Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

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Simps brag about wning and dining a beautiful woman on a date meanwhile that same woman will go to a club, meet a dude and fukk him the same night. Women like to fukk just as much if not more than men do. I would rather put $30 in my 401K than spend it on a "getting to know you" date.
 
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Willstyles said:
1st date should based on getting to know each other first without using a lot of resources. Your goal is to see if the other person is worth the time and effort. Which is why conversations are essential and places should picked to help enhance the efforts. Walks in the park, Coffee shops, local diners or ice cream etc.

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This is the most important part of what you just posted. Dudes are doing the dating game all wrong. If you coming out of pockets heavy for a chick that you aren't acquainted with, you have nobody to blame but yourself if you don't think that investment pans out. Men need to value their time and be more selective in who they date.

You meet a nice girl? Invite her to go to the park with you, grab some coffee, get to know each other. That's easy. It's these dudes pulling out the red carpet for chicks they're only trying to smash that come through complaining. Keep it simple, brehs.
 
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Turbulent said:
it's two sides to this shyt. some dudes are just straight up tricks. trying to impress a chick with a front of money and extravagance they don't have.

and then some dudes are just trying too hard not to get played to the point where every little action becomes an elaborate scheme to not give her a single thing (where it almost becomes paranoia).

the truth is, whatever you are, some chick somewhere will always view you as a sucker, some chick somewhere will always be a user, some chick somewhere will always view the next guy as too cheap, and some chick will just naturally fukk with you. fukk with the chicks that genuinely want to fukk with you. too many dudes (and females) are trying to be everything to everyone. everyone wants to be a shapeshifter to get it all. adapting their personas to be able to get the "good girl", the golddigger, the hoe, the nerd chick, the cool chick, the awkward chick. why not just fukk with the ones that are choosing you at your natural state and leave the rest alone?
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Jahmal said:
In ATL, most of the guys I roll with dont take chicks out on any dates. They bag women from the Club, Tinder and POF and many of the women are willing to come to the crib to kick it on the first date.
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Can't front, the ATL is a totally different animal altogether......:whew:

It almost has a babylonian type vibe right now......
 
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Turbulent said:
we all gotta do whatever we feel is right for us. i don't have a rigid rule on this, i go with the feeling but usually i haven't spent on chicks before i fukked.
this is usually how it works out for me as well. there's no better feeling than fukking a chick you know is into you and the next day you take her to the movies and there's no posturing, awkwardness or pressure on either sides cause you already fukked :banderas:

funny thing is, you actually feel even more generous with her afterwards a lot of times. girl just laying her head on your shoulder feeding you popcorn and shyt just feels right.
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Yea you right on that...Dats how I met my wife...we fukked Friday night after talking for a week...spent the night at my crib...went out Saturday night with no pressure since I already smashed...I spent my car insurance money that night :russ::russ:..the pressure to smash was off my shoulders so we just enjoyed our selves in south beach...
 
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Willstyles said:
1st date should based on getting to know each other first without using a lot of resources. Your goal is to see if the other person is worth the time and effort. Which is why conversations are essential and places should picked to help enhance the efforts. Walks in the park, Coffee shops, local diners or ice cream etc.

1.5 Casual meet ups in between just to show interest.

2nd date is about the fun, this where the actives come into play. From the movies to bowling or whatever yall wanna do that night. You both know that this is now an investment and you wanna see how she or he handle in a more fast pace social settings.

2.5 Home dates, its been almost a month now and theyre comfortable with you to come over and yall make it a netflix night. This is when they check out the living space, to see if your clean or if theyre special enough for you to clean up for them. This is a important factor, some many thing can go wrong here but also it can also go :shaq: :noah: but thats not the goal. The cuddle game is needed, not the stroke game.

3 final date is some where along a month and a half..maybe two and this is where the big guns come out, money shouldnt be an issues that person is worth it and you pretty much got them but you need to steal the deal and let the person know you care about them. Now that the sexual tension is at its peak, its bout time to make that happen.

This is how it should be down fellas, yall don't take enough baby steps. So concern about getting the girl or the puss yall become reckless and set your own selves up for failure.
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