That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
Edit: She reached out :francis:. Here is the text.

Hi[Thatrogueassdiaz]!
I hope you're day is off to a good start! I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've had a good time getting to know you. But if I'm honest, I have been very overwhelmed lately with work and projects around my home. That said, I'm having a hard time figuring out if I really like you or just your attention. it's very hard for me to come out to say that, but I did say I would be honest with you. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time if you are in search of a relationship. My hope would be that we could remain friends and maybe even dancing buddies and then let things take their natural course. However I will respect your decision either way and for my part there are no hurt feelings either way.
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Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.
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Abstract83 said:
In my previous relationship I was too giving. Was so caught up I lost myself in it. I've learned to set boundries and push for my needs and wants. She was a really good woman. I wronged her in the past. So I spent a lot of time feeling guilty and making up for it. Felt like a marriage. But I have so much peace of mind now that I'm out of it. I can think clearly.
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I’m glad you’re seeing things clearer in retrospect.

The dating world is funny in that you can keep close tabs on it (trends , etc ) but it’s a whole nother thing to live it. Don’t over think too much , there’s probably thousands of women out there that will potentially break you off some, stay out of your own mind , be safe and good luck.
 
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:

Edit: She reached out :francis:. Here is the text.

Hi[Thatrogueassdiaz]!
I hope you're day is off to a good start! I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've had a good time getting to know you. But if I'm honest, I have been very overwhelmed lately with work and projects around my home. That said, I'm having a hard time figuring out if I really like you or just your attention. it's very hard for me to come out to say that, but I did say I would be honest with you. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time if you are in search of a relationship. My hope would be that we could remain friends and maybe even dancing buddies and then let things take their natural course. However I will respect your decision either way and for my part there are no hurt feelings either way.
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Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:

Edit: She reached out :francis:. Here is the text.

Hi[Thatrogueassdiaz]!
I hope you're day is off to a good start! I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've had a good time getting to know you. But if I'm honest, I have been very overwhelmed lately with work and projects around my home. That said, I'm having a hard time figuring out if I really like you or just your attention. it's very hard for me to come out to say that, but I did say I would be honest with you. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time if you are in search of a relationship. My hope would be that we could remain friends and maybe even dancing buddies and then let things take their natural course. However I will respect your decision either way and for my part there are no hurt feelings either way.
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Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
For me I think I got roped in because of her looks..exactly my type: dark hair, dark eyes, olive skin (she was hispanic) and very attractive. I was foolish to get roped in and start playing her game. She kept texting me all day, calling me pet names, good morning texts, etc. It was all a game. The rejection hurt more because she was bad and very successful.
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See you made the same stupid mistake that I used to make. You thought that because you had good intentions and was willing to not play games and put all your cards on the table and since it was obvious that she liked you...

You thought that you could break kayfabe and she would too, and yall could just be real with each other.

She showed your ass tho.

She taught you a very hard lesson. Just because you don't wanna play the game doesn't mean the game won't be played.

You either play the game or get played. You should have been gaming her before she gamed you.

Now... now you have a (slight) chance for redemption with that text she sent. If you haven't responded yet, DON'T RESPOND.

Leave her ass on read the same way she did you.

That's gonna mess with her head and throw her confidence off and send her headspace into a spiral... which is what we want.

Punish that hoe. If she wants to make things good with you, she needs to step to you in person. Other than that, ignore all her texts and calls until she comes and sees you face to face.

This is how you put yourself back in control.
 
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:

Edit: She reached out :francis:. Here is the text.

Hi[Thatrogueassdiaz]!
I hope you're day is off to a good start! I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I've had a good time getting to know you. But if I'm honest, I have been very overwhelmed lately with work and projects around my home. That said, I'm having a hard time figuring out if I really like you or just your attention. it's very hard for me to come out to say that, but I did say I would be honest with you. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time if you are in search of a relationship. My hope would be that we could remain friends and maybe even dancing buddies and then let things take their natural course. However I will respect your decision either way and for my part there are no hurt feelings either way.
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Now I have not talked to this girl since last Sunday. And really it has been like 4 texts since the night of the date, so really since Friday. Today is Thursday. I probably should not even respond. I ignored her and now she comes back crawling from under a rock for attention. Btw with dancing she is referring to salsa, which I used to do.
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Says she doesn’t want to waste your time, than proceeds to propose you waste your time :mjlol:
 
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