SPIN: Why do grown men do and say creepy shyt to women?

[Roid Jones]

Not every male is a man and most males have an adolescent brain in a man's body

 

[bigdaddy88]

It depends there is some truth when people say if she finds u attractive.

But some nikkas be making overt sexual comments in the first 5 minutes of a convo that a no no as well.

Is not what u say its how u say it and WHEN nikkas think what their saying is cold and turning her on, but be saying stuff outta context

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

The premise of this post is trash.


The Jack off guy and the guy yelling at the asisn woman are sick individuals who clearly do not represent men as a whole.

The woman in the gym thread was recording people without their consent which is the only creepy thing happening there. Looking at women then speaking to them is not creepy .

 

[Roid Jones]

Is he wrong?

I can get away with being rude to women and it is met with giggles. You have to know your audience still.

This is a key point, why do you think so many dudes push back against this when this point is brought up?

 

[Why]

I can’t speak for them.im a chill quiet fella.

 

[Roid Jones]

It depends there is some truth when people say if she finds u attractive.

But some nikkas be making overt sexual comments in the first 5 minutes of a convo that a no no as well.

Is not what u say its how u say it and WHEN nikkas think what their saying is cold and turning her on, but be saying stuff outta context

Breh where does this come from tho? we've all done it at some point or know dudes that do 'i'm about to drop this line on her and her panties are coming off'

 

[TXTrill1]

Real talk bro in there 60s too. There's this old ass white dude I work with who used to try to flirt with young broads to look cool Boy is appaling

 

[AAKing23]

It's only creepy when she's not attracted to you

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Is he wrong?

I can get away with being rude to women and it is met with giggles. You have to know your audience still.

yes he’s wrong. As a woman, attractiveness doesn’t compensate for creepy and rude behavior.


Just because the women you encountered were ok with doesn’t mean every woman would be..


Newsflash, women are not all the same

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Most human beings say shyt that can come off as creepy or weird..
It’s not regulated to just men..
I’ve had women say shyt to me..
Especially white women(No pawg)
That think shyt is cute and I’m supposed to shoot my shot..
Just because they talked to me..
I have a big butt
And now that I’m more in shape..
The shyt I have heard just standing in line
Some Filipino chick was on some..
I would love to bite that thang
I guess she didn’t think I heard her because I had my ipods in..
But I took them off ambient mode and heard that shyt..
Clear as day
Turned around and said..
“Oh really
bytch turned bright red and went to another checkout line
Women really got y’all out here acting like they are not creeps as well..
Not saying some women haven’t dealt with real terror..
That goofy ass nikka giving his ssn out
But that is not the norm..
Most nikkas know how to bow out gracefully..
Take their Ls and move on..
It’s always to the extreme on here..
And never any middle ground..
That’s sad and unfortunate

 

[MajesticLion]

Because some men are legit creepy and weird, and they try to talk to women. Not only that, with the entire men-should-do-the-chasing stupidity, they shoot their shot far more than legit creepy and weird women, so the perception is just that much more skewed.

 

[SNYC]

Reposting....

The Coli dream...



The actual reality.....

 

[Umoja]

yes he’s wrong. As a woman, attractiveness doesn’t compensate for creepy and rude behavior.


Just because the women you encountered were ok with doesn’t mean every woman would be..


Newsflash, women are not all the same

Did I not say you have to know your audience?

 

[Mowgli]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/aw-...ee-security-footage-he-responds.798299/page-3
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/guy...-refused-to-have-lunch-with-him.798253/page-4
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/women-are-fed-up-of-being-approached-by-guys-in-the-gym.797999/
I been seeing thread after thread lately and I'm confused on why grown ass men are weird af to women? I understand being a immature teenager thinking harsassing women is any sort of acceptable but as the threads show, there is guys in 30s, 40s, and 50s doing this fukkshyt. Is inceldom that big of a force now? Mental illness running unchecked? Fathers not teaching their sons game?

The 30s equivalent of the modern woman was harassed the same

What kind of woman in the thirties bragged about side dudes
Walked around half naked in public
Laid with married men
Did strange things for change
Engaged I hookups with strangers
Got high
Was alcoholic
Was on pills
Neglected her kid for selfies
Threw herself at desirable men

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's only creepy when she's not attracted to you

If fat ugly chick approached u
U would also find it creepy

Works both ways