you know what you right as hell…sometimes I forget there are some really young brothers on here and I definitely remember those days of frustration
That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:
- Thread starter Thatrogueassdiaz
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you know what you right as hell…sometimes I forget there are some really young brothers on here and I definitely remember those days of frustration
Always be a step ahead breh. Learn to read the signs and think rationally. Doesn't matter if she invited you in, if you smashed, if she bought you a gift, if she been laughing and saying she had a good time. The signs are always there, I'm shooting like Mark Price at the free throw line in 1992 since I read the signs. More times than not I'm correct when I make my assessment.
threattonature
Veteran
I was just talking about something like this happening to me a few years back. In my case she was in right a few days after the first date and we scheduled a second date for the next weekend. Then a couple days later she just stopped responding to messages for a couple days. Then popped up and said she had a family emergency that she had to leave town for. If it was a normal woman I'd have cut her off but she was bad and a great personality so I let it go. We rescheduled the second date. Again became non-responsive after a couple of days of nonstop messages. I finally peeped her Facebook and she had got back with her ex.2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will!
"
And then the next day you barely hear anything
Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing
The tone is much different, more sanitized
You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else
Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it upEven though you swore it went great
. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second
All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back
It's over
SheWantTheD
Veteran
it's always another dude
Poetical Poltergeist
Precise and cold hearted
If she as bad as you say, she getting her door knocked down by at least several other dudes. Not hearing from a broad definitely means she either back with her ex or seeing someone else.
Doesn't mean you can't rope her back in, so you might have to play the long game. Chick's are weird tho, some want you to be persistent others hate it. Have to find a balance but don't come off as a butt hurt psycho.
Doesn't mean you can't rope her back in, so you might have to play the long game. Chick's are weird tho, some want you to be persistent others hate it. Have to find a balance but don't come off as a butt hurt psycho.
Thatrogueassdiaz
We're on the blood path now
Something keeps telling me she is going to randomly pop up again in the future. Glad you found someone better.
The days of being on the phone late night, listening to the radio used to help express how you feel
U STARTED FEELIN INSECURE FOR NO REASON N SHE PICKED UP ON IT
WOMEN HATE THAT
“WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE” .. REALLY??
WOMEN WANT A CONFIDENT MAN THAT LEADS THE WAY, NOT ONE THAT THINKS WIT HIS EMOTIONS AND LEAVES DECISIONS IN HER HANDS
THE GOOD THING IS U CAN STILL SALVAGE THE SITUATION. SET UP A NICE 3RD DATE AND BE A LEADER WIT CONFIDENCE THIS GO ROUND.. YOULL BE UP IN THEM GUTS BY THE END OF THE NIGHT IF U PLAY IT RIGHT
WOMEN HATE THAT
“WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE” .. REALLY??
WOMEN WANT A CONFIDENT MAN THAT LEADS THE WAY, NOT ONE THAT THINKS WIT HIS EMOTIONS AND LEAVES DECISIONS IN HER HANDS
THE GOOD THING IS U CAN STILL SALVAGE THE SITUATION. SET UP A NICE 3RD DATE AND BE A LEADER WIT CONFIDENCE THIS GO ROUND.. YOULL BE UP IN THEM GUTS BY THE END OF THE NIGHT IF U PLAY IT RIGHT
Ironman
#Knickstape
fukk that chick
On to the next brotha her loss
Only thing I'd suggest is just go in these dates like you're chilling and not stressed about what comes next. Just enjoy the moment 
On to the next brotha her lossOnly thing I'd suggest is just go in these dates like you're chilling and not stressed about what comes next. Just enjoy the moment 
Goat poster
KANG LIFE
persistence only works when you are getting a similar energy back from them.
trying to pry a convo or a text back with someone not interested is NEVER a good idea.
if a chick doesn’t hit back then it’s best to move on.
She probably wanted to smash on that 2nd date, next time u chill with her just pull it out and see what her reaction is 
Poetical Poltergeist
Precise and cold hearted
I dont agree.. Women change their minds all the time.. If she that bad, even tho she ignoring your ass don't mean you can't rope her back in. Just speaking from experience. That whole energy shyt don't mean nothing when she lonely af on a Saturday night because the dude she was fukking decided he was tired of it. If you come off like a desperate fiend then yeah she ain't gonna like that but casual persistence is not a bad thing. Especially if she bad af.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
im flabbergasted (not really) at the abundance of "have multiple women on deck so your feelings don't get hurt as easily" comments.
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
anyway, sorry to hear this OP. i don't think this has happened to me so idk what to tell you
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
anyway, sorry to hear this OP. i don't think this has happened to me so idk what to tell you