Spin: How old is too old to be living at home?

[mamba]

This is true. I know when I hit 26 and still lived at home, women looked down on it. They would all say "oh that's cool..at least you are saving your money." But would either hold it against me or start fading away. And it was evident that I was being smart with my finances and thinking about the the long term but they didn't give a shyt. (We all know women are short-sighted as hell). So I know a 35 year old man wouldn't even be entertained by the average woman if he still lived at home.

It's very rare for a woman to give a man a pass for living at home. They may say it's ok. But, the minute they get to talking with their girls:

Brehette: I met someone new. He's great.

Friend 1: So tell us about him.

Friend 2: Yeah. What does he do?

Brehette: He's a consultant.

Friend 1: So, where does he live?

Brehette:

 

[mamba]

Women get criticized either way...it's either she didn't do enough or she did too much. If someone does not love you, they will find any excuse to justify why they wronged you.

He didn't do anything wrong!

She let him beat up her p*ssy every whichaway and then wanted him to give her commitment! That's ass backward.

 

[Yup]

He didn't do anything wrong!

She let him beat up her p*ssy every whichaway and then wanted him to give her commitment! That's ass backward.

Really, where did you get this from? And men are waiting to commit before they have sex?

Again, what I said still applies another man could have seen colicat's affections as a reason to commit.

 

[mamba]

...If I feel as though you are worthy of my affection and attention, I have no problem showering you with it.... But if lustful thrills are all you can provide I get bored... either we progress into something that has more depth or we part....

we parted... ....

Sounds like you've been showering a bunch of nikkas with affection and attention and not getting what you want in return.

Maybe you should switch the game up, brehette.

You're no different than nikkas who end up in the friend zone.

A nikka will say, "I gave her time, listened to her as she articulated her problems, took her out to eat, etc. But, she wouldn't take me seriously." Woman doesn't owe that nikka anything. He shouldn't have been a simp.

Same with chicks. They give nikkas all the benefits of being in a committed relationship before even getting the commitment! What incentive does a nikka have to commit if he's already getting full benefits up front?

 

[mamba]

Really, where did you get this from? And men are waiting to commit before they have sex?

Again, what I said still applies another man could have seen colicat'a affectuons as a reason to commit.

Men certainly will not pay (commit) after they've gotten all the benefits up front for free.

 

[Colicat]

He didn't do anything wrong!

She let him beat up her p*ssy every whichaway and then wanted him to give her commitment! That's ass backward.

Yeah, uhm no.... that's how you think it went...

We discussed monogamy prior to engaging in anything.... the brother was influenced by his boys and didn't want to stop the party lifestyle.... he didn't understand how clubbing every weekend with his boys was counter productive to a relationship.... he was fine with the way things were.... I wasn't.... I moved on....

you sound more invested and salty about my relationship than I do... get a grip...

 

[Yup]

Men certainly will not pay (commit) after they've gotten all the benefits up front for free.

I think you have some old school ideals, although admirable, don't necessarily ring true for all men of this generation.

 

[mamba]

Yeah, uhm no.... that's how you think it went...

We discussed monogamy prior to engaging in anything.... the brother was influenced by his boys and didn't want to stop the party lifestyle.... he didn't understand how clubbing every weekend with his boys was counter productive to a relationship.... he was fine with the way things were.... I wasn't.... I moved on....

you sound more invested and salty about my relationship than I do... get a grip...

I'm not invested in anything. I just call out dumb logic when I see it. You discussing monogy does not equal commitment. That nikka was free to club every weekend. He never committed to you. He was getting his needs met.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

This nikka reincar still lives with his parents, and that's the dude y'all look to for relationship advice

 

[mamba]

I think you have some old school ideals, although admirable, don't necessarily ring true for all men of this generation.

How about you point the finger at your fellow brehettethren? Men don't control sex, but we do control commitment.

It's up to women to decide when to dish out sex, unless nikkas are out here raping you all.

 

[Colicat]

Sounds like you've been showering a bunch of nikkas with affection and attention and not getting what you want in return.

Maybe you should switch the game up, brehette.

You're no different than nikkas who end up in the friend zone.

A nikka will say, "I gave her time, listened to her as she articulated her problems, took her out to eat, etc. But, she wouldn't take me seriously." Woman doesn't owe that nikka anything. He shouldn't have been a simp.

Same with chicks. They give nikkas all the benefits of being in a committed relationship before even getting the commitment! What incentive does a nikka have to commit if he's already getting full benefits up front?

Dude shut up... you don't know shyt... you have no clue about the timeline of the relationship that I am talking about.... nikka we were together for 2 years....nothing that I said sounds like I shower a bunch of nikkas with affection.... shut the fukk up... y'all internet idiots will lambaste a woman if she holds out on a dude or if she is decisive about what she wants...

stop worrying about how my p*ssy gets wet and worry about finding a woman who doesn't dry up when talking to your idiotic ass...

 

[mamba]

Dude shut up... you don't know shyt... you have no clue about the timeline of the relationship that I am talking about.... nikka we were together for 2 years....nothing that I said sounds like I shower a bunch of nikkas with affection.... shut the fukk up... y'all internet idiots will lambaste a woman if she holds out on a dude or if she is decisive about what she wants...

stop worrying about how my p*ssy gets wet and worry about finding a woman who doesn't dry up when talking to your idiotic ass...

LOL! You were with that nikka for two years, giving him the full benefits of a committed relationship and no commitment? Yeah. But, I'm the one who is the idiot!

 

[Yup]

How about you point the finger at your fellow brehettethren? Men don't control sex, but we do control commitment.

It's up to women to decide when to dish out sex, unless nikkas are out here raping you all.

People will say what they want you hear to get what they want out of relationships all the time. As a man, I am sure you are well aware of that.
Some are more committed to the lie as shown ny some of the threads in here than others. Other than a wedding ceromony what else can a woman take from a man's word that he will be committed to the relationship? And even vows is not an assurance of commitment. At some point, you have take a chance on someone while still keeping your eyes wide open which is the tricky part.

 

[MikelArteta]

No household income median is 90k

No average is a 3 bedroom townhome and those are like 500k

if that's the case, is the average salary out there 150K a year?

also, you said your crib has 7 BR. is that what ya'll consider average? cuz 4000 sq ft and 7 BR isn't an average house.

how much does a 3 or 4 BR crib cost on average?

 

[Paisley Darts]

Women or women that you were interested in. I don't like guys that floss and I like men that are smart with money.

So, I speak for myself and not the women that you have encountered.

I am speaking about women in general. And I'd even go on to say that what I said applies to the vast majority of women.

There are always exceptions..you could be an exception..but most women think they are the exception so who knows