That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[BaldingSoHard]

breh

dont spend any more calories on this girl breh; if she comes back great, but dont go seeking

I disagree completely.

That level of honesty would have me for more.

 

[Harry Sax]

How old are you?

tell her y’all can be friends, hit her up every blue moon just to say wassup, if she never hits you first then stop

She might come around later she might not...talk to another bytch

 

[Tres Leches]

bro keep her around for a little bit but dont spend no money/time or much attention... try to smash, you dont have to be in a relationship to hit it if not maybe one of her friends

 

[Astroslik]

How old are you OP? If you’re over 21 this thread is embarassing.

 

[rlg]

Tell her you feel the same way and ask her to put you on with one of her friends.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Everything about this was a red flag breh. Every single sentence

I dont agree.. Women change their minds all the time.. If she that bad, even tho she ignoring your ass don't mean you can't rope her back in. Just speaking from experience. That whole energy shyt don't mean nothing when she lonely af on a Saturday night because the dude she was fukking decided he was tired of it. If you come off like a desperate fiend then yeah she ain't gonna like that but casual persistence is not a bad thing. Especially if she bad af.

We have all been there
You got wrapped up in her looks
Did you want to smash or did you want something long term

Them attractive, high level Hispanic/Latina women are master manipulators who get a kick out of running game on men.

Quick question? Where did you take her on your first 2 dates?

Women always come back when you ain’t sweating them it always happens

OP, are you sure she is done with you, or do you have little to discuss, atm? I can only speak for myself. I get bored with pointless small talk throughout the day. In the beginning, I will entertain it, but after a while, I get dry because it's redundant, especially if I am not entirely sure if the interest is mutual. Maybe reach out to her and ask specific questions about her or plan something creative. Facetime with her. Maybe plan a dinner date at someone's place.

Don't assume she is entertaining other folks because as much as TheColi assumes that, it more than likely isn't happening, nor assume she is done with you.

Update in OP

 

[semicko82]

She friend zoned you
Delete the number and just move on

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

You didn’t make the starters. Maybe you’re a bench warmer right now. Happens to all of us breh.

If you decide to keep talking, just play it like it’s nothing. Text is great to communicate and not give a crap in reality. If she texts just be regular. If these chicks knew how many convos I’ve texted to them while taking a dump and reading something they’d probably feel some way.

 

[semicko82]

You didn’t make the starters. Maybe you’re a bench warmer right now. Happens to all of us breh.

If you decide to keep talking, just play it like it’s nothing. Text is great to communicate and not give a crap in reality. If she texts just be regular. If these chicks knew how many convos I’ve texted to them while taking a dump and reading something they’d probably feel some way.

What’s the point of keep texting someone who’s not interested in you?
If I were OP I wouldn’t even entertain this wishy washy chick

 

[Abstract83]

Maybe you just haven’t come across the right one yet.

The easiest way to eliminate the time-wasters is to be honest about what your type is from personality, looks, aspirations, values etc.

Once you’ve made up your mind (and uncompromisingly stick to it) you’ll attract it.

Thank you. Im learning a lot about what I want and don't want thru this though. Came out of a 13 yr relationship last yr. Im happy to be single and looking. Not rushing. But I do want something stable eventually. A good loving respectful woman.

 

[jdubnyce]

Thank you. Im learning a lot about what I want and don't want thru this though. Came out of a 13 yr relationship last yr. Im happy to be single and looking. Not rushing. But I do want something stable eventually. A good loving respectful woman.

What happened?

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

What’s the point of keep texting someone who’s not interested in you?
If I were OP I wouldn’t even entertain this wishy washy chick

Not actively texting for sure. If she hits with the “What’s up, how you doing” just be casual.

I’ve done both options so I’m not gonna say yours is wrong . Breh seems to really wanna smash.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Yeah she friend zoned you but she left it open with the language she used if you paying attention. Best thing to do is to stay in contact but not too much. If she asks you what u been up to let her know you been going out and having fun. Women hate that. She might let you tap if u make her seem like your something she can't have or if you dating other women.

Either way, good luck.

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

Thank you. Im learning a lot about what I want and don't want thru this though. Came out of a 13 yr relationship last yr. Im happy to be single and looking. Not rushing. But I do want something stable eventually. A good loving respectful woman.

Breh, same story. 15 yrs in mine . Break up was the reason I found thecoli tbh.

You’ll learn the ropes soon enough. I understand the learning curb. But it can be done.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

this thread hurts to even open