yup i get you, but what you don't understand is im obsessed with saving money..i take out money just to save it...it's an addiction real talk..lol even my women at the house have a job, u find any change laying around, throw it in the money jar and if you got any singles, throw em in the money box..we all get in on it and at the end of the year we treat ourselves with either a vacation or gifts...I make enough $ where I have atleast $300 extra a paycheck that is for whatever and thats after I've put my $100-$200 into my savings bank account...
saving to me is just a hobby..
Thought I was the only one. I get a kick outta making myself "work" with what I have (after saving, of course). To go into a payday with, at times, half of your incoming check already in the account is a

feeling. And then to move your regimented amount from the payday plus what was in there already is a

moment.
Personally, I do the following to save on an ongoing basis:
1. Pack lunch 4x/ week. Treat myself at least once during the week.
2. I'm lucky to have the ability to telework, once a week; cuts down on my transit (subway) which is $6.10/day; this also cuts down my gas purchases for the month
3. I busy myself to limit my idle hands (i.e. gym- $20/month); Rather spend $20/month vs. $200/month try to ball out of control
4. With apps like Wallapop, OfferUp, Craigslist, etc., I sell items around the house and have been pretty successful with it.
5. I love Chucks esp rare Chucks. If I find a pair, I think long and hard (pause) about it. If I go back to buy and they are not there, I move on to buy NOTHING. This logic applies to any "want" I may have.
6. I only have credit cards that provide an incentive (i.e. points, POS discount, etc.) and PAY IN FULL at the end of every month.
7. I often checked my online accounts to make all is in place. As I see that savings grow, I make a goal to get to, for example, "save $800 by next month" annd follow through.
8. Cut my own hair. Sheeeiiit, I'm bald so ain't no need for weekly visits to a barber.
I have plenty others that I can't think of at the moment but, as my wife would tell you, I am very cognizant of my funds and don't waste any of it on temporary things. I invest in experiences vs. items.