That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Coli nikkas been getting hoes lately
I see y’all on the come up


Keep it up

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dudes still moving like its 1998

 

[Apollo Creed]

You did some weird shyt or said something stupid as fukk on the second date to completely turn her off. Or you came off as clingy.

It happens breh.

this post comes off as if men should prove themselves to women. People are entitled to not feel someone and that is ok. She may not be feeling dude and that is fine, doesnt mean he did anything wrong.

That said, dudes need to understand matching energy, and if someone aint feeling you move on rather than harp on what you did wrong. The only thing someone can do “wrong” is not be themselves.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

No I agree. The part that hurts is that this chick was BAD. Probably one of the finest girls I've gone out with in a long long time, if not ever. Not the baddest I've pulled but definitely top 3.

There are plenty of fine women out here. fukk that bytch

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Something similar happened to me. Went out with this girl and I thought it went well so I text her after the date saying “we have to do this again” and she replies saying that we definitely do.

Long story short I never heard from her again and I wound up meeting my current girlfriend the next weekend. So about two weeks ago my phone rings at 1am from a number I haven’t seen and I answer because I’m thinking it could be my girl needing help or something.

MAAANNNN it’s the bytch from that date calling me after 8 MONTHHHSSS talkin bout “THIS IS JANNELLE HOW ARE YOUUUU IM TRYING TO SEE WHAT THE VIBE IS ARE YOU SINGLE? Smh I hung up on that bytch. End of story

 

[KidJSoul]

That’s why you can’t even go on dates, less it’s close to free.

Yup. Some women can low key be obtuse when men don't wanna pay on dates, knowing full well chicks be fukking others on the side.

I'm not spending hot money on a woman that I'm not in a committed relationship with.

 

[KidJSoul]

This is why it's important for every man to have a bit of abundance and have a couple different women in the background you're talking to. It's so you don't feel like a clown in case the chick you're feening for goes ghost. If Sally isn't feeling you like that you can just be like 'eh okay ' and hit up kayla to come hang out instead.

Women are already the masters of doing this.

And then get upset when men bring it up.

Better yet, just don't take chicks out on expensive dates when she's not committed to you yet. Especially if yall haven't piped. Women complain about fukkboys, but let them hit with zero effort

 

[Remote]

If she ain’t on your nuts now, she never will be. If I was you, I wouldn’t hit her up anymore. Find someone new and Kim.

Here it is, OP

You can lock the thread now.

 

[King Poetic]

She probably met up with the other dude She really wanted to go out with

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup. Some women can low key be obtuse when men don't wanna pay on dates, knowing full well chicks be fukking others on the side.

I'm not spending hot money on a woman that I'm not in a committed relationship with.

dates really for checking energy and making sure someone aint crazy. You save creative stuff for someone actually on the team lol.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

THIS!!!

Every date you should always attempt to continue the date at her place or at your place.

You let a woman end the night alone on a Friday night, she probably called another dude to spend the rest of the night with her

gotta go for the strike when the vibe is high..if she says NO to sex..atleast you put in ur bid and now you can move accordingly

oh wait this was on a weekend?? ya he fukked up...should of def tried to smash

 

[Rozay Oro]

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up

I’m crying you laughing at this poor man’s misery

 

[old pig]

I’m crying you laughing at this poor man’s misery

“misery” ?

man dude just need to find his nuts assuming the story is even real

 

[Rozay Oro]

“misery” ?

man dude just need to find his nuts assuming the story is even real

Lots of young man struggle with low confidence and esteem which leads to novice fukk ups like that. So the nikka is now miserable.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Always assume a woman is talking to other guys even if she isn't or tells you otherwise.

I've dated/talked to clingy girls.. that literally wanted to be on the phone everyday for hours.. and this one chick told me she was talking to 5 other guys.

If a clingy ass girl can talk to 5 other guys then best believe you ain't the only one she's talking to.