That dead silence after the second date be the WORST! Edit: update in OP :francis:

[JLova]

If you're active in the dating scene, this shyt just comes with the territory. Keep it moving.

 

[Commish]

OP..

I am sure you know how it goes...

However, do not think something is wrong with you nor accept anyone tell you that you did something wrong. fukk that!

Chemistry is what it is. Many people will mentally check out on people they go out with if there isn't an instant spark.

As for this woman, of course she isn't gonna tell you that she wasn't feeling you because she didn't wanna hurt your feelings and all that nonsense.


Look at it as just another experience to learn from. Also, she did you a favor. If she already acting funny style with you, just imagine what type of bs you could have went through with her had she attempted to play it cool and continue to go out with you.

Charge the experience to the game and get ready for the next woman. Eventually, you will find someone who is digging you and either you will dig her as well or not dig her. Comes with the territory.

Stay up & stay strong!

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

80% of women with broken hymens, have never been taken out on dates

 

[number21]

Move on nikka.

 

[Rozay Oro]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

And then the next day you barely hear anything

Suddenly the texts aren't coming in as fast and you feel the energy changing

The tone is much different, more sanitized

You ask how she is feeling about things and where do we go from here, and she ignores the question and talks about something else

Now you're left wondering what you said to fukk it up Even though you swore it went great . And she was feeling you hard as fukk after the first date but before the second

All this happened to me over the weekend, brehs. Her last reply was at 10am and I haven't heard back Date was Friday night.

It's over

Getcho ass on tinder. You have to talk to multiple women. That’s dating for ya my breh

 

[Goat poster]

Move on playa

you ain’t the one she choosing

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

You put shorty on a pedestal asking her when you gon see her again.

Waiting for a reply from her

if she’s half way decent you ain’t the only nikka she’s talking to. Play that shyt cool, talk to and date other women.

the nikka that she wants ain’t tryna Cuff her or asking her when he can see her next cause he got options on options.

Lol yeah I can see what you are saying. It probably did come off as me putting her on a pedestal.

And to answer your earlier question, when she asked me if there would be a second date I said, what do you think? And she asked again and I said yes.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

OP..

I am sure you know how it goes...

However, do not think something is wrong with you nor accept anyone tell you that you did something wrong. fukk that!

Chemistry is what it is. Many people will mentally check out on people they go out with if there isn't an instant spark.

As for this woman, of course she isn't gonna tell you that she wasn't feeling you because she didn't wanna hurt your feelings and all that nonsense.


Look at it as just another experience to learn from. Also, she did you a favor. If she already acting funny style with you, just imagine what type of bs you could have went through with her had she attempted to play it cool and continue to go out with you.

Charge the experience to the game and get ready for the next woman. Eventually, you will find someone who is digging you and either you will dig her as well or nor dig her. Comes with the territory.

Stay up & stay strong!

Yes it was fun while it lasted. It was fun talking to shorty late at night. I believed the chick when she said she talks to one person at a time I actually did get another girls number the day before we went out. Just had her as the prime person I was going after.

 

[Commish]

Yes it was fun while it lasted. It was fun talking to shorty late at night. I believed the chick when she said she talks to one person at a time I actually did get another girls number the day before we went out. Just had her as the prime person I was going after.

Breh, it's all good.

Women, like men, will tell a person anything that sounds good.

I see it like this..

People say that one shouldn't play games and you also hear people say that they don't play games. However, people do play games and will continue to do so until they decide not to anymore (whenever that happens????). Most people aren't gonna flat out tell you their M.O. unless they are fearless or simply dgaf.

We as men can't be concerned about whether a woman is talking to other men or not. It isn't our business nor do we have control over it. Our priority is how a woman who is in our presence or space treats us...

Yeah, you could have been the only one she was talking to at the moment she told you that shyt, but after she got off the phone with you, then she could have started talking to someone else telling him the same shyt.

But, at the end of the day, does it really matter if said woman wasn't feeling you?

Since she was acting funny style, then as far as I am concerned she signed her own death certificate with ya. She cease to no longer exist! *shrugs*

You said you got another woman's number, so work on her and keep getting other numbers until one of them gets on ya program!

I think you will be alright. I am sure you was low key feeling ol girl, but she isn't the one, so off she goes and another one takes her place..*shrugs again*

Respect!

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Breh, it's all good.

Women, like men, will tell a person anything that sounds good.

I see it like this..

People say that one shouldn't play games and you also hear people say that they don't play games. However, people do play games and will continue to do so until they decide not to anymore (whenever they happens????). Most people aren't gonna flat out tell you their M.O. unless they are fearless or simply dgaf.

We as men can't be concerned about whether a woman is talking to other men or not. It isn't our business nor do we have control over it. Our priority is how a woman who is in our presence or space treats us...

Yeah, you could have been the only one she was talking to at the moment she told you that shyt, but after she got off the with you, then she could have started talking to someone else telling him the same shyt.

But, at the end of the day, does it really matter I'd said woman wasn't feeling you?

Since she was acting funny style, then as far as I am concerned she signed her own death certificate with ya. She cease to no longer exist! *shrugs*

You said you got another woman's number, so work on her and keep getting other numbers until one of them gets on ya program!

I thinkyou will be alright. I am sure you was low key feeling ol girl, but she isn't the one, so off she goes and another one takes her place..*shrugs again*

Respect!

I really appreciate this. In the end none of it matters. What matters is she ain't willing to give me what I need, and so it's off with the next one.

 

[Commish]

I really appreciate this. In the end none of it matters. What matters is she ain't willing to give me what I need, and so it's off with the next one.

Yep! You didn't lose anything, but you did gain a lil more experience. Good luck with the next one!

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

2nd date goes "well". Everything seems to be going in your favor. You don't smash but you get a good night kiss . You ask if you will see her again and see says "I think you will! "

Everything about this was a red flag breh. Every single sentence

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Everything about this was a red flag breh. Every single sentence

Not smashing and her saying I think you will?

 

[wtfyomom]

you shouldve been fukked on the 2nd date or its over B, i know theres that 3 date rule supposedly but me personally in like 75 percent of cases that i hit it was 2nd date, the other 25 1st or 3rd

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

Yes it was fun while it lasted. It was fun talking to shorty late at night. I believed the chick when she said she talks to one person at a time .