Study shows dating options for men are decreasing as more healthy relationship standards arise

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It isn’t a knock it just ups the ante.

I understand not all men want to be Puffy or Johnnie Cochran. But if you complain about the 80/20 rule and then say you don’t want to be part of the rat race I don’t know what you’d expect to be the outcome?

There are plenty of women who just want A MAN. ANY MAN WILL DO. But they are damaged, usually beyond repair. So just wanting a man should not be something you’d want in a woman.

This doesn't sound fundamentally "Christian", the premise seems to run contrary to Biblical principles, but I have to see what you mean by "accomplishments" to provide more detail.
 

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It isn’t a knock it just ups the ante.

I understand not all men want to be Puffy or Johnnie Cochran. But if you complain about the 80/20 rule and then say you don’t want to be part of the rat race I don’t know what you’d expect to be the outcome?

There are plenty of women who just want A MAN. ANY MAN WILL DO. But they are damaged, usually beyond repair. So just wanting a man should not be something you’d want in a woman.
I expect that if I'm not in the 20% my female equivalent is fine with that in an advanced civilization where men don't drop like flies before 40 thanks to war and disease.

There is a gap between ANY MAN and a moderate earner who's financially responsible.

Thank you for confirming the 80/20 rule, as well as the fact that whatever wave of feminism y'all are on is not about equality but a super-standard of living.
 

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I expect that if I'm not in the 20% my female equivalent is fine with that in an advanced civilization where men don't drop like flies before 40 thanks to war and disease.

There is a gap between ANY MAN and a moderate earner who's financially responsible.

Thank you for confirming the 80/20 rule, as well as the fact that whatever wave of feminism y'all are on is not about equality but a super-standard of living.

This is the equivalent of the female who is “nice with a good head on her shoulders”. Shouldn’t be hard for both groups to link up and date and marry.
 

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This doesn't sound fundamentally "Christian", the premise seems to run contrary to Biblical principles, but I have to see what you mean by "accomplishments" to provide more detail.
Idk if it is or isn’t Christian but it is true.

Breast implants upped the ante for women in the late 60s and beyond.

Accomplishment- something that has been achieved successfully; the successful achievement of a task; an activity that a person can do well, typically as a result of study or practice.

Does that help?
 

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I expect that if I'm not in the 20% my female equivalent is fine with that in an advanced civilization where men don't drop like flies before 40 thanks to war and disease.

There is a gap between ANY MAN and a moderate earner who's financially responsible.

Thank you for confirming the 80/20 rule, as well as the fact that whatever wave of feminism y'all are on is not about equality but a super-standard of living.

What baffles me is MOST of these women identify as Christian but don't really follow even 1/4th of the principles when chosing and pairing with men or even interacting with men(and each other). I've only seen this odd behavior in America. The willful vagueness and obtuse manner of communicating these strange ideas doesn't show good intent either.
 
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I live in the area and it seems to ME like everybody is eating who truly wants to. You wanna be a playa who has 3-4 women on a roster? You can do that. You want to be in a monogamous relationship? You can do that. Lesbian? You can do that EASY. Gay? SUPER easy.

I don’t know too many men struggling to pull their preference out here. As a straight male I don’t think any other straight male has ANY excuse to not be able to get a woman throughout the state of Georgia
 

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Idk if it is or isn’t Christian but it is true.

Breast implants upped the ante for women in the late 60s and beyond.

Accomplishment- something that has been achieved successfully; the successful achievement of a task; an activity that a person can do well, typically as a result of study or practice.

Does that help?

There are men that can clean up well and are accomplished in their hobbies, like building model planes and flag football. Does that qualify?
 
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What baffles me is MOST of these women identify as Christian but don't really follow even 1/4th of the principles when chosing and pairing with men or even interacting with men(and each other). I've only seen this odd behavior in America. The willful vagueness and obtuse manner of communicating these strange ideas doesn't show good intent either.
preach. devon franklin is a prime example here. any nikka with integrity and a conscious needs to prepare to walk a thinner path. they out here bullshytting. they love excitement and dysfunction. least you can see through my eye
:manny:
 

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preach. devon franklin is a prime example. any nikka with integrity needs to prepare to walk a thinner path. they out here bullshytting. they love excitement and dysfunction. at least you can see through my eye
:manny:

Whenever you hear about "ambition" it's usually related to money when "Christian" women talk about what they look for, several times the Bible WARNS about chasing money, so I wonder are they even reading it. A man being able to make an honest living, keep a roof over his head, pay his bills, and avoid debt is looked down upon. God is not going to make everyone rich, but that is missed on them. There seems no logic in their reasoning... I mean just these 2 verses alone...

Proverbs 30:7-9

Two things I ask of you, Lord;
do not refuse me before I die:
8 Keep falsehood and lies far from me;
give me neither poverty nor riches,
but give me only my daily bread.
9 Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you

and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’
Or I may become poor and steal,
and so dishonor the name of my God.

Proverbs 23:4 Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich. Be wise enough to know when to quit.
 
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