That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Probably got this goofy saved as LastResort on her phone

Why were you even taking a bytch you not in a relationship with on a date?


You nikkas really taking women on dates operating on hope that said date might activate some non-existant feelings for you?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Probably got this goofy saved as LastResort on her phone

Why were you even taking a bytch you not in a relationship with on a date?


You nikkas really taking women on dates operating on hope that said date might activate some non-existant feelings for you?

What kind of women are you dealing with that you don't go out on dates with?

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

What kind of women are you dealing with that you don't go out on dates with?

The kind that let me fukk because im upfront and dont try to bullshyt my way into some p*ssy acting like im Prince charming.

Women love that because they can tell you're confident and aint scared of rejection. To them it shows you have other options and so they may want to get at the front of the line by doing things to grab your attention from other options...i.e, let you fukk ASAP. Thats if she finds you attractive. If not, then it saves you wasted time and lets you move on to the next with the quickness.

All the women I deal with (highly educated mid to late 20s), usually come to the crib and Cook a meal with me while we sip wine and listen to music. Afterwards I dive in to the p*ssy if she feeling me. If not, she never hears from me again. That simple.

Never give women options when it comes to pleasing you because they will always take the option that requires less effort from them. Make her understand that its your way or the highway. No in between.

 

[semicko82]

The kind that let me fukk because im upfront and dont try to bullshyt my way into some p*ssy acting like im Prince charming.

Women love that because they can tell you're confident and aint scared of rejection. To them it shows you have other options and so they may want to get at the front of the line by doing things to grab your attention from other options...i.e, let you fukk ASAP. Thats if she finds you attractive. If not, then it saves you wasted time and lets you move on to the next with the quickness.

All the women I deal with (highly educated mid to late 20s), usually come to the crib and Cook a meal with me while we sip wine and listen to music. Afterwards I dive in to the p*ssy if she feeling me. If not, she never hears from me again. That simple.

Never give women options when it comes to pleasing you because they will always take the option that requires less effort from them. Make her understand that its your way or the highway. No in between.

Dap and rep

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

The kind that let me fukk because im upfront and dont try to bullshyt my way into some p*ssy acting like im Prince charming.

Women love that because they can tell you're confident and aint scared of rejection. To them it shows you have other options and so they may want to get at the front of the line by doing things to grab your attention from other options...i.e, let you fukk ASAP. Thats if she finds you attractive. If not, then it saves you wasted time and lets you move on to the next with the quickness.

All the women I deal with (highly educated mid to late 20s), usually come to the crib and Cook a meal with me while we sip wine and listen to music. Afterwards I dive in to the p*ssy if she feeling me. If not, she never hears from me again. That simple.

Never give women options when it comes to pleasing you because they will always take the option that requires less effort from them. Make her understand that its your way or the highway. No in between.

Cool

 

[Speaking Womanese]

You shouldn’t have asked if you’re gonna see her again - you came off incapable of leading.

Her replying, “you sure will!” wasn’t a, “YES,” so she showed you there she had doubts about seeing you again.

She may or may not have picked up that you thought she was out of your league and subconsciously started looking for someone who doesn’t put her on a pedestal before she’s earned it.

Don’t take chicks out on dates unless you’ve thoroughly checked their temperature prior.

Wasted time is worse than wasted money.

Time is currency.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Don’t take chicks out on dates unless you’ve thoroughly checked their temperature prior.
.

This. In all my existence plus adult years, I have never asked any woman to go on a dinner/lunch date ever, including the 4 women i've been in a relationship with, This also includes all the countless bodies I've stacked outside of a relationship status (wont mention the number cause thecoli brehs might neg me for humble bragging).

The only 2 times Ive ever been in a "date" was when 2 women I was fukking took me out on a lunch as a birthday present. Zero money spent on both occasions.


Im not even handsome gang, im a 6/10 in the face on a good day with a lebron hairline.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

GAWT DAMN THESE HOES AINT shyt I almost don't believe this

And you wanna know something? That shyt had to have worked plenty of times on thirsty as simps

Yeah I know right. I don’t understand it either I was literally asking myself why ME? I’m sure she’s met 1000 nikkas since that date in January

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Yes I kind of ignored it though. She said something like "my life is not perfect." At the very beginning. Usually girls who say that have a lot of mental problems.

The biggest issue that happened in between the first and second date was that 2 nights before the second I had to put her in her place for saying something suspect. She asked me what my degrees were in and I told her my BS was in psyche and my Masters in Health Admin. And then I said I'm sure my personality shows how I was a psyche major. She then said "ok, I'm out. Byeeee". Then I said what? What's wrong? And she proceeded to say she didn't want to be psychoanalyzed. And I asked if she was serious and she said she was joking but slightly serious. Then I said "no one is psycho analyzing you. Why would you even say that?? I hope you're joking. That just really weirded me out." And then proceeded to apologize and said text doesn't translate well. I told her it was really weird and she apologized again. This was literally the night before the second date.

A cursory glance at this post got me low key mad you even trippin over somebody like this.

SIR. SIR!
She crazy. That ain’t obvious to you?

