That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

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I looked at it as potential long term.

She was at worst 8.5/9 out of 10
Active
Owns her own home (not important but still)
Great career as a Branch Manager/mortgage advisor
NO KIDS
Seemed to have integrity :rudy:.
All that looks good on paper, but didn’t you notice anything “off” about her
 

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Something similar happened to me. Went out with this girl and I thought it went well so I text her after the date saying “we have to do this again” and she replies saying that we definitely do.

Long story short I never heard from her again and I wound up meeting my current girlfriend the next weekend. So about two weeks ago my phone rings at 1am from a number I haven’t seen and I answer because I’m thinking it could be my girl needing help or something.

MAAANNNN it’s the bytch from that date calling me after 8 MONTHHHSSS talkin bout “THIS IS JANNELLE HOW ARE YOUUUU IM TRYING TO SEE WHAT THE VIBE IS ARE YOU SINGLE? Smh I hung up on that bytch. End of story

:mjtf:

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All that looks good on paper, but didn’t you notice anything “off” about her
Yes I kind of ignored it though. She said something like "my life is not perfect." At the very beginning. Usually girls who say that have a lot of mental problems.

The biggest issue that happened in between the first and second date was that 2 nights before the second I had to put her in her place for saying something suspect. She asked me what my degrees were in and I told her my BS was in psyche and my Masters in Health Admin. And then I said I'm sure my personality shows how I was a psyche major. She then said "ok, I'm out. Byeeee". Then I said what? What's wrong? And she proceeded to say she didn't want to be psychoanalyzed. And I asked if she was serious and she said she was joking but slightly serious. Then I said "no one is psycho analyzing you. Why would you even say that?? I hope you're joking. That just really weirded me out." And then proceeded to apologize and said text doesn't translate well. I told her it was really weird and she apologized again. This was literally the night before the second date.
 

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Yes I kind of ignored it though. She said something like "my life is not perfect." At the very beginning. Usually girls who say that have a lot of mental problems.

The biggest issue that happened in between the first and second date was that 2 nights before the second I had to put her in her place for saying something suspect. She asked me what my degrees were in and I told her my BS was in psyche and my Masters in Health Admin. And then I said I'm sure my personality shows how I was a psyche major. She then said "ok, I'm out. Byeeee". Then I said what? What's wrong? And she proceeded to say she didn't want to be psychoanalyzed. And I asked if she was serious and she said she was joking but slightly serious. Then I said "no one is psycho analyzing you. Why would you even say that?? I hope you're joking. That just really weirded me out." And then proceeded to apologize and said text doesn't translate well. I told her it was really weird and she apologized again. This was literally the night before the second date.
Interesting
 

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OP, are you sure she is done with you, or do you have little to discuss, atm? I can only speak for myself. I get bored with pointless small talk throughout the day. In the beginning, I will entertain it, but after a while, I get dry because it's redundant, especially if I am not entirely sure if the interest is mutual. Maybe reach out to her and ask specific questions about her or plan something creative. Facetime with her. Maybe plan a dinner date at someone's place.

Don't assume she is entertaining other folks because as much as TheColi assumes that, it more than likely isn't happening, nor assume she is done with you.
 

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OP, are you sure she is done with you, or do you have little to discuss, atm? I can only speak for myself. I get bored with pointless small talk throughout the day. In the beginning, I will entertain it, but after a while, I get dry because it's redundant, especially if I am not entirely sure if the interest is mutual. Maybe reach out to her and ask specific questions about her or plan something creative. Facetime with her. Maybe plan a dinner date at someone's place.

Don't assume she is entertaining other folks because as much as TheColi assumes that, it more than likely isn't happening, nor assume she is done with you.
I think what everyone else is saying is true. I do think she is entertaining someone else. I also like you don't think she is done. I think she will eventually message me again.

And no way I'm reaching out after she already ignored my question about where we go from here
 

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Something similar happened to me. Went out with this girl and I thought it went well so I text her after the date saying “we have to do this again” and she replies saying that we definitely do.

Long story short I never heard from her again and I wound up meeting my current girlfriend the next weekend. So about two weeks ago my phone rings at 1am from a number I haven’t seen and I answer because I’m thinking it could be my girl needing help or something.

MAAANNNN it’s the bytch from that date calling me after 8 MONTHHHSSS talkin bout “THIS IS JANNELLE HOW ARE YOUUUU IM TRYING TO SEE WHAT THE VIBE IS ARE YOU SINGLE? Smh I hung up on that bytch. End of story


GAWT DAMN THESE HOES AINT shyt:russ: I almost don't believe this

And you wanna know something? That shyt had to have worked plenty of times on thirsty as simps:scust:
 

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2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:
Latinos don't have an excuse to not have a woman. Americas right here and the border is right there. Boo hoo. nikka please.
 

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2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss :mjgrin:. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! :biggrin:"

And then the next day you barely hear anything :patrice:

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing :francis:

The tone is much different, more sanitized :leostare:

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else :francis: :francis: :francis:

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up :snoop: Even though you swore it went great :dwillhuh:. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second :mindblown:

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back :francis: Date was Friday night.

It's over:mjcry:
Breh, women can be flaky as hell. Date multiple women and text them at the same time.:yeshrug:
I never feel comfortable when I have less than 4 chicks on rotation. That's just the way it is.
 

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Breh, women can be flaky as hell. Date multiple women and text them at the same time.:yeshrug:
I never feel comfortable when I have less than 4 chicks on rotation. That's just the way it is.
It’s 4 nowadays :russ:
I remember 2, and you’re good
 

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Remember this rejection is protection. All things happend for a reason playa. You might of avoided a seriously crazy chick that could of fukked up your life in the long run

This.
You don't wanna be chasing after the wrong people, OP.
I learned the hard way.
Getting rejected doesn't mean YOU aren't good enough, it means you haven't found a good one FOR you yet!
 

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It’s 4 nowadays :russ:
I remember 2, and you’re good
2?:mjtf:

Shiiiieet!

Ok let me be real with u real quick. One day I sat down and crunched the numbers.

I got 15 phone numbers in a weekend. Only 9 responded to my texts. 4 of those just wanted a text buddy:mjlol: and 5 were ready to meet up for a drink.
Out of the 5, I was only attracted to 3 during the daylight. It was night time that I approached them and I was gone off the henny:mjlit:. You know how that goes, I was just pulling up on chicks not giving a fvck.

So out of the 3 that I found attractive, I only smashed one.

So ONE out of 15 phone numbers!

What do I look like getting one chick's phone number and relying on that? My dikk gone be dry like a mothafvcker:lolbron:
 
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