SPIN: If you're NOT prepared to DISCIPLINE your children with THIS ITEM should you even be having kids at all?

[O.Red]

Lets say you look up stats on people who end up succeeding. Say graduate college and end up with a good job, and loving their families. Do you think the percentage of people who were beaten a lot is higher or lower than average?

This argument can always go both ways. There are plenty of highly successful people who credit their parent's discipline as the reason they are able to make it to where they are.

The problem with your premise is in the black community "discipline" always has to devolve into a beating or some borderline cruel and unusual type of humiliation ritual

Again the elephant in the room is the parents severe lack of communication skills. There's also the issue of a lot of black parents seeing their kids as bills with feet, thus an object, thus a slave. There's a ton of unresolved trauma with black adults and their parents in this regard

This discussion can get so much deeper and nastier but I really don't think y'all want it to

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

That'll work, until they want to be a leader amongst their friends or be tough when someone tries to punk them, then they do the same thing (point a gun at them) and it goes off.

consequences. they tough right? they'll be aight.

 

[DPresidential]

Imagine believing you have to rule with fear to mold your children into productive and rational members of society.

 

[StretfordRed]

It’s quite simply bad parenting. No need to beat your kids.

 

[MMS]

children with no sense will inspire the adults raising them to put hands on them

and adults with no sense tend to have children with no sense

it's the BIG BIG BIG DUNCE feedback loop jahahahaa

*

Do you have children?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

The state's won't do shyt but take your kids and literally make money off them. There's literally budgeting in your state for state wards. Every child that is a ward of the state literally has a price tag, and they will go to foster parents who literally get paid to house them. Regardless of their disciplinary status. It don't matter whether they pass or fail in school, literally every day that child is a state ward he's generating money for the state. There's no criteria from which a child that is a ward of the state loses funding. Foster parents could lose their ability to foster, agencies could be shut down, when that happens the child still remains in custody of the state and they are transferred to another agency or foster parent until either the parents get right or they age out.

I’m talking bout prison, man

 

[010101]

Do you have children?

NO*

 

[MMS]

NO*

Oh that makes more sense.

Are you the child youre describing then?

 

[Swirv]

If a kid is unruly, that’s because of the parenting or lack thereof. Kids respect adults that respect themselves. If you have to put hands on a child, you’ve already lost.

 

[Moose_Greyjoy]

I was raised on the belt…..I don’t see myself hitting my daughter with one

 

[010101]

Oh that makes more sense.

Are you the child youre describing then?

you are the child i am describing*

 

[EA]

Hitting your kids isn’t a requirement for them to behave themselves (I never got hit and I was well behaved).

No offense to anyone but I’ve always looked at corporal punishment as a lazy (and borderline abusive) way of disciplining children because the only thing you’re teaching them is that violence is a consequence of not acting right.

Then parents wonder why their kids have a temper and are always quick to swing on kids that piss them off at school

 

[MMS]

you are the child i am describing*

now thats some imagination

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

The problem with your premise is in the black community "discipline" always has to devolve into a beating or some borderline cruel and unusual type of humiliation ritual

Again the elephant in the room is the parents severe lack of communication skills. There's also the issue of a lot of black parents seeing their kids as bills with feet, thus an object, thus a slave. There's a ton of unresolved trauma with black adults and their parents in this regard

This discussion can get so much deeper and nastier but I really don't think y'all want it to

Surprised we made it 6 pages before the inevitable "Only black people do it" narrative came up.



This Black Twitter talk is getting annoying. Most new age young blacks don't have trauma, a lot of us unfortunately are just soft.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

I was raised on the belt…..I don’t see myself hitting my daughter with one

I genuinely can’t imagine using a belt to hit a little girl

What type of shyt is that man