether or not they'll give it up.

 

[richaveli83]

After the third date.

 

[richaveli83]

Definitely 4. But usually by 2-3 I’m in there and of course the occasional first link clip. Tbh if they’re feeling you they want to have sex on the first date but some of them don’t want to look like hoes


I was talking to an old flame over the summer and she made her current boyfriend wait a month that wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t take her out on 2-3 dates A WEEK during that time. Even slept over and didn’t let him hit until she felt “ready” Could never be me.

 

[International Playa]

Anything after date 3, you wasting your money and time

Most women its been only 1 date to determine if there is something, then the next time we are chilling at my place or hers.

 

[360dagod]

Definitely 4. But usually by 2-3 I’m in there and of course the occasional first link clip. Tbh if they’re feeling you they want to have sex on the first date but some of them don’t want to look like hoes


I was talking to an old flame over the summer and she made her current boyfriend wait a month that wouldn’t be an issue if he didn’t take her out on 2-3 dates A WEEK during that time. Even slept over and didn’t let him hit until she felt “ready” Could never be me.

she sees giving him p*ssy as some sort of "treat"....

Once I get that vibe, my attention goes elsewhere because she wants to be in CLEAR control

 

[TL15]

1st time I meet we are out or in person so it’s not a date

then a date

then another date

then she’s coming over and we smashing (could be after the second date)




If we meet online I’m smashin first time we meet

 

[ThrobbingHood]

3 is the magic number. Anything more than that, then you’re just a Ho feeder.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Women get horny before their periods. So 3 dates /1 month is long enough not to miss your window.

If she dont want you while she's in heat then you waisting your time.

 

[Paradoxical Tiger]

To all you brehs that don’t wait for more than 3, does this method help you find quality women?