Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

[Stuntone]

Black Matriarchy alive and well in this thread

The male feminists even going harder than the women. An amazing sight to see

Exactly.

They act like Black Women cant be critiqued.

 

[Youseenmywork]

That's a jewel.

My pops told me never have sex with someone you wouldn't want to raise a child with.

How was you pops in his time ass young man ?

 

[Eddy Gordo]

The bulk should fall to the people who wanted to bring the child in the world. If the father wants no involvement, he shouldn't be forced to cover it. Then it should fall to the person who wanted th child.

Fixed

 

[Eddy Gordo]

there needs to be a level of acknowledgement that sizeable amount men treat their children according to how they feel about their mothers.

This is obvious. Men dont carry a child nor experience the hormonal shift. A newborn isnt anything human wise to bond over for a man. The relationship or lack thereof is just an extension of the relationship with the mother.

Which is why i tell women to pick responsible dudes, men that got they shyt together, and dudes invested in the relationship to have kids with. And i still have people giving me back talk.

 

[valet]

Havent read the whole thread but some of these comments sound like "All lives matter" in the line of thinking. Weird.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

This is the coli though, when BW are called out by their bad behaviour it’s our responsibility to call our all races of men . When the shoe is flipped then black women only need to be called out.

These men being used by nonbw but never open their mouths when it happens. Dudes not be with a black women or dated one for years but still he talking about be as if they are in a relationship with one. Its like to keep mum on their nonblack relationship because they don’t want to destroy the fantasy they gave created for themselves that the problem is them and the women that they choose regardless of colour.

You act as if these men werent raised around or associated with black women and see those women do black men dirty.

I havent dated a black woman in four years. Its been 3 days since a black woman told me she using child support money to buy a knockoff micheal kors bag.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

I see a lot of people saying "He's taken responsibility for his actions!" but...did he? He's got kids in high school and college but claims their mom(s) still won't let him see them? How does that even work? You can keep an adult child away from a parent.

He's paid millions of dollars in child support and says the BMs are still after him for more which means he's been in court with them over this numerous times before. So he's been in court all those times, but the fact that his children were being kept from him never came up?
Cause lets not forget, this ain't no regular degular nikka. He's a rich ex athlete who has the resources to hire the best family law attorneys. Ain't no "B...but they won't let me see my kids1!!1!1! " and everyone just shrugs their shoulders when you in that tax bracket. fukk "visitation" being enforced, he could've had joint custody if that's what he wanted.

He probably pays for baby mama attorneys fees as well. So she probably has "the best" as well. Which means he still loses. As a man if baby mom wanna play dirty you just lose. The end.

 

[Ya?]

Exactly.

They act like Black Women cant be critiqued.

Black women can be criticized and do get criticized but these dudes dont even have their own house in order but want to criticize, plus they are looking to bash BW because taht ish goes viral like quicksand. In this instance the topic should focus on his lack of decision making skills. You have baby mothers with multiple kids the only common denominator is you.

A lot of men don’t take their share of responsibility for the breakdown of their relationship until it has gone past the point of no return. How many baby mothers do you need to collect before you realize that you need to straighten out your life? Also, in all these woe is me stories, rarely do I ever find these men ever think of the impact this sort of upbringing has on the kids. They only think about themselves.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Black women can be criticized and do get criticized but these dudes dont even have their house in order but want to criticize, plus they are looking to bash. In this instance the topic should focus on his lack decision making skills. You have baby mothers with multiple kids the only common denominator is you.

He knows that. Which is why he acknowledges that he fukked and literally told young men to find one woman and have a family with her.

The reason men criticize black women so hard is because they wont take responsibility for they half of the black peoples fukked up situations or admitt they fukked up. Find me a black woman of any notoriety saying she messed up by having children with multiple different men.

 

[JT-Money]

He is speaking to black men therefore he needs to address all women. Black men don’t only date, marry or sex black women and don’t only have black baby mothers. I’m addition, he should be warning black men to better men to become choosier with who they choose rather than single out black women, the bitter is just a coverup. Dudes be messing up with all races of women and end up with the same outcome.

bunch of mixed raced kids with black fathers all up through adoption centres with the same song. A good chunk of these mixed race entertainers didn’t know their fathers. It ain’t black women it’s the lack of discernment and accountability that is the issue.

Do you have any data to back up this assertion? Because I know of a ton of black women that are single mothers. Yet not many black men in my circle of friends have children out of wedlock. I'm willing to bet the numbers don't support your hypothesis.

 

[Ya?]

Do you have any data to back up this assertion? Because I know of a ton of black women that are single mothers. Yet not many black men in my circle of friends have children out of wedlock. I'm willing to bet the numbers don't support your hypothesis.

You must have skipped the first paragraph, men like Stephen Jackson would have the same problem regardless of who they sleep with. They are stunted emotionally, and don’t know how to be fathers or husbands/boyfriends in relationships. Black bitter women shtick is a deflection to the fact that regardless of the race the end product is the same. A lot of dudes need therapy or they will never be good men to anyone. Plenty of mixed kids running around with absentees near non existent black fathers barely paying child support. We focus on these athletes the average women isn’t getting regular child support payment from their baby daddies if they get paid at all.

 

[Ya?]

He knows that. Which is why he acknowledges that he fukked and literally told young men to find one woman and have a family with her.

The reason men criticize black women so hard is because they wont take responsibility for they half of the black peoples fukked up situations or admitt they fukked up. Find me a black woman of any notoriety saying she messed up by having children with multiple different men.

Let’s be real...grown black men like a lot of these types don’t criticize black women for lack of accountability a lot of times they bash black women and play I don’t date black women as an ego boost and for a reaction.
A lot of bad male behaviour gets deflected on women by men.
A lot of these things they complain about are the same thing they be dealing with...with other women. The difference is it is much easier to build resentment and animosity towards someone who looks like you and with whom you were raised with...
The lack accountability can be seen in equal sums on both sides of gender spectrum in different ways . Men often only claim accountability after they left a mess behind and screwed you up royally and then want start fresh with a new chick.
If it was up to me a lot of these guys would never be able to be with a woman again until they start addressing their personal issues and become better partners.

 

[Ya?]

This is obvious. Men dont carry a child nor experience the hormonal shift. A newborn isnt anything human wise to bond over for a man. The relationship or lack thereof is just an extension of the relationship with the mother.

Which is why i tell women to pick responsible dudes, men that got they shyt together, and dudes invested in the relationship to have kids with. And i still have people giving me back talk.

I don’t agree with you on a lot of things but I don’t disagree with common sense. That’s the biggest mistake a lot of black women make having kids too early in situationships.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

You must have skipped the first paragraph, men like Stephen Jackson would have the same problem regardless of who they sleep with. They are stunted emotionally, and don’t know how to be fathers or husbands/boyfriends in relationships. Black bitter women shtick is a deflection to the fact that regardless of the race the end product is the same. A lot of dudes need therapy or they will never be good men to anyone. Plenty of mixed kids running around with absentees near non existent black fathers barely paying child support. We focus on these athletes the average women isn’t getting regular child support payment from their baby daddies if they get paid at all.

These dudes still getting picked.
What we gonna tell them.
Listen breh you need to slow down and be a responsible father to the kids you already got by multiple women.

fukk you ole dry dikk, no game having ass, no pusay getting punk. I aint married so if these chicks choosing up its all good.

 

[Ya?]

Most black men deal with black women so I think it makes perfect sense. What where people do is none of our business

It makes sense if that same logic uniformly when black women do the same. Loni love shouldn’t have the hate that she received then.