Like unhinged levels of crazy. And triggered emotional states from men are behavioral reinforcement for her. I could break it down but you are in psychology so I suspect you already know what it is.

I think you probably know this but your hormones blocking your common sense.

Please don’t waste any more energy on a female like this b/c there are others who would love and appreciate the energy you investing. But the more you scar your ego dealing with this crazy bytch trying to decipher her, the less you’ll have to give to a woman that actually deserves and will reciprocate/match your energy.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I think what everyone else is saying is true. I do think she is entertaining someone else. I also like you don't think she is done. I think she will eventually message me again.

And no way I'm reaching out after she already ignored my question about where we go from here

So nikkas are asking bytches now “where do we go from here?” The fukk?


Men turning into bytches now. Wow.

 

[semicko82]

This. In all my existence plus adult years, I have never asked any woman to go on a dinner/lunch date ever, including the 4 women i've been in a relationship with, This also includes all the countless bodies I've stacked outside of a relationship status (wont mention the number cause thecoli brehs might neg me for humble bragging).

The only 2 times Ive ever been in a "date" was when 2 women I was fukking took me out on a lunch as a birthday present. Zero money spent on both occasions.


Im not even handsome gang, im a 6/10 in the face on a good day with a lebron hairline.

This man already knows the deal
I had more success with women when I wasn’t trying to do the traditional courting stuff

 

[semicko82]

2?

Shiiiieet!

Ok let me be real with u real quick. One day I sat down and crunched the numbers.

I got 15 phone numbers in a weekend. Only 9 responded to my texts. 4 of those just wanted a text buddy and 5 were ready to meet up for a drink.
Out of the 5, I was only attracted to 3 during the daylight. It was night time that I approached them and I was gone off the henny. You know how that goes, I was just pulling up on chicks not giving a fvck.

So out of the 3 that I found attractive, I only smashed one.

So ONE out of 15 phone numbers!

What do I look like getting one chick's phone number and relying on that? My dikk gone be dry like a mothafvcker

Well I meant it was time you were doing good if had two women interested in you nowadays you have to have multiple women in rotation so you don’t lose out here

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

A cursory glance at this post got me low key mad you even trippin over somebody like this.

SIR. SIR!
She crazy. That ain’t obvious to you?

Like unhinged levels of crazy. And triggered emotional states from men are behavioral reinforcement for her. I could break it down but you are in psychology so I suspect you already know what it is.

I think you probably know this but your hormones blocking your common sense.

Please don’t waste any more energy on a female like this b/c there are others who would love and appreciate the energy you investing. But the more you scar your ego dealing with this crazy bytch trying to decipher her, the less you’ll have to give to a woman that actually deserves and will reciprocate/match your energy.

You are right. I did know under the surface and was hoping I was just wrong. That's why I brought up that incident because I knew that was a sign she had mental problems. Actually early on there were little details in the way she worded things that let me know. I was hoping i was wrong, mainly because I was roped in by her looks and lifestyle. I am not trying to sweat it, because like you said it will fukk up my chances for something more real with someone else.

I'm honestly stuck in a weird place, a place where I want to get laid and I want a real relationship. There's the futility of waiting around and not doing the same things I've done for years and fukk crazy women that lead me down fukked up paths, but also having a dry sex life while trying to mess with wholesome women. It's a hard balance. As many say though, if you want something you have to put all your energy into it. How is that possible if you want 2 things?

 

[buzzkill]

For me I think I got roped in because of her looks..exactly my type: dark hair, dark eyes, olive skin (she was hispanic) and very attractive. I was foolish to get roped in and start playing her game. She kept texting me all day, calling me pet names, good morning texts, etc. It was all a game. The rejection hurt more because she was bad and very successful.

yeah she definitely finessed u out some dates thats text book girl game

make you feel like u in there, get some attention from you cuz they are bored or getting over an ex, go on a few dates because they have nothing else going on at the moment or the dude they want is acting up and then poof gone

leave u at home like "what did i do wrong"

we all been there thats why this thread is poppin:

Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

seriously you sound like an early 20s version of me imma tell u this aint the first time this is gonna happen... you will become immune and can spot it a mile away ... then you will become like me and ask them to come back to the crib after every date cuz you know she probably will vanish or be on some bullshyt anyways

you gonna learn the game one day just keep at it

edit: also once you become jaded like most of us u will just fukk with girls who already have high interest and the only thing u gotta do is not talk too much

 

[buzzkill]

First date she invited me to a plant nursery to check out plants () and then we went to a restaurant and had drinks. Second date we went to a Mexican restaurant and had margaritas/palomas. First date was 4.5 hours long, second date was 3 hours long and we only left because the place closed at 12am.

You fukked up in all the bolded:

1. You invite her not the other way around. You lead not her
2. There should be no "and then" unless its to your place or her place u basically took her on 2 dates in 1 day your time and attention is a valuable resource from now on dont hand it away to women or men freely
3. The hell u going to restaurants for? Take her to happy hr at a bar
4. 4.5 hrs and 3 hrs + you were texting and calling her everyday? damn nikka she probably thought u aint got shyt else going on with your life but her... u scared her away

u gave her desperate boyfriend vibes breh dont do that shyt ever again