Spinach: What are reasons you stopped liking a girl you used to think was dope?

[mamba]

The bold is my current girl.

The dating history makes me feel I’m doing too much.

Bust it open for a plethora of cats for pretty much nothing

Sounds like you know what you need to do, breh.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Yeah women who smoke weed are a turn off to me.

Drugs in general are a turn off to me.

Moderate drinking is ok, but i hate seeing women drink to get fukked up. I cant respect it.

She cannot be drinking 4 lokos or supermalt.

Another one is large tattoos on just random parts of the body or having a sleeve.

 

[Sylar]

Lying to me is enough to make her go from an 8/10 to a 3/10

 

[mrfortune]

got to the p*ssy and it stank, stinky breath on closer inspection, ugly feet, weird finger nail shape curved and hella big like claws, aint about shyt, no personality

 

[Laidbackman]

Back in high school, there was this fine sister who had this awesome figure, and a cute face (and a kinda innocent face), and we had instant chemistry. She was very very nice. She had just came in the middle of our junior year. And she only lived a mile away from our home. We worked together as volunteers for this guidance counselor. But one afternoon, she came on her period and didn't know it. I didn't know how to tell her. I just remembered seeing this round wet spot around her crouch from behind. There was another sister working there in the guidance office too that was fine, but much more wild... she liked me a little, and we always joked around. Anyway this sister was walking around with her period showing a little too long. I was sure I told the other sister to tell her. After all these years, it just dawned on me that maybe that other sister didn't tell her on purpose, hoping it would turn me off. But the girl was so nice, I couldn't imagine anybody letting her go exposed like that. I never did get that image out of my mind. And I never asked her out. That next year, you would have thought me and that fine sister (who had the period) never even knew each other. We never said a word to one another again, She wounded up dating this dude in our senior year with my first name. Although that period happened in our junior year, it never dawned on me that she could have dated him on purpose because he had my first name, and because I didn't follow up. That may sound far fetched, but women go overboard with stuff sometimes, so I can't rule that out. But he was a good dude, until he kinda got smart with me one day in our senior year for no reason. I think he knew me and his girl were kinda close in our junior year when she first arrived, and I was the first brother she knew, and I probably could have had her. She may have even shared that period incident with him. Knowing what I know today about girls, she probably did, and he just happen to let it show that day, with his mickey mouse looking face. But all the time she was dating him, I could never get jealous. That's how much that period image stayed in my mind. I was only 16. I never told anybody what I saw. But even today, I'm still not sure if I could get past that image, if this happened to another girl I was about to ask out. But I really wish I had pursued that girl back then. She was really nice, and she was my type. By coincidence, I dated a girl at U of MD in my sophomore year, who looked and acted sorta like her. But that girl at Maryland blew my mind though. But anyway, I only know one person who married their high school sweet heart. It was a girl from our block. And they're still together, but I understand her husband has late stage cancer.

Many years later while I worked as an IT Specialist, I was talking to this girl I worked with every night on the phone, but we never went out on a date. Her personality was very very much like that sister I went to high school with, even more than the girl at the U of Maryland was. Like her, she was always smiling, but she smiled even more. Then one night on the phone, she told me she went to a movie with this guy, but it was a platonic relationship. Although we still talked on the phone, I never felt the same about her again, even if their relationship was platonic.

I had to cut that second story short, but I thought I'd share those two stories. But here are some turn offs in general:

Keeping in touch with old boyfriends or having maie friends period.
Flirting or acting whorish, including calling other men baby, or calling men on tv, baby while watching a ball game. It looks even worst if she does it in public, or in front of company. This includes flirting with your male friends or male relatives...which is even worst, and are automatic deal breakers.
Being simple minded.
Telling me she been with a White man before.
Telling me how many dudes she been with.
Telling me she slept with a celeb, or someone who was kin to one.
Telling me, or having me thinking she use to be a prostitute, or anything close.
Telling me her wildest past sexual experience(s).
Telling me she did a one night stand.
Having a tattoo with some other dudes name on it, and not doing enough to get it off, or can't get it off.


And these are things that turn you off during a relationship other then messing around on you, which is an automatic deal breaker:

Indicating she like to give head, but won't do me. Good way to get tossed to the side.
Although this never happened; telling me someone she been with had a bigger dikk than mine. Women have lost husbands behind that one.
Always asking what I want to do, then going against it. Or asking her what she wants to do, then saying she don't know. Then she lets you decide, then decide against it. Then tell you what she wants to do.

