Back in high school, there was this fine sister who had this awesome figure, and a cute face (and a kinda innocent face), and we had instant chemistry. She was very very nice. She had just came in the middle of our junior year. And she only lived a mile away from our home. We worked together as volunteers for this guidance counselor. But one afternoon, she came on her period and didn't know it. I didn't know how to tell her. I just remembered seeing this round wet spot around her crouch from behind. There was another sister working there in the guidance office too that was fine, but much more wild... she liked me a little, and we always joked around. Anyway this sister was walking around with her period showing a little too long. I was sure I told the other sister to tell her. After all these years, it just dawned on me that maybe that other sister didn't tell her on purpose, hoping it would turn me off. But the girl was so nice, I couldn't imagine anybody letting her go exposed like that. I never did get that image out of my mind. And I never asked her out. That next year, you would have thought me and that fine sister (who had the period) never even knew each other. We never said a word to one another again, She wounded up dating this dude in our senior year with my first name. Although that period happened in our junior year, it never dawned on me that she could have dated him on purpose because he had my first name, and because I didn't follow up. That may sound far fetched, but women go overboard with stuff sometimes, so I can't rule that out. But he was a good dude, until he kinda got smart with me one day in our senior year for no reason. I think he knew me and his girl were kinda close in our junior year when she first arrived, and I was the first brother she knew, and I probably could have had her. She may have even shared that period incident with him. Knowing what I know today about girls, she probably did, and he just happen to let it show that day, with his mickey mouse looking face. But all the time she was dating him, I could never get jealous. That's how much that period image stayed in my mind. I was only 16. I never told anybody what I saw. But even today, I'm still not sure if I could get pass that image, if this happened to another girl I was about to ask out. But I really wish I had pursued that girl back then. She was really nice, and she was my type. By coincidence, I dated a girl at U of MD in my sophomore year, who looked and acted sorta like her. But that girl at Maryland blew my mind though. But anyway, I only know one person who married their high school sweet heart. It was a girl from our block. And they're still together, but I understand her husband has late stage cancer.
Many years later while I worked as an IT Specialist, I was talking to this girl I worked with every night on the phone, but we never went out on a date. Her personality was very very much like that sister I went to high school with, even more than the girl at the U of Maryland was. Like her, she was always smiling, but she smiled even more. Then one night on the phone, she told me she went to a movie with this guy, but it was a platonic relationship. Although we still talked on the phone, I never felt the same about her again, even if their relationship was platonic.
I had to cut that second story short, but I thought I'd share those two stories. But here are some turn offs in general:
Keeping in touch with old boyfriends or having maie friends period.
Flirting or acting whorish, including calling other men baby, or calling men on tv, baby while watching a ball game. It looks even worst if she does it in public, or in front of company. This includes flirting with your male friends or male relatives...which is even worst, and are automatic deal breakers.
Being simple minded.
Telling me she been with a White man before.
Telling me how many dudes she been with.
Telling me she slept with a celeb, or someone who was kin to one.
Telling me, or having me thinking she use to be a prostitute, or anything close.
Telling me her wildest past sexual experience(s).
Telling me she did a one night stand.
Having a tattoo with some other dudes name on it, and not doing enough to get it off, or can't get it off.
And these are things that turn you off during a relationship other then messing around on you, which is an automatic deal breaker:
Indicating she like to give head, but won't do me. Good way to get tossed to the side.
Although this never happened; telling me someone she been with had a bigger dikk than mine. Women have lost husbands behind that one.
Always asking what I want to do, then going against it. Or asking her what she wants to do, then saying she don't know. Then she lets you decide, then decide against it. Then tell you what she wants to do.
I thought you allowed two major fukk ups. Technically cheating would fall on under that classification.
Chic was a straight drunk. Who am I kidding, she still fine.
