Stand Up Dude or Sucker?

[Egomaniacal1]

He's in it with his eyes wide open so definitely a stand up guy.

I'm in a similar situation myself tho so i might be biased. My two oldest kids are not mine biologically. I claimed them when i hooked up with their mother years ago. We've since broken up after 10 years and i never once thought to turn my back on them after raising them for that long from babies. I guess part of it is also that i know who i'm dealing with, their mother my ex has and probably always will love me and wish we was back together and to that end she has and probably always will have my back if i need her on most things.

End of the day the money spent is a small part of being a GOOD dad....being there and spending time to mold, shape and teach kids is priceless.

 

[Atlrocafella]

A lot of nikkas without daddys wishing sum ol generous nikka woulda came along and been they father figure too....he ain't a sucka cuz he ain't bein tricked into doin it,he just bein stupid...I'm almsot concerned ya boy might be on his Sandusky bcuz who does that guess nobody else wuz wondering that

That ain't his daughter,he ain't in a relationship with the baby mother,its not his place....Take ya daughter and leave and go do your thing,if u wanna bring the little girl sumthin back that's what u do,that's nice and reasonable....if he care that much invite the baby mama to come along with em,if she don't care the little girl is not resentful of her sister that's on her,lil girl don't get to leave the house that day.....this ain't shyt u should be doin all the time,maybe goin around the corner to grab a icee cream cone or sumthin....but spendin afternnons like she your daughter too...u see ur daghter bi weekly spend that time with her.

And if u not willing to take this girl on for 18 yrs it ain't cool to just do it while she cute and then stop when she gets older and annoying....and on top of that I don't wanna be hangin out with kids that ain't mine alone,so I get hit with sum false molestation charge....u don't know what's goin on in these kids life u playin daddy too when u not around,bcuz u just part time daddy by law.


If I wuz a judge and Any nikka doin what ur boy doin came in front of me on a molestation claim talkin bout "bu bu but I wuz just tryna be nice ur honor"....I'm givin em the " that don't even sound right nikka,take this son of a bytch to jail"

you kept it too real, had me laughing all the way through.

 

[Liquid]

I have to think about this one.

 

[Still Benefited]

I'm sad to say, this is the first chit I thought of, maynes.

I clap for ol' dude. That's real nicca chit he's doin', and if it were me I would consider it also. But, it's a cold world. All cuzz has to do is look at his Baby Mama wrong one day when he picks the girls up, and she callin' them people to go pick him up at Chuck E. Cheese talmbat "he kidnapped my other daughter..."

It is 100% FUCCED UP that that's what it is today, but it is that. Ion even like being in the same vicinity with a:

- child
- pre-teen
- white woman I don't know

...without somebody else present because you never know what might go dyne or what they might say you did.

I don't even kno why I'm paranoid about that cuz I never had nuthin like that happen even close or personally know nobody it happened to(that I believe wuznt really fukin them minors on purpose)....I think its just the fact before I even had a daughter I knew how I would feel if my daughter wuz alone with a strange dude I didn't know...and sum of these kids wanna sit on ya lap and kiss on you(innocently)...I cut that shyt short and its weird to me sumtimes these mothers so quik to ask u to watch they kid for a few minutes when u just met em,a few minutes is enuff for a pervert to fuk a kids world up...and a lot of these mothers don't check they daughters bout tryna sit on ya lap....I done pushed lil girls in mid air tryna jump on my lap on sum Mutumbo shyt.

Just out of respect to the baby daddy I don't even know but know how id feel I don't do it....ill fuk ya baby mama but ya daughter gon have to have a seat on that bean bag chair...be careful bruhs a lot of kids and preteens minds have been fuked up sexually,only way I can explain how sum of these lil girls act around grown men,possibly mimicking mama but still...and women be careful what u do around ya daughter...they shouldn't be seein u go in rooms alone with dudes followed by moanin all the time,or seein you and ya man grope each other why u think they ain't lookin....now I might try to grab ya booty in front of ya kids cuz they ain't mine,but its up to y'all to stop us.

 

[kash10003]

seems like he's just protecting his daughters siblinghood, but thats my analysis of the story told accordingly as the op's

 

[kevm3]

I can appreciate that man's ability to look above his own well-being to ensure that a kid that isn't even his is able to have a more enjoyable childhood. Instead of inspiring jealousy and envy between those kids, he's allowing those two kids to have more memories together, and that child that isn't his will remember him down the line for it. I can always respect those who look beyond their own well being to bless others. I feel they will truly be rewarded in the end.

 

[killacal]

You guys are in here commending a man for fixing a mistake a dumb whore made.

Yes shes a dumb whore if
1 She can't tell who is a dead beat
2 She let said dead beat hit
3 Got pregnant by said dead beat

 

[killacal]

@StillNotSoft is dropping knowledge in this thread

fukk you doing with a kid that isn't yours unsupervised

All cuz mama wanted to shake her ass that weekend

 

[ThugLife]

Sucker

Fuk dat baby

 

[Jesus]

 

[Doobie Doo]

I'm gonna say morally it is cool as long as you are doing by choice and not being influenced by outside forces, but legally, as a man it's the dumbest shyt you can do (due to the opportunity for the court system to rape u).

 

[Day_Walker]

Y'all trippin man. I'm all for the children being taken care of, I got real lucky in life, like increadibly lucky. She is manipulating the situation by allowing him being a quick fix for a 18 year old situation. So how long does this go on? Twelve more months or twelve more years? That time, that money, that commitment could be going to the betterment of his already fragile relationship with his daughter. Sometimes God will be alright with you being greedy.

People adopt kids all the time that aren't biologically there's and still love them like there own kids.

I have to this guy, its not an obligation for him and it comes from a good place. He has to make sure he doesnt get trap tho

Most likely he will end up having a connection with the other daughter to I'm guessing.
Eminem's adopted his step daughter and niece from what I remember.

 

[luckyse7enz]

He's a stand up guy. I couldn't let my daughter's sister completely go astray just because she was not from my loins. As a man, he saw a need and fulfilled it. That's how men lead

His current chick on the other hand is just probably upset cause she feels that extra he does for his baby's sister, should be directed towards her. Women be selfish like that.

Yeah. I wouldn't say that she's selfish, because in her mind, she's with a guy that had ONE child to deal with...however, how he's KIND of providing for two. She probably didn't mind him dealing with his blood...but now there's a kid involved that neither he or her (the current g/f) had any part in making. If I were a guy in her situation, I'd probably be like too.

Then, you'd have to consider...what if the current girlfriend has a child with dude? That kid would be his child's sister/brother as well. Does the other kid go in the bushes?

@StillNotSoft is dropping knowledge in this thread

fukk you doing with a kid that isn't yours unsupervised

All cuz mama wanted to shake her ass that weekend

Yeah...he did.

At the end of the day, dude's definitely being a stand-up dude, but it'd probably be better to invite the mother on some of the outings. Maybe, separate cars, if it's an issue. Just have a little day out or a movie with both parents and both kids.

 

[Listen]

If a man feels some sympathy for an innocent child whose related to his only offspring, and who reminds him of what his daughters life would be like without him in it, how can the decision to include this girl in the part time life he shares with his daughter EVER make someone wonder if hes a sucker????



If you've got enough love in your heart to share with a child that needs it, you should be commended.