 

[Ciggavelli]

Back in high school, there was this fine sister who had this awesome figure, and a cute face (and a kinda innocent face), and we had instant chemistry. She was very very nice. She had just came in the middle of our junior year. And she only lived a mile away from our home. We worked together as volunteers for this guidance counselor. But one afternoon, she came on her period and didn't know it. I didn't know how to tell her. I just remembered seeing this round wet spot around her crouch from behind. There was another sister working there in the guidance office too that was fine, but much more wild... she liked me a little, and we always joked around. Anyway this sister was walking around with her period showing a little too long. I was sure I told the other sister to tell her. After all these years, it just dawned on me that maybe that other sister didn't tell her on purpose, hoping it would turn me off. But the girl was so nice, I couldn't imagine anybody letting her go exposed like that. I never did get that image out of my mind. And I never asked her out. That next year, you would have thought me and that fine sister (who had the period) never even knew each other. We never said a word to one another again, She wounded up dating this dude in our senior year with my first name. Although that period happened in our junior year, it never dawned on me that she could have dated him on purpose because he had my first name, and because I didn't follow up. That may sound far fetched, but women go overboard with stuff sometimes, so I can't rule that out. But he was a good dude, until he kinda got smart with me one day in our senior year for no reason. I think he knew me and his girl were kinda close in our junior year when she first arrived, and I was the first brother she knew, and I probably could have had her. She may have even shared that period incident with him. Knowing what I know today about girls, she probably did, and he just happen to let it show that day, with his mickey mouse looking face. But all the time she was dating him, I could never get jealous. That's how much that period image stayed in my mind. I was only 16. I never told anybody what I saw. But even today, I'm still not sure if I could get pass that image, if this happened to another girl I was about to ask out. But I really wish I had pursued that girl back then. She was really nice, and she was my type. By coincidence, I dated a girl at U of MD in my sophomore year, who looked and acted sorta like her. But that girl at Maryland blew my mind though. But anyway, I only know one person who married their high school sweet heart. It was a girl from our block. And they're still together, but I understand her husband has late stage cancer.

Many years later while I worked as an IT Specialist, I was talking to this girl I worked with every night on the phone, but we never went out on a date. Her personality was very very much like that sister I went to high school with, even more than the girl at the U of Maryland was. Like her, she was always smiling, but she smiled even more. Then one night on the phone, she told me she went to a movie with this guy, but it was a platonic relationship. Although we still talked on the phone, I never felt the same about her again, even if their relationship was platonic.

I had to cut that second story short, but I thought I'd share those two stories. But here are some turn offs in general:

Keeping in touch with old boyfriends or having maie friends period.
Flirting or acting whorish, including calling other men baby, or calling men on tv, baby while watching a ball game. It looks even worst if she does it in public, or in front of company. This includes flirting with your male friends or male relatives...which is even worst, and are automatic deal breakers.
Being simple minded.
Telling me she been with a White man before.
Telling me how many dudes she been with.
Telling me she slept with a celeb, or someone who was kin to one.
Telling me, or having me thinking she use to be a prostitute, or anything close.
Telling me her wildest past sexual experience(s).
Telling me she did a one night stand.
Having a tattoo with some other dudes name on it, and not doing enough to get it off, or can't get it off.


And these are things that turn you off during a relationship other then messing around on you, which is an automatic deal breaker:

Indicating she like to give head, but won't do me. Good way to get tossed to the side.
Although this never happened; telling me someone she been with had a bigger dikk than mine. Women have lost husbands behind that one.
Always asking what I want to do, then going against it. Or asking her what she wants to do, then saying she don't know. Then she lets you decide, then decide against it. Then tell you what she wants to do.

I can understand that period shyt. I was with a girl who had a yeast infection and she didn’t think to stop me from going down there. Big, big mistake. shyt was like

Now, I always wonder if a girl has a yeast infection, and if I see any white shyt down there, I literally get the fukk outta her place ASAP. Motherfukkers talking about girls creaming and shyt....nah, that’s a fukking yeast infection.

 

[kt773]

Fake personality, not intelligent, not aware of current events, likes country music (for real, I hate that genre. If you like that shyt...), cares too much about her appearance, religious.

Sounds just like this lame ass AKA bytch that I have to hit with the future today...from the religious shyt to ordering country music while we was on a date, always in a mirror ....do we know the same bytch

 

[Nintendough]

bytch pulled a condom out. Almost beat her for that

 

[badtguy]

Selfish

Starts revealin how fukked up her past is/emotional vomit way too early

All or most her exes were losers/abusers/thugs/vagabonds

Shows thot tendencies

Finds out she cant cook

Wack in bed and not willing to be open

Has too much social media presence

Has too many guy friends/acquiantances

This plus stank p*ssy or a lil doodoo in her butt when hitting it from the back.

