The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[EpicStoryTeller]

Exactly. No difference. Just because females have more options doesn't mean they'll engage in more options.

Ain't. No. Difference.

Wow...so having a p*ssy doesn't give women more options over men when finding a partner? Just......I'm done

 

[Arishok]

Same scenario, getting dumped after a month, yes.

As long as you're staying consistent, I see you got stipulations though

 

[Bless't]

Why are her breasts bigger than her head? Lol

wow. Way to focus on one word instead of the whole post.

Cus nerds have giant breasts.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Be in decent shape, demonstrate value, have your financials in order, have a job. It's really that simple.

If she's not feeling you, she's not feeling you, it's not that serious.

The fact that this hippo is even given a platform to respond to the black dudes article is kind of insulting to my intelligence.

 

[EnzoG]

I'll hop off the sidelines for this argument been having conversations like this in the last few weeks with my girlfriend(who's black by the way) about our people and this subject and from someone who's been called a "black nerd" or "a guy who looks like i talk to white girls" i feel in my honest heartiest of hearts that in this day and age era,society whatever its just a damn label at this point. I would go as far as to say the shyt is in style which has been something long overdue but from hearing those terms i still do feel some sort of resentment towards black females for that sometimes they just expose themselves as girls who fukk with thug and dumb nikkas i would go as far to say they're a bit mentally ill yet these are the same chicks who consider themselves "Queens" and post pointless relationship memes ... And you have to wonder if black women who want these type of guys(thugs) what kind of examples were their parents setting for them in finding Mr.Right. Not saying all black women want thugs but there is something off with them if they want nikkas who ain't got shyt going for themselves and they act as if their style is about to cramped due to them dating a "black nerd".... My whole point is the fact if a black female is really out saying they're not attracted to those two quotations i stated above they're just really buying into the sterotypes placed on our race for years and not taking any initiative break them in their choices in men and then they wonder why they're at a crossroads wondering why they can't find a good man :rantover:...

 

[FSP]

If it wasn't for their dating preferences black women would be the sharpest group of people on the planet

 

[The Mad Titan]

Its easy to say keep sticking your hand into pond when your the piranha.



As a boy that went from little confidence to a man with full confidence I don't envy anyone that really struggles with it. Male or female, shyt is not as easy as man up and deal with it.....at the same time it is

It sucks that so many women especially black women are apathetic and turned off to a sector potential good black men because they aren't bristling with confidence. If a man grows with his woman's support, 9/10 he aint going no where..... alias Its a viscous viscous cycle.

 

[Consigliere]

I don't agree. I think effort itself is pretty subjective. Especially when it comes to dealing with personal issues

I'm willing to bet that anyone who describes themselves as nerdy or awkward hasn't put much effort into meeting sexual partners, regardless of how you define it.

Some of the more predominant themes of TLR after all the race baiting & gender warring is giving up on bad chicks, instathots, making cold approaches, talking to women, showing them attention, etc.

None of this sage advice on meeting your significant other comes from any real world experience or hard lessons learned and none it leads me to believe these guys are out in the real world making an effort.

 

[Art Barr]

That's not true...black nerds have a diverse pallet.

Actually the most diverse palette.
as they are actually more willing to explore racist segregated areas.
Looking for anything from an item to buy to acceptance.

Also, I am sick of these punk ass bytches.
Who actually did better than all the nerds in schools and are the fukk'n nerds.
Trying to make it like,....
since they had a cooch.
they were not nerds and were actually desirable.
When, real talk....they are wack simple minded book smart but lack real world intelligence types.
Who all fell for the prison economy okie doke.
As black men are being preyed on and, by black female college educated nerds.
Who by federal law are supposed to be educated in the creation of poverty.
All pretty much are single handedly plummetting all of black America into poverty.
by having children out of wedlock as some stick to the plan by twenty five poverty creation based narrative of.
Oh, if I am not married by the time I end school or twenty five.
I am purposefully getting pregnant and having a child.
Then, using traditionalism to vilify the purposefully undesirable.
I chose on purpose to take the blame via traditionalism.
All by her female based play to align with the government prison industrial complex and poverty creating mechanics.
All for eic, cs, and an all profit based life during her child bearing years.
Then, use traditionalism to try to play economic gamesmanship and also have black men jailed.
to prove they are right in their global psychosis.
Black women have done this and perpetrate.
the hood rich, live an all profit former dope boi wife meets project mentality ballin child support, eic, alimony check collecting auntie, who went to school.
That became the go to look for every women.
who sold her virtue and subscribed to the mentality for a check to the government.
Plus, the wannabe stature for every woman without a real actual cognitive actualized education.
To be enthralled by when it is an evil misguided and compromised traitor to peaceful prosperous human kind.
This is the type, all black women have all assailed to be like in general in America.
Then use traditionalism as a way to do it.
By placing blame on the wrong party when simple fact and reason says different.


Art Barr

Absence of reason is real,.....

 

[Blackout]

Its easy to say keep sticking your hand into pond when your the piranha.



As a boy that went from little confidence to a man with full confidence I don't envy anyone that really struggles with it. Male or female, shyt is not as easy as man up and deal with it.....at the same time it is

It sucks that so many women especially black women are apathetic and turned off to a sector potential good black men because they aren't bristling with confidence. If a man grows with his woman's support, 9/10 he aint going no where..... alias Its a viscous viscous cycle.

