That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

happens to everyone, guys and girls. just gotta move on to the next girl and stop giving these girls so much power. you went on two dates with this girl and she has you sprung.

For me I think I got roped in because of her looks..exactly my type: dark hair, dark eyes, olive skin (she was hispanic) and very attractive. I was foolish to get roped in and start playing her game. She kept texting me all day, calling me pet names, good morning texts, etc. It was all a game. The rejection hurt more because she was bad and very successful.

 

[semicko82]

For me I think I got roped in because of her looks..exactly my type: dark hair, dark eyes, olive skin (she was hispanic) and very attractive. I was foolish to get roped in and start playing her game. She kept texting me all day, calling me pet names, good morning texts, etc. It was all a game. The rejection hurt more because she was bad and very successful.

We have all been there
You got wrapped up in her looks
Did you want to smash or did you want something long term

 

[Miggs]

Never ask to see her again NEVER NEVER NEVER...play it cool pretend you dont care you can do that goofy cutise texting to a point but dont overdo it....the key is to act indifferent esp if its a bad bytch...they are getting those texts from everywhere the key is act like you dont care that will keep hedr interested as sad as that sounds.....the nikka plying that good morning WYD hows ur day ur so cute texting bullshyt will get freezed out quickly....I

 

[L@CaT]

Based off your post you come off needy and most woman can sense that.

1. No contact. Don’t text, call or nothing. Women strive off attention, if she likes you and you don’t contact her I guarantee she will try and contact you at some point.

2. Don’t ever get into conversations through text. Texting is to setup the next date or plan period. Getting into emotional conversations through text is quickest way to get friend zoned.

Next time after your date, give it a few days maybe a week and just shoot her text “ I’m going to this festival next week and got an extra ticket, you should come! And just leave it at that and see if she responds. If the likes you, she will get in contact and give you a definitive yes or no. If she doesn’t like you she’ll most likely keep ignoring you and you move on to the next.

 

[Miggs]

Based off your post you come off needy and most woman can sense that.

1. No contact. Don’t text, call or nothing. Women strive off attention, if she likes you and you don’t contact her I guarantee she will try and contact you at some point.

2. Don’t ever get into conversations through text. Texting is to setup the next date or plan period. Getting into emotional conversations through text is quickest way to get friend zoned.

Next time after your date, give it a few days maybe a week and just shoot her text “ I’m going to this festival next week and got an extra ticket, you should come! And just leave it at that and see if she responds. If the likes you, you will get in contact and give you a definitive yes or no. If she doesn’t like you she’ll most likely keep ignoring you and you move on to the next.

Yea that when can i see you again right after the dates over isnt a good look....at least wait a couple days and text that not literally right after you pay the bill...

 

[L@CaT]

Yea that when can i see you again right after the dates over isnt a good look....at least wait a couple days and text that not literally right after you pay the bill...

And never ask any woman “when can I see you again?”

That puts all power on her side. When you text her text her with a plan “I’m going to this “ amazing fun restaurant or bar” on Friday, I’ll pick you up at 6pm cool? Assume the date.

Don’t ever ask her “ when can I see you again”

 

[Miggs]

And never ask any woman “when can I see you again?”

That puts all power on her side. When you text her text her with a plan “I’m going to this “ amazing fun restaurant or bar” on Friday, I’ll pick you up at 6pm cool? Assume the date.

Don’t ever ask her “ when can I see you again”

Breh need to read this right here......

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

We have all been there
You got wrapped up in her looks
Did you want to smash or did you want something long term

I looked at it as potential long term.

She was at worst 8.5/9 out of 10
Active
Owns her own home (not important but still)
Great career as a Branch Manager/mortgage advisor
NO KIDS
Seemed to have integrity .

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

And never ask any woman “when can I see you again?”

That puts all power on her side. When you text her text her with a plan “I’m going to this “ amazing fun restaurant or bar” on Friday, I’ll pick you up at 6pm cool? Assume the date.

Don’t ever ask her “ when can I see you again”

You right. Like I said earlier I was mirroring what she asked me after first date. Actually I didn't ask her when can i see you again. I said "I hope to see you again."

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Maaan if a guh is feeling you, it doesn’t matter what you say.

“when Im gonna see you again”

gets a
“whenever you want”

if she really about you. There’s a guh crushing on me right now and I can go on a date with her talking like Donnie from WildThornberries and she gonna giggle and call me silly.

It’s the same principle as a guh calling you either creepy vs romantic. Or weird vs mysterious.

If she feeling you, you’re the latter in both cases.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah always wait for a woman to get back in touch with you.

If she's really interested you'll hear from her. If she's not then her silence is an answer. Leave her be.

Hard lesson we all have to learn. Some chicks are just not going to be feeling you and there is nothing you can do.



Keep your head up though. as one chick doesn't see what makes you, you! another one does

 

[KidJSoul]

Lots of young man struggle with low confidence and esteem which leads to novice fukk ups like that. So the nikka is now miserable.

you know what you right as hell…sometimes I forget there are some really young brothers on here and I definitely remember those days of frustration

Gotta remember that men don't really get good dating advice like that

 

[O.G.B]

For me I think I got roped in because of her looks..exactly my type: dark hair, dark eyes, olive skin (she was hispanic) and very attractive. I was foolish to get roped in and start playing her game. She kept texting me all day, calling me pet names, good morning texts, etc. It was all a game. The rejection hurt more because she was bad and very successful.

Them attractive, high level Hispanic/Latina women are master manipulators who get a kick out of running game on men.

Quick question? Where did you take her on your first 2 dates?

 

[bigde09]

Women always come back when you ain’t sweating them it always happens

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Them attractive, high level Hispanic/Latina women are master manipulators who get a kick out of running game on men.

Quick question? Where did you take her on your first 2 dates?

First date she invited me to a plant nursery to check out plants () and then we went to a restaurant and had drinks. Second date we went to a Mexican restaurant and had margaritas/palomas. First date was 4.5 hours long, second date was 3 hours long and we only left because the place closed at 12am.