Caretaker for my mother and went job hunting last week. Going again Tuesday morning. I already filled out for the temp-service and no luck there. However, that's not stopping my grind. Anyway, I'm not trying to demand, but I want positive people in my life now. I'm at that stage in my life where I don't want negativity anymore.
No, get a woman that has goals and plans for the future.
If you care taking your mother you ain't gonna have time for a relationship,you gonna be care taking two women,plus u ain't working so you ain't gonna have disposable income to do anything with a woman unless you expect to just stare at each other at your house, and last, u on an online forum, never expect anything positive
Alright. Like I said, I'm the nice guy type who wants to make himself something. I feel a woman would like a person like me because I love working. Yeah, it's weird, but I always loved being on my feet doing something. I HATE being unemployed even though I resigned to take care of my mother (father works during the whole day). Had to be a good son. However, it's hard sometimes finding women that want to be productive like myself. Also, I love politics and volunteering (some low-quality women may not like that).
I know I'm on thecoli and yall roast. However, we should be serious on some occasions. This is a site with mostly brothas. My mother is getting better and I'm out job hunting. I'm not dating right now, but in the middle to late 2017 year I want to. Even though, I want to get back in school and volunteer too.
See, that's the same with me. I don't care about the looks. A Nicki Minaj type isn't my type anyway. I can take a plain jane and make her beautifal. To me, it's the spirit that counts.
See, I'm not trying to lie, but I had women say that I was handsome. Some women (in HS and workforce) I pushed away because I wasn't ready maturely to date. However, I'm not a simp either. I'd just act like a gentlemen which I'm good at. What would be your advice in this situation? You're better at this than I am.
True. Girl of my dreams isn't beauty it's mainly being productive and making something out of her life.
Many. Here's a few: I respect you for choosing to be disciplined in your life. I'm sorry you've had to carry the emotional and physical load of taking care of your mom. You remind me of Peter Pan in a way, it's refreshing.
You may be able to find those kind of women on your local college campus. I don't know any women who are into politics, but that'd be the place to look.
True about the college campus part (I have plans to go back to get my AA in Human Services). Still plan to take a skillset trade. However, politics is a huge part of my life. Mainly because I want to run for congress or state rep down the line.