That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

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Max Power said:
If you run into issues at your current job, the most effective solution usually is to find another job.

Apply that to women.
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if you an adult you need a job to survive so it makes sense to run it back to back.
so basically, you are confirming that yall need female attention/validation.

i get it if that's the case, but any other thread yall would be shytting on a woman for seek validation/attention from men so its just weird.
but oh well, it's just another hypocrisy :yeshrug:
 
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:
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2nd date is usually almost sex....like she'll do it if you nudge...but the best approach is to make out/feel her up enough to get her on the edge and then back off.

Date #3 will Netflix and Fukk....mostly 5+ hrs of fukkin, drinking water, fukking some more.
 
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It’s unfortunate as men because we are taught to “chase” women.

I mean how else can one get the results they want if they don’t aggressively pursue them?

But it’s really a bad idea and why we end up with so many dudes looking thirsty.

“game” and “persistence” only goes so far if the chick aint feeling you :yeshrug:
 
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ExodusNirvana said:
It's crazy but unfortunately, what you're describing is exactly why we as men gotta have options

Your whole outlook on dating changes when you're entertaining multiple women. Now when I say "entertaining" I don't mean slanging dikk like an AK-47, what I'm saying is, if you're dating multiple women and talking to multiple women at a time, your whole mindset and how you carry yourself changes.

So you'll be on that date and you be yourself and be charming and be sociable and stuff right? But at the same time in the back of your mind YOU KNOW that if this one ain't feeling you, then you got others in the stash that might, so that alone, subconsciously boosts your own confidence. Confidence that a woman will undoubtedly pick up on, even if she does'nt know what you're confident about.

And so if that 2nd date comes around and the chemistry ain't there it's no biggie because it's like well aight...your loss not mine :ehh:

And if she does'nt reach out or respond to your additional courting then fukk it and move on...cause then you're putting yourself in a position where you "Can't take a hint" or even worse, where she submits to cowardice and just ghosts you or something.

And BTW, best believe an attractive desirable woman is entertaining multiple dudes, so don't think this is some male machismo shyt.

Trust me I got female friends, they might not be letting all the guys they're "talking to" hit....hell they might not even be honest with me about that (LOL)...but they are most definitely talking to and evaluating multiple dudes

There are too many women on this planet to be hung up on one person, waiting for them to make the obvious choice, ie. YOU
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Man you gotta keep this attitude past the dating phase with these young chics out here today.

I'm married to a young chic and I gotta keep the attitude that if she bugs out and walks away, I got another waiting in the wings to take her place.

Its a cold cold game out here. I done seen too many married dudes caught assed out unawares to let myself go out like that.

A married man should make sure he has options too. The game NEVER stops. :wow:
 
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Thatrogueassdiaz said:
2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:
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Bro you too old for this. Theres a million women out there. Somebody not returning your same energy, just move on. This same girl bumped into you while you were with a another chick she would probably start feeling you again.
 
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