That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:
- Thread starter Thatrogueassdiaz
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Goat poster
KANG LIFE
Question: if you text a chick multiple times and she doesn’t hit back do you keep texting her? If she gives you bland one word answers do you keep texting?
Sounds like you are advising dudes to hang around until the dude she’s fukking gets tired of her? As if she’ll magically want you all of a sudden.
this is how nikkas get caught up being thirsty.
A woman knows wether she wants you or not off rip.
Guys need to have more respect for themselves
ExodusNirvana
Change is inevitable...
It's crazy but unfortunately, what you're describing is exactly why we as men gotta have options
Your whole outlook on dating changes when you're entertaining multiple women. Now when I say "entertaining" I don't mean slanging dikk like an AK-47, what I'm saying is, if you're dating multiple women and talking to multiple women at a time, your whole mindset and how you carry yourself changes.
So you'll be on that date and you be yourself and be charming and be sociable and stuff right? But at the same time in the back of your mind YOU KNOW that if this one ain't feeling you, then you got others in the stash that might, so that alone, subconsciously boosts your own confidence. Confidence that a woman will undoubtedly pick up on, even if she does'nt know what you're confident about.
And so if that 2nd date comes around and the chemistry ain't there it's no biggie because it's like well aight...your loss not mine
And if she does'nt reach out or respond to your additional courting then fukk it and move on...cause then you're putting yourself in a position where you "Can't take a hint" or even worse, where she submits to cowardice and just ghosts you or something.
And BTW, best believe an attractive desirable woman is entertaining multiple dudes, so don't think this is some male machismo shyt.
Trust me I got female friends, they might not be letting all the guys they're "talking to" hit....hell they might not even be honest with me about that (LOL)...but they are most definitely talking to and evaluating multiple dudes
There are too many women on this planet to be hung up on one person, waiting for them to make the obvious choice, ie. YOU
Your whole outlook on dating changes when you're entertaining multiple women. Now when I say "entertaining" I don't mean slanging dikk like an AK-47, what I'm saying is, if you're dating multiple women and talking to multiple women at a time, your whole mindset and how you carry yourself changes.
So you'll be on that date and you be yourself and be charming and be sociable and stuff right? But at the same time in the back of your mind YOU KNOW that if this one ain't feeling you, then you got others in the stash that might, so that alone, subconsciously boosts your own confidence. Confidence that a woman will undoubtedly pick up on, even if she does'nt know what you're confident about.
And so if that 2nd date comes around and the chemistry ain't there it's no biggie because it's like well aight...your loss not mine
And if she does'nt reach out or respond to your additional courting then fukk it and move on...cause then you're putting yourself in a position where you "Can't take a hint" or even worse, where she submits to cowardice and just ghosts you or something.
And BTW, best believe an attractive desirable woman is entertaining multiple dudes, so don't think this is some male machismo shyt.
Trust me I got female friends, they might not be letting all the guys they're "talking to" hit....hell they might not even be honest with me about that (LOL)...but they are most definitely talking to and evaluating multiple dudes
There are too many women on this planet to be hung up on one person, waiting for them to make the obvious choice, ie. YOU
Yeah breh is some early 20s and other 20 somethings in here like me outside of y’all older brehs. It’s all good breh
Voice of Reason
Veteran
im flabbergasted (not really) at the abundance of "have multiple women on deck so your feelings don't get hurt as easily" comments.
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
anyway, sorry to hear this OP. i don't think this has happened to me so idk what to tell you
We advocate that because women under a certain age are just straight up flakey.im flabbergasted (not really) at the abundance of "have multiple women on deck so your feelings don't get hurt as easily" comments.
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
anyway, sorry to hear this OP. i don't think this has happened to me so idk what to tell you
You stay making
dumb posts regardless of the thread 
im flabbergasted (not really) at the abundance of "have multiple women on deck so your feelings don't get hurt as easily" comments.
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
anyway, sorry to hear this OP. i don't think this has happened to me so idk what to tell you
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
i understand that may be the case. i experience that too which is why i don't run to other men for validation or to get my feelings in order. i can only do one headache at a time but yall just keep it going and multiple
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
You stay making
i'll do you a favor and put you on ignore lol
The audacity
invincible1914
G.O.M.A.B.
Sounds like too nice to dump. Like she was waiting for you to make any mistake, so she could get out of it without feeling like a bad person, but you didn’t do it.2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss. You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will!
"
And then the next day you barely hear anything
Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing
The tone is much different, more sanitized
You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else
Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it upEven though you swore it went great
. And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second
All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back
It's over
I would let her call you, if she don’t keep it moving.
But as always, there’s a chance I might not know what I’m talking bout.
First of all, condolences2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss
And then the next day you barely hear anything
Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing
The tone is much different, more sanitized
You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else
Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up
All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back
It's over
It sounds like a situation where she wasn’t in to it but just doesn’t wanna say that. On to the next breh
can yall not boost your own selves up and deal with your feelings without female attention? then yall so quick to say that women are the ones who seek attention/ validation from men
If you run into issues at your current job, the most effective solution usually is to find another job.
Apply that to women.
ahomeplateslugger
Superstar
happens to everyone, guys and girls. just gotta move on to the next girl and stop giving these girls so much power. you went on two dates with this girl and she has you sprung.