Taking byatches out is not a good financial decision

Jahmal

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Smh men actually used to take women on dates so she would become his girl. Now it's chill at the crib cause I'm too cheap or to broke to spend a dime on u.
I havent been on a date in 6 months and have a queue of new chicks coming to my highrise condo every week. The women that actually like me have no problem coming to my crib, cooking for me and watching tv/movies, playing cards, smoking hookah and listening to music.
 

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I havent been on a date in 6 months and have a queue of new chicks coming to my highrise condo every week. The women that actually like me have no problem coming to my crib, cooking for me and watching tv/movies, playing cards, smoking hookah and listening to music.
 

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Dates dont have to be expensive.

But I dont know any females thats going to a random guys house, on a first "date"


They are doing it..they just arent telling YOU! You would be amazed at how many chicks from Tinder and POF are down to come over my crib without even speaking to me on the phone. Successful professional women are coming over my crib everynight and getting their back blown out. I dont spend a dime!

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1st date should based on getting to know each other first without using a lot of resources. Your goal is to see if the other person is worth the time and effort. Which is why conversations are essential and places should picked to help enhance the efforts. Walks in the park, Coffee shops, local diners or ice cream etc.

1.5 Casual meet ups in between just to show interest.

2nd date is about the fun, this where the actives come into play. From the movies to bowling or whatever yall wanna do that night. You both know that this is now an investment and you wanna see how she or he handle in a more fast pace social settings.

2.5 Home dates, its been almost a month now and theyre comfortable with you to come over and yall make it a netflix night. This is when they check out the living space, to see if your clean or if theyre special enough for you to clean up for them. This is a important factor, some many thing can go wrong here but also it can also go :shaq: :noah: but thats not the goal. The cuddle game is needed, not the stroke game.

3 final date is some where along a month and a half..maybe two and this is where the big guns come out, money shouldnt be an issues that person is worth it and you pretty much got them but you need to steal the deal and let the person know you care about them. Now that the sexual tension is at its peak, its bout time to make that happen.

This is how it should be down fellas, yall don't take enough baby steps. So concern about getting the girl or the puss yall become reckless and set your own selves up for failure.

man u sound like 1 of dem i only let a nikka fukk if we in a serious relationship type bytches
 

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:mjlol: :russ: So you think its cool to take a chick you just met to ya crib for drinks? You don't know that girl breh, but your willing to trust her enough to let her drink in your home :snoop: just to have a better chance to fukk and save money. Youre stupid, she can line your dumb ass and have your whole crib vanish when youre not there.

Sorry worried about not being a simp but you would bring a chick you just met home...sounds like its in your blood.

Learn the rules of dating

If all a man wants to do is smash a bunch of chicks them getting them back to the crib would be the most logical move wouldnt you think? A man could take a chick on a bunch of dates and she could still line him up and jack his shyt. There is a risk in every move you make...
 

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Brehs if you just met a woman and she agrees to have the first date at your place...:sas2: but thats none of my business though

In ATL, most of the guys I roll with dont take chicks out on any dates. They bag women from the Club, Tinder and POF and many of the women are willing to come to the crib to kick it on the first date.


A man with good looks and game such as the man below will have no problem getting a chick to come over his place on a first date. There is levels to this shyt and if you aren't on a certain level a woman will require you to spend money for her time..
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If all a man wants to do is smash a bunch of chicks them getting them back to the crib would be the most logical move wouldnt you think? A man could take a chick on a bunch of dates and she could still line him up and jack his shyt. There is a risk in every move you make...

nikka get a room
 

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honestly u dont have too spend a dime if u got charisma....because she will be interested in u only
 

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I havent been on a date in 6 months and have a queue of new chicks coming to my highrise condo every week. The women that actually like me have no problem coming to my crib, cooking for me and watching tv/movies, playing cards, smoking hookah and listening to music.
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hate to say it, but this jahmal guy is right

I remember my home girl who is 8-9/10 basically said she hadnt been taken out on a date in forever and all she did was go to guys houses more or less. I was like wtffffff, i been doing this all wrong

then again, i dont hav the yard to bring chicks too. but if i did, shyt would be like a brothel
 
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