That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Now im thinking why would she write that novel several days later. Doesnt make sense if she been ghosting and just two dates.

Doesn't make sense to me either! There was no reason for her to text me that bullshyt. She shat on me in silence and then came back and shat on me again with a straight up cold diss. That's how you know she is selfish and sick. All of it is a dumb game.

 

[StretfordRed]

Be an adult and reply back telling her you aren't looking for a friend and to enjoy life.

I agree with a slight twist.

Ultimately she isn’t asking you to put 100% into her, so I’d say reply saying “it’s cool, do what you need to do. I’ll see you around some time” and then delete the number so you don’t message her again after that.

Let he initiate the next convo (not the reply, but in a few days or weeks) and just keep her on the bench and see what happens. I’d probably only do one type of date with her that doesn’t cost a bucket, like salsa, walk, picnic or something. But then decide where you/she at. You may just make a genuine friend if you see any good traits in her.

You don’t need to message her abuse or go on like some sex demons who has to bone on the first date, just keep it easy g.

 

[Sccit]

YOU IDIOT SHE WANTS U TO TAKE CHARGE… THAT 4 DAYS WAS HER TRYNA GET U TO MAN UP N MAKE SOMETHIN HAPPEN.

INSTEAD U SITTIN AROUND WAITIN ON HER N SHE FINALLY THOUGHT “DAMN THIS GUY IS SUCH A PUSY, LET ME JUST TEXT HIM N GIVE HIM ONE LAST CHANCE TO STEP IT UP”

U SCARY AS FUCC HOMIE, DO SOMETHIN

 

[Tres Leches]

 

[Stick Up Kid]

Are we sure OP is talking about a woman

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Damn. That text reminds me of my high school days. My game was so whack, I got friend-zoned into oblivion. Once I stopped taking shyt and took control, I haven’t been disrespected since.

Tell her to either put up or shut up. When I was single, I told women straight up what the deal was. If they were down, cool, if not, then move on. It’s that simple. Too much p*ssy out there to be hung up on one.

I’m guessing by your name you’re some kind of taco taster, but I’ll damned if I’m going salsa dancing with a bytch I haven’t smashed yet. I know that’s not a normal first/second amongst you hombres. Wtf?

 

[Abstract83]

I’m glad you’re seeing things clearer in retrospect.

The dating world is funny in that you can keep close tabs on it (trends , etc ) but it’s a whole nother thing to live it. Don’t over think too much , there’s probably thousands of women out there that will potentially break you off some, stay out of your own mind , be safe and good luck.

I will Thanks breh. I really appreciate the advice.

 

[Illuminatos]

Dancing buddies

 

[karim]

I agree with a slight twist.

Ultimately she isn’t asking you to put 100% into her, so I’d say reply saying “it’s cool, do what you need to do. I’ll see you around some time” and then delete the number so you don’t message her again after that.

Let he initiate the next convo (not the reply, but in a few days or weeks) and just keep her on the bench and see what happens. I’d probably only do one type of date with her that doesn’t cost a bucket, like salsa, walk, picnic or something. But then decide where you/she at. You may just make a genuine friend if you see any good traits in her.

You don’t need to message her abuse or go on like some sex demons who has to bone on the first date, just keep it easy g.

Terrible advice You can sit her on the bench without entertaining this bullshyt with a reply. Leave her on read.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

nikkas in here with the scarcity mindset basically advising breh to start begging to be liked.
There is nothing wrong with her not fukking with you like that, but to allow her to use you for entertainment purposes going forward is just plain dumb.
Be respectful and tell her you don't wanna be friends and that its best you stop all contact since yall aint on the same page. After that delete the number and never talk to her again.



Be a salsa buddy, brehs

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.

Like Hov said many moons ago:


“The chickens I twisted see the digits unlisted
The beeper done changed, you dead bytch, the Reaper done came”

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Sorry luv, I'm not looking for a dance buddy. I wish you the best.

 

[StretfordRed]

Terrible advice You can sit her on the bench without entertaining this bullshyt with a reply. Leave her on read.

The text takes 20 seconds to right and isn’t as childish as leaving her on unread. How old are you guys!

 

[karim]

The text takes 20 seconds to right and isn’t as childish as leaving her on unread. How old are you guys!

 

[StretfordRed]