Spinach: What are reasons you stopped liking a girl you used to think was dope?

[Wiles]

Any Black woman with a cac dude in her dating history is automatic for me once I find out.

I may smash, but the idea of anything real goes out the window.

This


Once a bedwench always Bedwench


Light SKIN and mix breeds beware of the recovering bedwench

 

[Wiles]

the last dude i was dating i think he got salty cuz i wouldn't be in a more serious relationship with him. one night after he asked for "something more serious" held me close and said "i want to tell you something before you run out of here ...i love you".. so an hour later he's walking me to the car and says "keep in touch". i knew at that point that it would be a slow burn until one of us cut the other off completely. sure enough he went out of his way to be an a$$hole after that lol

Can u read the title of the thread


If this ain't about u dating a girl then go to the other thread

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Can u read the title of the thread
If this ain't about u dating a girl then go to the other thread

lol, my post is about a guy dating a girl just from a different point of view. Im just adding another perspective that i'm sure is common (getting salty after heartbreak) but you won't see many guys admit it. plus there are plenty of men in the salon threads but nobody cares. but what other thread is this you speak of? i'll go in there too

 

[LDThaGod]

Lil joint I worked with was kool as hell when she 1st started, we instantly clicked but then I started noticing thot tendencies slowly leaking out...we worked retail and it seem like whenever a group of nikkas came in she always knew 2 or 3 out the group but would never speak to them...come to find out this lil hoe had a whole sex tape out smh

 

[Ghost Utmost]

The only thing that has ever made me run away from a pretty woman is if she's dramatic

Likes to bicker. Hard headed. Willfully ignorant, but loud about what she thinks (and be wrong as hell)

That ex wife I whine so much about: she asked me to get back together a couple times after we finally got divorced. She separated from me, we got back together, she divorced my ass, then asked me to try again...

I love this lady. To this day I still feel sad without her.

But I was just blinking like... no possible way... like... that would be truly insane. For me to try again.

So I refused her I guess? And the reason why was: she hurt me in ways that I didn't know were ways. She didn't do anything to me directly just the idea that she was happier away from me. After all we had together - after what I THOUGHT we had going on. I was destroyed by that and I couldn't muster any movement in her direction..I didn't like her anymore

And of course if they get fat or something. Become a drug addict. So shyt that just looks bad.

 

[Serious]

U eat cat and take dikk?

And she gives you a couple passes to cheat, before she deads the relationship. I'd say use those passes wisely

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

@Wiles just saw the thread.... aint nothing but guys derailing the thread in there lmao

 

[Wiles]

@Wiles just saw the thread.... aint nothing but guys derailing the thread in there lmao

So its ok since they do come in here with some bullshyt too. Got it. Follow the leader ass women true to the game

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

So its ok since they do come in here with some bullshyt too. Got it. Follow the leader ass women true to the game

how am i "following" when i posted here before i even noticed that one, and i didnt derail the thread like they did there

 

[Wiles]

how am i "following" when i posted here before i even noticed that one, and i didnt derail the thread like they did there

But you think it's ok since they are doing it too.

like a follower would.

 

[badtguy]

You are way over thinking that high school shyt breh. I doubt very seriously that that chick dated that dude to get back at you. She probably dated him because she liked him. You, however, are obsessed with her.

yeah, that Nikka hurt like shyt. Long paragraphs head ass

 

[Wiles]

yeah, that Nikka hurt like shyt. Long paragraphs head ass

You broads ain't shyt

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

And she gives you a couple passes to cheat, before she deads the relationship. I'd say use those passes wisely

um no and no

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

But you think it's ok since they are doing it too.

like a follower would.

no i thought it was ok before i even knew about that one... hence why i posted freely lol.

 

[Serious]

um no and no

I thought you allowed two major fukk ups. Technically cheating would fall on under that classification.












Getting back on topic. It seems with me randomly, I want most women I deal with until I get them, but then when I get with them, I don't really want to deal with everything associated with them. Especially if they're clingy, no matter the physical attraction. That neediness has pros and cons. I dealt with woman who text back in like 30 seconds, then they go crazy when I wouldnt dont respond back in 4 or 5 minutes. I found myself lying about doing random shyt like taking a shower or nap because I couldnt respond I mean this one chick had her day centered around texting me from dusk til dawn. The major downside to this is that I hated responding back, because I knew she would just text right back. Just to text, but have no substance.

Then I've dealt wit women who take their "time" responding back, and the day would practically be over before they responded back. I chalked this up to disinterested or busy.

There's gotta be a happy medium....

I actually wouldn't mind the former, if there was substance involved, but random close ended conversations were dreadful. Or talking just to talk....then they get mad when manage to turn any / every conversation into sex.

@StarGirl