The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[Neuromancer]

Who's saying nerds?

Dudes hype up girls as being fukkable all the time but will say a chick isn't wife able. Dudes will consistently say that you supposed to just fukk thots but not marry them...

HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT? How is a blowing the back out of thots but marrying a nice, wholesome girl any different than a girl getting her back blown out by thugs and marrying a nice, nerdy nikka?

Explain.

Both are wrong. It's basically settling. And that means that the person you end up with was not good enough for you until you had no other options or wanted to be pampered. That’s not particularly right on either side because you know damn well they weren't your first choice. My gf has been that girl a lot of her life and I've been that guy, second choices so we found each other and that's what needs should focus on.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

to keep it a buck black male nerds should just stick with white women.

black women nerdy or not ain't checking for y'all like that. now that the writer is searching for commitment after years of getting tossed around by "thugs" who else is better than the always available black nerd?

 

[Sam Davison]

Here's the thing, if you are a person who went after the thug (or the instathot), you had your fun. After you've been used by the thug (or the instathot) and you procreated with these individuals, don't come crying that you can't find a man or woman of quality when you were too busy turning your noses up at them.

While you're not obligated to give the the time of day, they're not obligated to rescue you or give you the time of day once you've been burned out. This isn't a Tyler Perry film where you're going to get saved. And this goes for both men and women.

 

[Mr Rager]

I have so many problems with this article. I'll get back to this after work

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

fukk dis old ass hoe

 

[Soon]

I used to work for a black nerd dating site and run a black nerd blog. Trust me when I say, the issue with both male and female black nerds is finding each other.

When you see these dudes can't make it with black girls, usually the only race they can interact with are whites. 9 times out of 10 they can't make with other races.

Notice the black nerds never go after Spanish, European (French, English, Italian, German), or Indian (Arabic, Middle Eastern) either.

But the popular narrative is black women love thugs, instead looking at the reality this person is going after black women they are not compatible with.

 

[Turbulent]

from reading the article, seems to me like she's now choosing the safe nerd because she's scared of being hurt. she's choosing mostly out of fear, not out of love/attraction. all it would take is for a smoother type of player (geeky type of player/thug) to come in the picture and she would drop the safe black nerd in a second. if as a man, you choose these types of chicks you'll be holding Ls for a while...

 

[roxxthe96er]

All these hoes love thugs

Race ain't no thing in this situation

 

[Neuromancer]

When you see these dudes can't make it with black girls, usually the only race they can interact with are whites. 9 times out of 10 they can't make with other races.

Notice the black nerds never go after Spanish, European (French, English, Italian, German), or Indian (Arabic, Middle Eastern) either.

But the popular narrative is black women love thugs, instead looking at the reality this person is going after black women they are not compatible with.

Not true. I've seen brothers like this with Asian women and Indian women. I live in NYC so it's not uncommon. I'm curious on your thoughts on the reverse. I did a podcast about black girl nerds and a lot of them seemed to date white dudes. Do you feel the same way?

 

[Soon]

Not true. I've seen brothers like this with Asian women and Indian women. I live in NYC so it's not uncommon.

Are these guys the beta male nerdy types?

 

[TEH]

1. The bad boy became the in style during the mid to late 90's. I hate when people act like the 90's was one year.
   
2. As someone who is far from a thug, conservative demeanor, reserved attitude irl, good grades but not a nerd I never had a problem with women. Then again I'm not ugly. I'm not a male supermodel dime (pause) but I'm not Flava Flav either. So I guess life balances things out. Besides that the girls that like only bad boys were never my type. I like a more balanced and sensible female who was raised with a strong and active father or at least a strong and active father figure in her life.
   
3. This woman has major issues ... I don't even need to say more ...

 

[Neuromancer]

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Are these the beta male nerdy types?

Define beta. You mean no looks money status? Not aggressive ? Not masculine?

 

[Soon]

Define beta. You mean no looks money status? Not aggressive ? Not masculine?

Are these guys the nerdy geeky types?

 

[Sam Davison]

Both are wrong. It's basically settling. And that means that the person you end up with was not good enough for you until you had no other options or wanted to be pampered. That’s not particularly right on either side because you know damn well they weren't your first choice. My gf has been that girl a lot of her life and I've been that guy, second choices so we found each other and that's what needs should focus on.

Basically, folks want an "in case of emergency break glass" dude or dudette. Maybe back when, that was possible however, things are different. People aren't satisfied at being that person that cleans up after disasters other people have had. I get tired of hearing how thugs (or the female equivalent) are for fun and once you've had your fill, you can get a Poindexter (or the female equivalent). People want to build together.

We all have our choices and the right to them however, folks have to live with this choices.

 

[Neuromancer]

This woman doesn't deserve to have what she ignored for so long, just like a thug don't deserve a good girl. She's also the unappreciative woman that she says causes black male nerds to not be perfect.