Yes. One of em is a former band mate and good buddy of mine.
The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance
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Depends on where you are. Are you referring to couples or the black men?
TheBigBopper
Banned
It's best to be a nerd with bad boy qualities, i.e. an Ivy League educated womanizing investment banker. Best of both worlds. Good girls are intrigued by your bad boy characteristics, hope that you will change and quickly become obsessed with you. Use with caution though 
Action Mike
All praise..
Get in the gym
Her whole article was just completely about herself, she doesn't give a damn where the original author was coming
In a sentence: I'm tired of thugs, now I'm in my 30s I want a black nerd that should appreciate me
Why do women want to change bad men?It's best to be a nerd with bad boy qualities, i.e. an Ivy League educated womanizing investment banker. Best of both worlds. Good girls are intrigued by your bad boy characteristics, hope that you will change and quickly become obsessed with you. Use with caution though
She has entitlement issues.
Her whole article was just completely about herself, she doesn't give a damn where the original author was coming
In a sentence: I'm tired of thugs, now I'm in my 30s I want a black nerd that should appreciate me
Prince Mongo
Banned
Or you could just be yourself. That "good guy, bad boy" shyt doesn't matter remotely as much irl as y'all folks make it seem on hereIt's best to be a nerd with bad boy qualities, i.e. an Ivy League educated womanizing investment banker. Best of both worlds. Good girls are intrigued by your bad boy characteristics, hope that you will change and quickly become obsessed with you. Use with caution though
TheBigBopper
Banned
Because bad boys excite them but they also know how much bad men can hurt them. The paradox is that once the bad boy is changed, the excitement is no longer there. It's best to always keep a woman on her toes.
This sounds like a mentally ill thing to believe.
Sam Davison
Pro
I think some women (won't say all) have been under the believe that they have the magic crotch. That once the thug gets a taste, he'll be helping old ladies across the street, feeding puppy dogs, planting flowers and giving toys to orphans. Some people are actually that silly. Of course, it's not all women. Many of them know to avoid these dudes.
Some of them think it's cool to be with these guys and that someone's going to be there to pick up the pieces because they hear folks like Deb Cooper and they think that they can do that. Truth be told, the older generation should be there to warn folks (men and women) about f'n up their future.
TheBigBopper
Banned
I basically described myself. Anecdotally, at least in New York, these kind of men seem to do best with women. Less cultured places may want a 100% thug.Being yourself is bad advice if the person receiving your advice has an unattractive personality.
How many "nerdy nikkas" have the opportunity to fukk thots and then marry a nice, wholesome girl?
Only the most attractive men can do that. Women can sleep with whatever type of man they're actually attracted to, then turn around and use "nerds" and nice guys for their money.
TheBigBopper
Banned
it's what I've experienced in my life and also what I've observed in the lives of others. Maybe I just know a lot of mentally ill, low self esteemed ass women. Either way, you exploit what you can to your advantageOkay, I'm on Broome Street trying to get into Jersey. You have a couple, they are in a romantic relationship. One is a black guy who is the nerdy geeky type and the girl is non-black/non-white. If I saw 100 of these couples, how many of the men will be the nerdy geeky types?