 

[badtguy]

If a bytch tells me she don't use wet wipes. Instantly turned off like.... eww

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You're attracted to women?

only the baddest

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

the last dude i was dating i think he got salty cuz i wouldn't be in a more serious relationship with him. one night after he asked for "something more serious" held me close and said "i want to tell you something before you run out of here ...i love you".. so an hour later he's walking me to the car and says "keep in touch". i knew at that point that it would be a slow burn until one of us cut the other off completely. sure enough he went out of his way to be an a$$hole after that lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Back in high school, there was this fine sister who had this awesome figure, and a cute face (and a kinda innocent face), and we had instant chemistry. She was very very nice. She had just came in the middle of our junior year. And she only lived a mile away from our home. We worked together as volunteers for this guidance counselor. But one afternoon, she came on her period and didn't know it. I didn't know how to tell her. I just remembered seeing this round wet spot around her crouch from behind. There was another sister working there in the guidance office too that was fine, but much more wild... she liked me a little, and we always joked around. Anyway this sister was walking around with her period showing a little too long. I was sure I told the other sister to tell her. After all these years, it just dawned on me that maybe that other sister didn't tell her on purpose, hoping it would turn me off. But the girl was so nice, I couldn't imagine anybody letting her go exposed like that. I never did get that image out of my mind. And I never asked her out. That next year, you would have thought me and that fine sister (who had the period) never even knew each other. We never said a word to one another again, She wounded up dating this dude in our senior year with my first name. Although that period happened in our junior year, it never dawned on me that she could have dated him on purpose because he had my first name, and because I didn't follow up. That may sound far fetched, but women go overboard with stuff sometimes, so I can't rule that out. But he was a good dude, until he kinda got smart with me one day in our senior year for no reason. I think he knew me and his girl were kinda close in our junior year when she first arrived, and I was the first brother she knew, and I probably could have had her. She may have even shared that period incident with him. Knowing what I know today about girls, she probably did, and he just happen to let it show that day, with his mickey mouse looking face. But all the time she was dating him, I could never get jealous. That's how much that period image stayed in my mind. I was only 16. I never told anybody what I saw. But even today, I'm still not sure if I could get pass that image, if this happened to another girl I was about to ask out. But I really wish I had pursued that girl back then. She was really nice, and she was my type. By coincidence, I dated a girl at U of MD in my sophomore year, who looked and acted sorta like her. But that girl at Maryland blew my mind though. But anyway, I only know one person who married their high school sweet heart. It was a girl from our block. And they're still together, but I understand her husband has late stage cancer.

Many years later while I worked as an IT Specialist, I was talking to this girl I worked with every night on the phone, but we never went out on a date. Her personality was very very much like that sister I went to high school with, even more than the girl at the U of Maryland was. Like her, she was always smiling, but she smiled even more. Then one night on the phone, she told me she went to a movie with this guy, but it was a platonic relationship. Although we still talked on the phone, I never felt the same about her again, even if their relationship was platonic.

I had to cut that second story short, but I thought I'd share those two stories. But here are some turn offs in general:

Keeping in touch with old boyfriends or having maie friends period.
Flirting or acting whorish, including calling other men baby, or calling men on tv, baby while watching a ball game. It looks even worst if she does it in public, or in front of company. This includes flirting with your male friends or male relatives...which is even worst, and are automatic deal breakers.
Being simple minded.
Telling me she been with a White man before.
Telling me how many dudes she been with.
Telling me she slept with a celeb, or someone who was kin to one.
Telling me, or having me thinking she use to be a prostitute, or anything close.
Telling me her wildest past sexual experience(s).
Telling me she did a one night stand.
Having a tattoo with some other dudes name on it, and not doing enough to get it off, or can't get it off.


And these are things that turn you off during a relationship other then messing around on you, which is an automatic deal breaker:

Indicating she like to give head, but won't do me. Good way to get tossed to the side.
Although this never happened; telling me someone she been with had a bigger dikk than mine. Women have lost husbands behind that one.
Always asking what I want to do, then going against it. Or asking her what she wants to do, then saying she don't know. Then she lets you decide, then decide against it. Then tell you what she wants to do.

You are way over thinking that high school shyt breh. I doubt very seriously that that chick dated that dude to get back at you. She probably dated him because she liked him. You, however, are obsessed with her.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

drinking too much and bipolar behaviors.

 

[Wiles]

I use to have the biggest girl crush on this chick I use to work with. She was soooo fine. Until one day she randomly strolled in on her day of and threw up in a bucket. Chic was a straight drunk. Who am I kidding, she still fine.

U eat cat and take dikk?