Spin: How old is too old to be living at home?

[Medio]

Still confused to why you have Mr. Bolivar as your avatar

He's a world/latin american/south american symbol of freedom from oppression. I like what he did.

 

[beenz]

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In Canada you have to have three years of work experience in many different areas (auditing, financial reporting, taxation typically). There are designated companies that provide accredited experience or you can go to other companies as long as you can prove a what you did and get purple to sign off etc.

Not to mention there are like three exams here to complete. It isn't easy

All these employers want experience for entry level. The economy is going to be fckd. My generation isn't being given a chance to learn these companies ... So how will we run the companies when we are older : ?

didn't know u were in canada. however, I totally agree with your last point tho. they ain't even tryin to let young folks

if you black, I'm sure it's even worse.

seems like the only way to get on is to know someone or thru nepotism.

 

[MikelArteta]

Again perception, sorry maybe the life you had with your parents was them not givkng you privacy checking in etc.

Mine isn't and never have been. If someone wants to come over they come over .

Curfew?

Again with the stereotypes

And no I'm building equity because I'm paying half of what's left on the mortgage

See your basing your horrid upbringing compared to mine.

My parents lovr having me around.

I live in a mansion.

I pay half of the mortgage and other bills.

Whenever I leave I'll have nearly 450k in my pocket


While your Still paying off your mortgage for another 20-25 years

I can't co-sign this. as a man, I don't care how good you got it at your parents house, it comes to a point where you wanna get your own shyt. maybe they are gone 1/2 the year, but what about when they are there?

you gotta ask ur mom to have company and abide by a curfew all of a sudden

and do you think your parents wanna have a grown ass man living in they spot? I know mine wouldn't. my brother lives in DC, my sister is married and lives in the chi, and I live in the chi. we each got our own spot, and my parents appear to be happier than ever cuz none of us have EVER come back home to live like

matter of fact, your parents will appreciate you more when you move out they spot.

btw, you ain't building equity in some shyt if it's not your property. you're building their equity.

 

[Yup]

I smell bullshyt here with this comment.

Smell it all you want. This is how I feel cause I have done it. Living at home says little about maturity.

 

[Yup]

A lot of these women are lying out their asses, breh. They know damn well they'd look down on a nikka who still lives at home, unless he's living large like @Emperor_ReinScarf .

A 35 year old man, regardless of financial situation, would not be taken seriously by a woman if he's still living at home.

I have no reason to lie. If I would look down, I'd say it. I have always said exactly how I feel about the topics on this site and have no reason to stop now.

 

[Paisley Darts]

A lot of these women are lying out their asses, breh. They know damn well they'd look down on a nikka who still lives at home, unless he's living large like @Emperor_ReinScarf .

A 35 year old man, regardless of financial situation, would not be taken seriously by a woman if he's still living at home.

This is true. I know when I hit 26 and still lived at home, women looked down on it. They would all say "oh that's cool..at least you are saving your money." But would either hold it against me or start fading away. And it was evident that I was being smart with my finances and thinking about the the long term but they didn't give a shyt. (We all know women are short-sighted as hell). So I know a 35 year old man wouldn't even be entertained by the average woman if he still lived at home.

 

[beenz]

Again perception, sorry maybe the life you had with your parents was them not givkng you privacy checking in etc.

Mine isn't and never have been. If someone wants to come over they come over .

Curfew?

Again with the stereotypes

And no I'm building equity because I'm paying half of what's left on the mortgage

See your basing your horrid upbringing compared to mine.

My parents lovr having me around.

I live in a mansion.

I pay half of the mortgage and other bills.

Whenever I leave I'll have nearly 450k in my pocket


While your Still paying off your mortgage for another 20-25 years

how do I have a horrid upbringing? I could have lived at home when I was grown, but I didn't want to cuz as a grown man, I didn't feel that was appropriate. I kinda like having my own shyt and doing what the hell I want.

I'd rather live in a 2000 sq ft house that I bought myself than live with my parents in they house

*turns up music as loud as I want and curses*

while you making up your race car bed with your footie pajamas and wait for your mom to call you down for supper in a couple hours

btw, as for mortgage, I have over 1/2 of what I owe on this house in cash money right now, so I'm gonna be aight regardless.

 

[Yup]

This is true. I know when I hit 26 and still lived at home, women looked down on it. They would all say "oh that's cool..at least you are saving your money." But would either hold it against me or start fading away. And it was evident that I was being smart with my finances and thinking about the the long term but they didn't give a shyt. (We all know women are short-sighted as hell). So I know a 35 year old man wouldn't even be entertained by the average woman if he still lived at home.

Women or women that you were interested in. I don't like guys that floss and I like men that are smart with money.

So, I speak for myself and not the women that you have encountered.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ah look more stereotypes.

Lol at being a man meaning being saddled with a 500k mortgage.

I turn up my music as loud as I want, no race car bed, make my own food.

Like I said everything you base is on perception and stereotypes.

how do I have a horrid upbringing? I could have lived at home when I was grown, but I didn't want to cuz as a grown man, I didn't feel that was appropriate. I kinda like having my own shyt and doing what the hell I want.

I'd rather live in a 2000 sq ft house that I bought myself than live with my parents in they house

*turns up music as loud as I want and curses*

while you making up your race car bed with your footie pajamas and wait for your mom to call you down for supper in a couple hours

 

[Yup]

Living home, briefly (emphasis on briefly), because of financial issues is understandable.

I'm talking about people who are financially stable, but are still living at home past 25. Get out their and get it. Can't be having moms washing your dirty underwear for the rest of your life, brehs and brehettes.

That's the thing though, why are you letting your parents do everything for you. I live at home and I take care of myself...my mom is teaching me skills that i can use when I will move out.

At the end of the day, if you have a plan for your life and you know what you need to do to get there then who cares what people say because they are not living your situation and there are more than one way to get to the final destination.

I will live at home as long as it takes until I am financially stable. I do not intend to pay someone else's mortgage so that I can brag about having my own spot.

 

[Colicat]

Sounds like you gave him everything he wanted up front.

It's hard to demand more when you've already given him everything he wants. Women are always ass backwards when it comes to relationships!

...If I feel as though you are worthy of my affection and attention, I have no problem showering you with it.... But if lustful thrills are all you can provide I get bored... either we progress into something that has more depth or we part....

we parted... ....

 

[beenz]

Ah look more stereotypes.

Lol at being a man meaning being saddled with a 500k mortgage.

I turn up my music as loud as I want, no race car bed, make my own food.

Like I said everything you base is on perception and stereotypes.

houses don't cost 500k out here for the most part. you can get a decent house for half that amount or even less.

 

[MikelArteta]

Well that's not the case in Toronto, where the average house is over 900k

houses don't cost 500k out here for the most part. you can get a decent house for half that amount or even less.

 

[beenz]

Well that's not the case in Toronto, where the average house is over 900k

if that's the case, is the average salary out there 150K a year?

also, you said your crib has 7 BR. is that what ya'll consider average? cuz 4000 sq ft and 7 BR isn't an average house.

how much does a 3 or 4 BR crib cost on average?

 

[Yup]

Sounds like you gave him everything he wanted up front.

It's hard to demand more when you've already given him everything he wants. Women are always ass backwards when it comes to relationships!

Women get criticized either way...it's either she didn't do enough or she did too much. If someone does not love you, they will find any excuse to justify why they wronged you.