Staying friends with your ex...
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Oh you fell into that lie of material things and status to get thevgirl eh?
Women care how you make them feel, for low self esteem damaged women its all about that more than any type of woman the emotion highs on their harp you can play.
The discord, the drama, you don't bring that her, you don't entice her.
Its also impossible to bring a brehette like this out of the fog let them rot.
The funny thing is your here saying this and that about here, yet deep inside you still want her
Instead of wondering why she's with that bum azz nukka, cut all ties kill the emotional connection and be happy, why would you want such a damage individual in your life even as friends.
Stop clinging to the cliff of hooe , if she was 300lbs and you just smashed when she was drunk you wouldn't listen to this ish
Women care how you make them feel, for low self esteem damaged women its all about that more than any type of woman the emotion highs on their harp you can play.
The discord, the drama, you don't bring that her, you don't entice her.
Its also impossible to bring a brehette like this out of the fog let them rot.
The funny thing is your here saying this and that about here, yet deep inside you still want her
Instead of wondering why she's with that bum azz nukka, cut all ties kill the emotional connection and be happy, why would you want such a damage individual in your life even as friends.
Stop clinging to the cliff of hooe , if she was 300lbs and you just smashed when she was drunk you wouldn't listen to this ish
So me and this chick broke up and decided to remain friends. Now she is back with her old flame and he's this bum ass, no job, no car having piece of shyt who also is controlling as hell. He doesn't want her to talk to any men at all. Not say hi or nothing. shyt's crazy. I mean she let him move in with her one time and she said he didn't help her pay nothing.Like why even still talk to that trash after that?
Anyway, so apparently they've been arguing a lot about her still talking to me (we work together) and on top of that they're not fukking like she wants (I wanted to say bytch you shouldn't have left me when she told me that) so she frustrated as hell and it's getting to the point where she is starting to take it out on me. She catches an attitude real quick now and I try to be nice and just say calm down but I know eventually I'm going to snap on her. What should I do? I want to stop talking to her and I don't at the same time.
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So me and this chick broke up and decided to remain friends. Now she is back with her old flame and he's this bum ass, no job, no car having piece of shyt who also is controlling as hell. He doesn't want her to talk to any men at all. Not say hi or nothing. shyt's crazy. I mean she let him move in with her one time and she said he didn't help her pay nothing.
Anyway, so apparently they've been arguing a lot about her still talking to me (we work together) and on top of that they're not fukking like she wants (I wanted to say bytch you shouldn't have left me when she told me that) so she frustrated as hell and it's getting to the point where she is starting to take it out on me. She catches an attitude real quick now and I try to be nice and just say calm down but I know eventually I'm going to snap on her. What should I do? I want to stop talking to her and I don't at the same time.
Depends on the situation.
You are either "friends" or that "other guy" don't confuse the 2.. I have been in both situations
I am friends with my ex, friends as in we talk and still chill, this is mainly because she has a daughter that became best friends with my niece while we were dating (I was around from when she was 1-6). So we keep that shyt civil, we really are friends
I have had other ex's try to be friends, friends as in, when everything is going good in their life they are MIA, when shyt is getting rough they call me..
Don't get the 2 confused that's all, but it is very possible to stay friends
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
be friends with females brehs
Thats not nice.
I understand it's rare but thats why I said depends on the situation, I will break it down a little
I dated her when her daughter was only 1, my niece was 2.. We dated for 5 years. So now my 7yr old niece and her 6yr old literally became best friends..
We broke up in a mutual way, My fam likes her, her fam likes me, even to this day still trusts me with her daughter more so then her deadbeat baby father. Something unexpected will come up, (for example an uncle unexpectedly passed away) my ex's mom called me asking If I could pick up the baby cause everyone was all crying and shyt and she didn't want her being there.
So yea I don't see this as a common scenario, but I just tell people it IS possible. Most of the times not recommended but depends on situation and mind set of BOTH sides.. I had an ex try the "friend" thing and our definition of staying "Friends" was us meeting up and smashing everytime her man was away.. That's not an ideal situation lol
Good luck
vicioustalk
Pro
Blow her back out... Just saying
A "friend" has never demoted me in position.
Nukkaz wouldn't stay if their 100k cert job told them no more benefits and we can't pay you anymore but you can still come in and work.
But for an ex, I don't love you like that anymore, your demoted to just a friend, no touching, no sex, just here me complain but you get no benefits, nukkaz will stay and hope.
Once a woman has lost attraction to you ala viewing you as a friend its over, leave with your dignity, get over the fear of saying no.
Trust me I still have women who tried to denote me years and months later still emailing me hoping for a chance they will never get.
Nukkaz wouldn't stay if their 100k cert job told them no more benefits and we can't pay you anymore but you can still come in and work.
But for an ex, I don't love you like that anymore, your demoted to just a friend, no touching, no sex, just here me complain but you get no benefits, nukkaz will stay and hope.
Once a woman has lost attraction to you ala viewing you as a friend its over, leave with your dignity, get over the fear of saying no.
Trust me I still have women who tried to denote me years and months later still emailing me hoping for a chance they will never get.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Why be friends with your ex if there is no kid involved? If you are cool enough to be a friend y'all should be cool enough to be together.
YUP!
Your instinct is telling you to walk away, for your own well-being. You have to put that above hers. You can tell her, briefly, one time only, that she is on a path of destruction that is all her responsibility and doing. You have tried to be a supportive friend (I'm assuming here) and she clearly can't be your friend when she's shytting on you. So, you're out.
If you can be respectful, clear, and then OUT..... a sharp line you are not crossing and not letting her cross, then you're in a good place. You have to work with this woman, so it's not like you can put her on ignore completely. You just have to be firm on that boundary.
I broke up with my ex and tried to keep cordial and it was the worst mistake of my life. Cut off all ties brehs unless she has your child then handle your fatherly duties.
And never date a coworker you broke all the rules breh