whew chiiiiiiillle, you didn’t know?? this is FACTS!!! they are a gift and a curse- NY dudes, the gift that keeps on giving but they will have you hypnotized. It is not hard to get caught up in their spell.


I’ve been pregnant twice -2 beautiful children out of that relationship; permanent reminders of how attracted, infatuated, in love I was with my ex, his looks and his charm


. Thought I was the shyt back then too, there was always temptation, no shortage on nice looking men in NY. Imma leave it at that. You will never go dateless in NY, unless you choose to be bc there’s enough fine men that are choosing. The main men that I dated with any serious intent are from NY. And one in my past was from Jersey.
This is also why the concept of online dating apps is foreign to me - never been on no type of Tinder or hooking up with online people through chats bc there’s so many different real life places, live events and spaces to meet men in New York in person without going that compu-route for attention, no need for seeking arrangements or doing all that e-harmony. None of that shyt. Just go outside lol. Looks, style, convos, their aura - NY dudes are in a whole different category and vibe, for sure

Harlem men - dress flawlessly, very confident but at one point- you will be fighting another one of his chicks bc Harlem dudes tend to be flirtatious without even trying- they love gassing you with compliments, hard to resist.
Queens/Long island dudes: more refined and laid back; very good talkers and conversationalists
Brooklyn - you will either get that hyper aggressive dude with the bravado or the real studious, highly intellectual take no shyt
Staten Island - don’t even waste your time. Dubs
Upstate NY/Yonkers and The Bronx - mixed bag of men. No real description,