What did she say that was a turnoff? I have to admit that I did not watch the entire video.
For me personally, anyone who brings an unprovoked antagonistic approach to the idea of a reltionship is someone who i avoided like the plague.
All of us are hurt people. Every single person has been hurt in a relationship, i dont care who you are. But if you havent dealt with that, you dont need to be getting in another relationship imo.
When my fellow Vandy Alum is saying shyt like "I can do bad by myself"... thats a mental turnoff to a man seeking a relationship. Sounds like something someone in a bad relationship says as a justification to go back to being single.
There would be a lot less bad relationship if single-minded people were comfortable being single. Too many ppl who are focused on being single are out here getting in relationships.