Yep a man getting a lot of confidence (when it comes to approaching women) and being able to approach a lot of women in general isnt something that promotes a man to be responsible, faithful nor financially stable.

 

[Gold]

Its easy to say keep sticking your hand into pond when your the piranha.



As a boy that went from little confidence to a man with full confidence I don't envy anyone that really struggles with it. Male or female, shyt is not as easy as man up and deal with it.....at the same time it is

It sucks that so many women especially black women are apathetic and turned off to a sector potential good black men because they aren't bristling with confidence. If a man grows with his woman's support, 9/10 he aint going no where..... alias Its a viscous viscous cycle.

Honestly... this is something i'm struggling with when it comes to my 2 little brothers (age 22 and 25)


Both are EXTREMELY smart, in... decent/ok shape, tall, kind, caring people. But after their experiences in college, they have 0 confidence. My younger brother (25) sometimes says stuff like "I'm not sure if I will ever get married "

I'm like... nikka why the hell not?

"Girls don't like me "

What girls do you even know? Everytime I invite you to out you refuse to come with

"Because they wont like me "

.....

Its a self-fufilling prophecy and its kinda painful to watch on the sidelines cuz its not like we are ugly or deformed or poor or unintelligent.

I just don't know how to get them believing in themselves again.

Everyone gets curved in college.... to see it affect them so much is just...

 

[Art Barr]

I'm willing to bet that anyone who describes themselves as nerdy or awkward hasn't put much effort into meeting sexual partners, regardless of how you define it.

Some of the more predominant themes of TLR after all the race baiting & gender warring is giving up on bad chicks, instathots, making cold approaches, talking to women, showing them attention, etc.

None of this sage advice on meeting your significant other comes from any real world experience or hard lessons learned and none it leads me to believe these guys are out in the real world making an effort.

We would like to believe that.
Except this new Gen does talk to females at a very high clip.
Yet things have changed breh.
Everyone is smashing sumfin and the base level of game available.
to the new Gen at such an earlier age of maturity.
Is progressed and a large brewing braintrust.
When judged on how much more they know sexually and socially as people who interact who had sex than the past gems.
In that tho, is the gross exaggeration from the prison economy system marketing.
That placed, quite a number and a few double hinged swords style variables of destruction.

All implanted into the very core of the male/female dialectic.
Which come from purposefull manipulation by the government during the creation of the welfare mentality era.


Art Barr

It is all connected.

 

[CinnaSlim]

They are being themselves. Problem is that self gets rejected and well that leado to a downward spiral. It's very easy to judge when you aren't the one who has to act or approach. But they shouldn't let women's opinion of them control their lives

Downward spiral meaning what? A change.
As far as your last part, correct. They shouldn't let other's opinions control them, which they did by going in a downward spiral so what's your point?

Sorry, I'm inclined to larger breasted women.
It shows in everything I do.

Nice art, my problem was more proportion than size, breasts are shaped like teardrops not perfectly circular balloons taped to the chest. There's some great tutorials on deviantart and tumblr.

Fine for the record I was attracted to a girl like this named Ashley in hs. Nerdy ect we talked all the time and I told her I was into her I was upfront. Even her mom knew and would talk to me like I was her son in law.. but she wanted to go back to dating her basketball playing crip ex instead of date me. It's what is is but don't give me a story like that when that's my type.

Thats anecdotal. :chloe: Why are you telling me this?
Either way, that's one chick. Just like you liked someone like her. I like nerds. My point is I was a weird chick that always looked younger than my age and I still dated people (black men).

Every one is weird to someone else. Not everyone is going to like you but most of the time it's not because of interests. It's because of the energy you give off. Some people will resonate and others will be repelled.
Desperation and self-loathing suck.

If someone doesn't want you, it shouldn't change your whole life. It's their loss. Be awesome and people will come. One of my friends is this short Jamaican DJ, he just did a TedxTalk in NY. Black Nerd Rants guy is a YouTube celebrity. When you are confident in what makes you unique, you stand out. People will call you weird but then they end up envying you or trying to mimic you.

Love those who love you, fukk those that don't. Very simple.

 

[Arishok]

Its easy to say keep sticking your hand into pond when your the piranha.



As a boy that went from little confidence to a man with full confidence I don't envy anyone that really struggles with it. Male or female, shyt is not as easy as man up and deal with it.....at the same time it is

It sucks that so many women especially black women are apathetic and turned off to a sector potential good black men because they aren't bristling with confidence. If a man grows with his woman's support, 9/10 he aint going no where..... alias Its a viscous viscous cycle.

My man isn't bristling with confidencebut he had enough balls to come up and give me the cold approach. I wasn't even smiling or giving him any indication that I was interested, my face was buried into my phone. That's all we, women especially black women, ask. Talk to us, flirt with us, ask for the number. You ain't gotta be superman for alot of us.

 

[Gold]

My man isn't bristling with confidencebut he had enough balls to come up and give me the cold approach. I wasn't even smiling or giving him any indication that I was interested, my face was buried into my phone. That's all we, women especially black women, ask. Talk to us, flirt with us, ask for the number. You ain't gotta be superman for alot of us.

preach...