The Awkward, Black Boy Nerd and Why He Deserves a Chance

[FSP]

I'm willing to bet that anyone who describes themselves as nerdy or awkward hasn't put much effort into meeting sexual partners, regardless of how you define it.

Some of the more predominant themes of TLR after all the race baiting & gender warring is giving up on bad chicks, instathots, making cold approaches, talking to women, showing them attention, etc.

None of this sage advice on meeting your significant other comes from any real world experience or hard lessons learned and none it leads me to believe these guys are out in the real world making an effort.

Define effort.

Is it meeting women or working up the courage to meet women? Those are two different things that may require the same amount of effort for two different people but perceived differently by an outside observer.

 

[MalikReloaded]

I got me a black male nerd and I'm within that age bracket

You telling me black female nerds only want thugs? They're dragging their thug boyfriends to conventions, getting them to cosplay, discussing comic/manga/anime interests? I find that hard to believe.

Almost as hard to believe as 70% of black mothers being unmarried and single despite none of them admitting to messing with roughnecks. It must be all these nerds and lames getting all those women pregnant

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

If a man grows with his woman's support, 9/10 he aint going no where..... alias Its a viscous viscous cycle.

Yes...very slippery indeed.


Sorry, couldn't resist....lololol....

 

[FSP]

My man isn't bristling with confidence but he had enough balls to come up and give me the cold approach. I wasn't even smiling or giving him any indication that I was interested, my face was buried into my phone. That's all we, women especially black women, ask. Talk to us, flirt with us, ask for the number. You ain't gotta be superman for alot of us.

If the cold approach is a measurement of balls

then how do you discern the difference between being aggressive and being desperate? Which all women swear they don't like?

 

[Arishok]

Almost as hard to believe as 70% of black mothers being unmarried and single despite none of them admitting to messing with roughnecks. It must be all these nerds and lames getting all those women pregnant

Yes because all those women are nerds

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

If the cold approach is a measurement of balls

then how do you discern the difference between being aggressive and being desperate? Which all women swear they don't like?

EXACTLY!!!
Cause if you keep approaching them, they call you desperate or thirsty.
Don't approach them, you're a coward or not man enough.
Such a fukkin double standard...

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Almost as hard to believe as 70% of black mothers being unmarried and single despite none of them admitting to messing with roughnecks. It must be all these nerds and lames getting all those women pregnant

 

[Arishok]

If the cold approach is a measurement of balls

then how do you discern the difference between being aggressive and being desperate? Which all women swear they don't like?

Just coming up and starting a normal everyday conversation. "Hey I like your shirt." And go from there, those are the cold approaches I like and don't sound aggressive or desperate.

 

[Gold]

Yes...very slippery indeed.


Sorry, couldn't resist....lololol....

When I saw it, I wanted to post something like this, but I have too much self-respect

 

[Wild self]

Noone is stopping you from seeking them out. Well known how? Do you want them to have an IG? FB? so you can find them? Then you'd complain that nerds, too, were getting too much attention.

Too much whining going on here. Especially for someone who claimed to get alot of girls because he was tall and light skinned.

Telling the truth =/= whining. Of course you negligent because you benefit from this shyt, kinda how like white people benefit from white privilege.

 

[Blackout]

Telling the truth =/= whining. Of course you negligent because you benefit from this shyt, kinda how like white people benefit from white privilege.

True lol.

 

[The Mad Titan]

My man isn't bristling with confidencebut he had enough balls to come up and give me the cold approach. I wasn't even smiling or giving him any indication that I was interested, my face was buried into my phone. That's all we, women especially black women, ask. Talk to us, flirt with us, ask for the number. You ain't gotta be superman for alot of us.

And it worked out, which is great, but i dont buy that he isn't confident You don't walk up to a chick with a cold approach without having some confidence in yourself, more so than the guy that is trying to wait on the perfect situation to have strike up a conversation thats for sure.



But I do agree, most time all ladies ever want is a guy to be upfront with them without being rude.

 

[Consigliere]

Define effort.

Is it meeting women or working up the courage to meet women? Those are two different things that may require the same amount of effort for two different people but perceived differently by an outside observer.

They both take effort. Working up the courage and being able to accept and move on from rejection are definitely key tho.

Even the most successful playas get rejected all the time but they make up for it by being a volume shooter.

 

[Arishok]

And it worked out, which is great, but i dont buy that he isn't confident You don't walk up to a chick with a cold approach without having some confidence in yourself, more so than the guy that is trying to wait on the perfect situation to have strike up a conversation thats for sure.



But I do agree, most time all ladies ever want is a guy to be upfront with them without being rude.

I said he isn't bristling with confidence, not that he isn't confident at all.

 

[Taharqa]

"black woman dont like black nerds"

Just admit you want a non black woman and get on with your life. There's plenty of "nerdy" black women to choose from.