Talk Yourself out the Drawls, Thirsty Brehs

[mag357]

Cant lie, I did this once.

Wanted one real bad. She was in a relationship, but I worked on her for a lil bit. Had her sending pics n twerk vids and actually talking bout meeting up to smash.

I don't know if it was 100% in the bag at this time, but I was telling her how I was thinking about smashing 1 nite. She was like damn, you think about it all the time...

After that the convo was kind of off, so I left it alone.

U ain't do nothing wrong bro...
She probly really ain't want new dikk bro...
Just the attention.

nikkaz gotta understand, if a bytch actually wants ur dikk... there ain't nothing in this world that's gonna stop her.

Not ur words, not ur actions, not her fukking kids or husband.

She coming to fukk....
If she dont.. she probly just wanted the attention

 

[Sterling Archer]

I dont like that part because giving energy to a time wasting bytch, always puts u in a sucka position.

She might keep u in that position....
When u let it be known what it is...
You never fumble... ur time is worth more than p*ssy

Some guys are interested in just being around p*ssy I've noticed. Theyll play the sucka if they think itll get them some p*ssy. These guys are the same ones talking about they got friendzoned, ruined friendships trying to fukk outta nowhere or tried to play the homie slot but with motives.

Let it be known wassup off the rip and you may turn off a few women who are interested only if you 'play the game' with them. But any women that you ARE dealing with aint playing NO games. We grown as hell. Let a grown woman make a grown woman decision.

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

major L lmfao. bruh came off creepy as a bih

it can depend tho, i remember some broad i was trynna smash hit me with the "Look i just met you, we arent doing anything just chilling.." message the first time she set me up to come over.

I responded with a "sure thing.." then sent a mocking spongebob meme "wE aRenT doInG AnYtHinG"

i knew it was risky but sent it anyway cus i aint give af n she thought it was funny asl .

Smashed the 2nd time we chilled .

Some other bih off tinder got mad asl when I said "condom, what's that?" . immediately removed me

but added me on fb like afew months later

 

[Sterling Archer]

It depends on how yall been vibing. I hit a chic last night with "your p*ssy stay so wet"

But that was cause we got that type of rapport with each other

It does depend on how you vibing and its clear to me that they werent vibing with sexual energy for her to be put off by his text. Just because she was coming to hang out dont mean shyt but that exactly.

 

[Piff Perkins]

You know you lost when a chick ends a text with "so" like that lmao

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Exactly. Because she was so easily swayed not to, she wasnt gonna fukk that night regardless. These dudes be getting themselves jammed up. Who invites a chick to the crib the first time you meet if it aint clear that yall fukking off the rip?

As someone said in the Quick Gems thread yesterday when this was posted, he triggered her "anti-slut defense"

Basically when a woman is meeting you for the first time, she doesn't want to seem like a slut. She wants some plausible deniability.

He made her feel like she's just being used for sex.

 

[Bless't]

And if she actually wanted to fukk, that little exchange aint enough to stop her if she was one of those "different story in person" grils. Unless yall just interested in on-the-bubble pity fukks. Thats why so many of yall get caught up in these kind of cases and situations trying to "persuade" a woman into sex. If I said the lame shyt dude said in a text to woman, her response would not be "Im good champ". And that would be because they are actually interested in fukking me. Not bored.

Damn.

I completely agree with this.

 

[Crude]

Its been said before, but a woman typically knows whether she's going to give you some azz or not right off bat.

There are certain things you can do to delay that or mess up your opportunity altogether. Always be mindful of what you say and also be sure to never come across as thirsty.

Pay attention to the aforementioned especially if your goal is to smash.

 

[FLATOP]

If she was really feeling him, she wouldve came anyways and not blown up his business on social media

So in other words, by being "thirsty" dude avoided a overly dramatic, social media obsessed chick that didnt like him

Good for him.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

And this why I limit my text message conversations to 5 messages per woman. Unless you're texting me about meeting up, then you ain't talking to me about shyt.

fukk all that idle talk. Either you're texting me to come through or that your period is late. Everything else is irrelevant.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Overeager kills the vibe, EVERY TIME.

You can only throw out that super horny energy if one, she sparks it or two, you've already smashed.

Anything else and you risk sounding thirsty.

Like I tell dudes all the time, NEEDINESS is the number one killer of attraction no matter how much a broad is into you.

I've seen prettyboys lose plain Janes just like this. These guys just start doing too much in an attempt to "game".

 

[Hugs]

Chris Rock had a bit about this. When a woman is in the mood, just STFU and go with it.

Chris Rock is the most underrated/underappreciated goat there is
But his shyt doesn't really hit until you're damn near in your '30s so it's understandable

 

[Fatboi1]

He talks too much and ruined it. I've learned from experience less is more. Chicks i wanted when they wanted it, was ON it. I barely had to do anything. Maybe just text them and say one thing and that's that. Once they're interested, you basically just go along with it.

The convo should've went like this:

Her: Next time

Dude: (i can't tell what they were talking about here though.) Okay cool.


That's it. If the convo was about coming over and she said she's coming then that's that. Let her come over. I wouldn't even ask her for confirmation I'd just wait until she texts me saying she's coming or that she's outside.

If she doesn't come over and she tells me, I'd just say "ight next time" and hope she schedules something. if not I'd just wait a week or so to do it again.

 

[Diondon]

Talking ass always got to say something ass nikka

 

[Hugs]

And this why I limit my text message conversations to 5 messages per woman. Unless you're texting me about meeting up, then you ain't talking to me about shyt.

fukk all that idle talk. Either you're texting me to come through or that your period is late. Everything else is irrelevant.

the only fluff I have is introductions and light, brief banter so it doesn't look like I'm too thirsty